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Author: Deborah Carbone

Hi! I'm a Life and Relationship Coach with 5 years experience of coaching and training. I work with overwhelmed women guiding them through all kinds of life and career transitions so that they can make big changes in their lives. Writing is my passion and I am here to help you through every phase of your life. I hope you'll enjoy.
  • 7 Classic Santa Monica Adventures for First-Time Visitors
    Travel

    7 Classic Santa Monica Adventures for First-Time Visitors

    ByDeborah Carbone July 25, 2025July 24, 2025

    Santa Monica sparkles as one of California’s most beloved coastal destinations, where ocean breezes meet urban excitement. First-time visitors often feel overwhelmed by the countless attractions and activities this vibrant city offers. Whether you’re drawn to sandy beaches, bustling shopping districts, or scenic parks, Santa Monica delivers unforgettable experiences for every type of traveler. Get…

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  • 7 Vegas Diners That Serve Up Bigger Wins Than the Slots
    Food

    7 Vegas Diners That Serve Up Bigger Wins Than the Slots

    ByDeborah Carbone July 25, 2025July 24, 2025

    Las Vegas might be famous for its flashy casinos and spinning slot machines, but smart visitors know the real jackpots are found in the city’s amazing diners. While gamblers lose money hoping for lucky sevens, food lovers discover incredible meals that guarantee satisfaction every single time. From classic comfort food to unique local favorites, these…

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  • 9 Things Independent Women Look For In A Partner
    Strong women in relationships

    9 Things Independent Women Look For In A Partner

    ByDeborah Carbone July 4, 2025June 30, 2025

    If you’ve ever wondered what makes independent women tick when it comes to choosing a partner, you’re in for a treat! In this blog post, we’re unveiling the top 9 things independent women look for in a partner, and trust us, these aren’t your run-of-the-mill criteria. We’re talking about qualities that go beyond the surface…

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  • How To Recognize Ungrateful People And 4 Ways To Deal With Them
    Life guide

    How To Recognize Ungrateful People And 4 Ways To Deal With Them

    ByDeborah Carbone June 16, 2025June 12, 2025

    There are so many ungrateful people that it’s almost considered to be a virtue. Being ungrateful is surely not a virtue, and having an ungrateful heart can do you more harm than good. Ungrateful people are not happy people and you have probably realized that if you know some of them. Are you tired of…

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  • 10 Qualities That Make Her Wife Material
    A happy marriage

    10 Qualities That Make Her Wife Material

    ByDeborah Carbone April 27, 2025May 13, 2025

    We have all heard the phrase, “wife material”. This can mean any range of things and does vary from person to person as to what they feel is someone that is wife material. You yourself might value something like cleanliness as a viable and important element in determining if someone is wife material while another…

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  • 14 Signs He’s In Love With Someone Else
    Cheating partner

    14 Signs He’s In Love With Someone Else

    ByDeborah Carbone April 23, 2025May 13, 2025

    Has your man been spending less time with you? If he talks about a female friend all the time, it could mean that he’s a cheater but if you are in a long-term relationship with your significant other, it might be worth saving. So, don’t rush to any conclusions until you have read these signs…

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  • 14 Reasons Why You Should Never Chase A Man
    The game of chase

    14 Reasons Why You Should Never Chase A Man

    ByDeborah Carbone April 21, 2025May 13, 2025

    You should never chase a man. Maybe you are desperate to find your Mr. Right but don’t make the same dating mistakes I made. You need to have a healthy amount of self-respect and prevent dead-end relationships. Stop chasing him, and he will come back. I didn’t realize this until I was 23 years old,…

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  • 10 Reasons Why You Should Stop Running Away From Love
    Ready for love

    10 Reasons Why You Should Stop Running Away From Love

    ByDeborah Carbone April 5, 2025May 13, 2025

    Are you running away from love? Maybe you are running away from someone you love… or running away from relationships altogether. There are many things that could be causing this but when a person goes through several romantic relationships, they have to come across a bad one. And if you have experienced heartbreak, it could…

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  • 260+ Of The Most Interesting Friend Tag Questions
    Friendship Sayings

    40+ Greatest Best Friend Paragraphs To Send To Your BFF

    ByDeborah Carbone September 12, 2024November 24, 2024

    There’s no better feeling in the world than when you have a BFF to share everything with so let them know how much you value your friendship by sending them best friend paragraphs. These best friend paragraphs are the most beautiful words about friendship that your BFF needs to hear from you. When you have…

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  • 23 Facts of Life You Should Not Ignore at Age 23
    Life lessons

    23 Facts Of Life You Should Not Ignore At Age 23

    ByDeborah Carbone August 30, 2024November 24, 2024

    On the anniversary of my 23rd birthday, I realized that life has been so unfair to me. I found myself in a situation of an unsustainable job, a failing relationship, a financial mess, and anxiety. The following year was no different. We graduated and were thrown into the labor market, having incurred huge student debt,…

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  • 22 Powerful 444 Tattoo Ideas That Symbolize Divine Guidance
    Tattoos

    22 Powerful 444 Tattoo Ideas That Symbolize Divine Guidance

    ByDeborah Carbone June 19, 2024June 19, 2024

    The universe is always on a mission to send us hidden messages that we’re bound to recognize and decipher. Once you realize that you keep seeing a certain number, the chances are that you’re going to look into its meaning and possibly even ink it on your skin. Is that why you’re thinking of getting…

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  • 20 Unique Upper Arm Tattoos for Everyone’s Taste
    Tattoos

    20 Unique Upper Arm Tattoos for Everyone’s Taste

    ByDeborah Carbone May 23, 2024May 23, 2024

    Upper arm tattoos are some of the most popular ones out there, and for good reason. The upper arm is relatively painless to tattoo and provides ample space for the artist to draw both simple and intricate concepts. However, one of the hardest things about getting an upper arm tattoo is choosing the right design…

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  • 25 Epic Dragonfly Tattoos That’ll Bring You Positive Energy
    Tattoos

    25 Epic Dragonfly Tattoos That’ll Bring You Positive Energy

    ByDeborah Carbone May 23, 2024July 8, 2024

    A bug tattoo done well can make you truly appreciate the tiny animals and everything they represent. Whether you’re a seasoned bug enthusiast or simply want to explore your options before you commit to permanent body art, dragonfly tattoos might be on your radar. Dragonfly tattoos might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but they’re…

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  • 20 Attractive Bicycle Tattoo Ideas For Outdoor Aficionados
    Tattoos

    20 Attractive Bicycle Tattoo Ideas For Outdoor Aficionados

    ByDeborah Carbone May 23, 2024May 23, 2024

    The feeling of getting on your bike and exploring nature while the wind plays with your hair is something that can’t be described. If the bare thought of it brings you excitement and makes you smile then getting a bicycle tattoo is the right decision for you. Whether you’re an amateur cyclist or serious about…

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  • 25 Spectacular Shin Tattoos That Are Worth The Pain
    Tattoos

    25 Spectacular Shin Tattoos That Are Worth The Pain

    ByDeborah Carbone May 17, 2024May 17, 2024

    Shins are oftentimes overlooked when referring to prime real estate for tattoos, but they’re beaming with the potential to look really cool. Between the awesome amount of surface area and the ability to be covered up when necessary, your shins are going to become your BFFs next time you schedule an inking appointment. Before you…

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  • 7 Cute Love Stories To Tell Your Girlfriend That Will Make Her Smile
    Words for her

    7 Cute Love Stories To Tell Your Girlfriend That Will Make Her Smile

    ByDeborah Carbone January 21, 2024January 21, 2024

    Are you looking for some amazing stories to tell your girlfriend? These interesting stories to tell a girl are exactly the thing that will make her smile. There are some funny stories to tell your girlfriend that will make her laugh, but some of them are simply romantic. Whichever one you choose, I’m sure that…

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  • Will He Ever Come Back After Dumping Me 10 Reason He Might Come
    Reconciliation

    Will He Ever Come Back After Dumping Me? 10 Reasons He Might

    ByDeborah Carbone January 21, 2021June 2, 2023

    The obvious question most of us ask ourselves when experiencing a breakup: Will he ever come back after dumping me?  The period after your boyfriend broke up with you can be challenging to endure, especially if you were in a serious relationship. The post-breakup emotions can take a toll on your mental health as well…

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  • What If My Ex Doesn’t Contact Me During No Contact?
    No-contact rule

    What If My Ex Doesn’t Contact Me During No Contact?

    ByDeborah Carbone September 28, 2020December 12, 2023

    I applied the no contact rule to my ex, but what if he doesn’t contact me during that time? Does that mean it’s over between us? If these questions are on your mind, I will be happy to answer them. The truth is, when I wanted to use the no contact rule to get my…

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  • A Letter To The Man Who Hurt Me The Most
    A letter to someone who hurt you

    A Letter To The Man Who Hurt Me The Most

    ByDeborah Carbone September 21, 2020May 30, 2023

    Writing this letter to my boyfriend, expressing the hurt feelings I had when I was with him, and remembering that pain I went through wasn’t easy for me. Try writing a letter to someone who hurt you badly, and you’ll see what I’m talking about, but it will probably end the same way as the…

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  • How To Stop Caring About Someone Who Doesn’t Care About You
    When love is gone

    How To Stop Caring About Someone Who Doesn’t Care About You

    ByDeborah Carbone September 16, 2020June 19, 2023

    You know that you need to stop caring about someone who doesn’t care about you, but you don’t know how. It can be hard, but there are some simple steps that will help you get through this. It’s hard enough to realize that this person doesn’t love you back, let alone learn how to stop…

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  • 250 Questions to Ask Your Lover To Connect On A Deeper Level
    Emotional connection

    250 Questions to Ask Your Lover To Connect On A Deeper Level

    ByDeborah Carbone August 12, 2020June 19, 2023

    The best relationship of your life will be the one where your partner is ready to answer all the relationship questions that you ask them. This greatest collection of questions to ask your lover will make date nights much more interesting. Whether you’re looking for questions to ask your boyfriend or questions to ask your…

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  • 30+ Long Paragraphs For Him That Will Melt His Heart
    Words of affection

    30+ Long Paragraphs For Him That Will Melt His Heart

    ByDeborah Carbone July 2, 2020May 15, 2023

    Long paragraphs for him consist of the sweetest words there are, which your boyfriend deserves to hear from you. Paragraphs for your boyfriend are actually the things you’ve been meaning to tell him, but you didn’t know how. Now it’s easy, because all you have to do is copy these long paragraphs for him and…

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  • 21 Romantic Love Letters For Him That Will Touch His Heart
    Love letters

    21 Romantic Love Letters For Him That Will Touch His Heart

    ByDeborah Carbone May 30, 2020February 4, 2023

    In this time of texts and messages on social media, don’t you ever stop and think how much simpler things were when people were sending letters? Letters have a special meaning, especially if they are love letters, so be sure to check out our collection of the most emotional love letters for him. When you…

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  • 10 Signs Of An Unhealthy Attachment (And How To Let Go)
    Attachment styles

    10 Signs Of An Unhealthy Attachment (And How To Let Go)

    ByDeborah Carbone March 1, 2020November 28, 2023

    All human beings form close relationships with others and it can be their romantic partner, friends, and family members. The way we form these relationships is called our adult attachment style. An unhealthy attachment can harm your mental health, and it’s time for you to take care of your own life. That is why this…

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  • Are You A Restless Spirit? Here Are 10 Characteristics Of Restless Spirits
    Types of people

    Are You A Restless Spirit? Here Are 10 Characteristics Of Restless Spirits

    ByDeborah Carbone January 25, 2020July 5, 2023

    Do you know what a restless spirit is? And I don’t mean the band that released the Lord of the New Depression album last year. But that title does say something about the meaning of a restless spirit. In fact, it could be said that a restless spirit is a lord of the new depression,…

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  • Are You Unlucky In Love? Find Out 7 Ways To Change Your Luck
    Giving up on love

    Are You Unlucky In Love? Find Out 7 Ways To Change Your Luck

    ByDeborah Carbone January 18, 2020July 5, 2023

    I have always been lucky at cards but unlucky in love but instead of testing my luck in Vegas, I decided to put my best efforts into improving my love life. Bad luck has to stop eventually, but you can make it stop right now. So if you are unlucky in love, keep reading and…

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  • 365 Reasons Why I Love You For Every Day Of The Year
    Words of affection

    365 Reasons Why I Love You For Every Day Of The Year

    ByDeborah Carbone January 12, 2020September 12, 2023

    Reasons why I love you are a great way to express your love. You can write them on a calendar, by writing the reasons why I love you for every day of the year, or you can write one on each page of a notebook. Maybe you will choose to write them on pieces of…

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  • How To Recognize An Intense Person (20 Signs You Have An Intense Personality)
    Types of people

    How To Recognize An Intense Person (20 Signs You Have An Intense Personality)

    ByDeborah Carbone January 11, 2020June 26, 2023

    What is an intense person like? An intense person is someone who has very strong feelings and tends to take things seriously but it is also someone who does things with passion. They are those who don’t take a long time to open up and they cogitate on thoughts for hours. Sometimes they even plan…

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  • The 23 Best Bedtime Stories For Girlfriend
    Words for her

    The 23 Best Bedtime Stories For Girlfriend

    ByDeborah Carbone December 13, 2019February 3, 2023

    Why are bedtime stories for girlfriend important? Reading before bed has been a norm for ages. It is also a perfect way to bond with your girlfriend. It’s not just about the story but also the lulling sound slowly taking her to slumberland. If that is your voice you can be sure you’ll be in…

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  • If He Truly Wants You, Nothing Will Stop Him From Pursuing You
    Pursuit

    If He Truly Wants You, Nothing Will Stop Him From Pursuing You

    ByDeborah Carbone December 6, 2019June 19, 2023

    Whether we like it or not, the truth is that when a man wants a woman, he will keep pursuing her until he gets what he wants. But what is also true is that if he doesn’t want you, you won’t be able to do anything to make him stay. If he truly wants you,…

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  • 15 Signs Of An Insecure Man
    Insecure men

    15 Signs Of An Insecure Man

    ByDeborah Carbone October 17, 2019February 1, 2023

    I don’t know are you aware of this but men can be insecure too! And what’s worse, unlike us, they have to hide it by acting confident and strong, because the most important thing for them to prove is that they are big strong men. When it comes to insecurities and talking about them, everyone…

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  • 13 Signs of Insecure Women
    Insecurity

    13 Signs Of Insecure Women

    ByDeborah Carbone October 17, 2019April 10, 2023

    Don’t you envy those women who seem to have it all? They walk proudly with their heads high and always know what to say. It looks like they never have to worry are the pretty enough, good enough, or capable enough to accomplish great things in life – in fact, it seems like they already…

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  • To Every Girl Who's Ever Thought 'She's Prettier Than Me'
    Insecurity

    To Every Girl Who’s Ever Thought ‘She’s Prettier Than Me’

    ByDeborah Carbone October 17, 2019July 5, 2023

    Somebody once said that all the women who know they are pretty are ugly, and all women who believe they are ugly are not pretty, and there is truth in that. Women check out other women more often than men do, but for a different reason – we check out, “is she prettier than me?”….

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  • 8 Reasons Why Your First Love Is True Love
    True Love

    8 Reasons Why Your First Love Is True Love

    ByDeborah Carbone January 30, 2018July 5, 2023

    Your first love is true love. Now that you have read that statement, do you agree with it? Well, let’s think about it. As soon as you read that statement, you probably remembered your first love, just like the memories of my first love came back to me as soon as I wrote it. The…

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  • signs he secretly misses you
    Men and emotions

    11 Signs He Secretly Misses You

    ByDeborah Carbone January 24, 2018January 31, 2023

    When a man misses you, he won’t always say the words, “I miss you.” Still, you will be able to see signs he misses you. Your love life might have gotten complicated because of a long-distance relationship or maybe you are wondering if your ex misses you. Your love life isn’t the same without him…

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  • This Is Why You Should Choose The Man Who Loves You More
    Dating advice

    This Is Why You Should Choose The Man Who Loves You More

    ByDeborah Carbone January 6, 2018July 5, 2023

    Choose the man who loves you more because he’ll be selfless. He won’t make decisions without consulting you. He won’t do what’s best for him without taking what’s best for you into consideration. He won’t only care about his pleasure in the bedroom because he’ll be busy making sure you’re having a great time too….

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  • having to be strong
    Still human

    I’m Tired Of Having To Be Strong All The Time

    ByDeborah Carbone December 15, 2017July 5, 2023

    Tired doesn’t even begin to describe it, really. This exhaustion I feel in my bones, my body, my heart and soul, but mostly in my head, is impossible to describe. I am sick of having to be strong. I am sick of pretending nothing is wrong. I can’t keep pretending anymore that my life isn’t…

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  • A Letter To My First Love
    Love letters

    A Letter To My First Love

    ByDeborah Carbone December 7, 2017March 28, 2023

    I’ve been meaning to write a letter to my first love for a long time, but I simply wasn’t ready. Even though so much time has passed since we parted, it just hurt too much that he wasn’t my last love as well. This letter to my first love is here to help me finally…

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  • 19 Signs That Say He's A Keeper
    The right one

    19 Signs That Say He’s A Keeper

    ByDeborah Carbone December 2, 2017July 5, 2023

    You’ve fallen deeply in love with this man, and you think that he may be the one for you, but how to know if he’s a keeper? Even though it all depends on what you’re looking for in man, these signs he’s a keeper will help you figure it out. He makes you happy and…

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  • 10 Signs You're Definitely More Than Just Friends
    More than friends

    10 Signs You’re Definitely More Than Just Friends

    ByDeborah Carbone December 2, 2017July 6, 2023

    It is not a rare occurrence to have your friendship evolve into something more than it was. Maybe you never even dreamed of it, but somehow, it happened anyway. Here is how to know you’re definitely more than just friends. 1. Calling each other and texting has become your daily/nightly ritual. Your days do not…

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  • he won't let you
    Complicated relationship

    This Is Why He Won’t Let You, Even If He Doesn’t Want You

    ByDeborah Carbone November 15, 2017March 14, 2023

    Your relationship might be on-again/off-again. Or you want something serious with him, but he keeps avoiding the topic or has openly told you he is not looking for a relationship. The moment you become fed up with his behavior and you try to be over him, he is all over you. You are most irresistible…

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  • you're an option, not a priority
    Being an option

    11 Signs You’re An Option, Not A Priority

    ByDeborah Carbone November 11, 2017May 25, 2023

    Very often it can happen that we become so mesmerized with a person, we will let them in our lives and our hearts, never even stopping to think what could go wrong. By the time we realize that they have been presenting themselves falsely and they are not at all how they seem, the damage…

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