14 Signs He’s In Love With Someone Else

14 Signs He’s In Love With Someone Else
Written by Deborah Carbone

Has your man been spending less time with you? If he talks about a female friend all the time, it could mean that he’s a cheater but if you are in a long-term relationship with your significant other, it might be worth saving. So, don’t rush to any conclusions until you have read these signs he’s in love with someone else and talk to your friends about it too. 

There could be a number of reasons why he has stopped doing the little things he used to do but if he can’t stop texting a new woman in his life, you’re no longer his number one. Remember that a cheater doesn’t have to have a physical relationship because there’s also emotional cheating. So, how to know if he’s in love with someone else?

Pay attention to the telltale signs that relationship experts claim show that he’s falling in love with someone else. Does he flirt with a co-worker? Pay attention to his body language when he’s around her and notice their eye contact. 

Do you two still cuddle, and do you hold hands in public? If he talks about a female friend all the time and spends less time with you, it’s a clear sign. Still, it’s possible to feel physical affection without becoming a cheater but don’t forget what I said about emotional cheating. If he can’t stop thinking about a new woman, he will show signs he’s in love with someone else.

Nevertheless, relationship experts say that a long-term relationship with your significant other might be worth saving. Maybe he does have strong feelings for a woman who has become his confidante but that doesn’t make him unfaithful just yet but there are a number of reasons why these strong feelings appeared in the first place. 

Falling in love with someone else doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants to have a physical relationship with that woman but he will have to end all contact with her if he wants to stay with you so there will be no more secret texting. That is, of course, if he wants to stay with you. Have your best friends help you get through this tough period.

If your man has stopped doing the little things he used to do and in addition, he avoids holding hands with you in public (which may be because he doesn’t want others to know you’re a couple), they are clear signs that you’re no longer his number one. 

His body language will be a good sign of physical attraction toward someone he has intense eye contact with. If he is the kind of guy who flirts on social media and isn’t afraid to flirt with anyone, maybe he has a problem that you two need to talk about. In any case, your best friends can give you advice about the telltale signs you’ve been seeing.

Still, you don’t have to rely just on them because I am here to tell you how to know if he’s in love with another woman. Read this article to find out all the signs he’s in love with someone else.

14 signs he’s in love with someone else

1. He is no longer interested in you like he was

This is an obvious sign that your partner has fallen in love with someone other than you. If he was still interested in you, he would have made an effort to be close to you, both emotionally and physically. 

So, if he isn’t doing that with you, he might be doing it with someone else. If he no longer listens to you when you talk or your sex life has been neglected, it’s very likely that he is actually interested in someone else.

2. There’s a lack of a physical connection

If your man no longer enjoys cuddling or having sex with you, these are signs he’s in love with someone else. Does he still kiss you goodbye? Is he interested in sex? Do you cuddle? If the answer to all three questions is no, then I’m sorry to tell you, but your man might have fallen in love with someone other than you. 

A physical connection is not the most important part of a relationship, but it definitely is important. When a man loves you, he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you so if your situation is different, there is likely a problem in your relationship.

3. He constantly talks about someone else 

There are subtle signs, but this one is not so subtle. If your man has fallen for someone else, he won’t be able to hide it. After all, that person will be on his mind constantly. All of us like to regularly talk about the person we have fallen in love with and your man is no different.

Even though he will try to hide it, her name will start coming up in random conversations. It won’t be so easy for him to control himself, and he will show signs he’s in love with someone else.

4. He is no longer open with you

Like every couple, you two probably used to talk about anything and everything. You shared your deepest fears, dreams, thoughts, and feelings with each other. Still, somehow, that has suddenly stopped. If he has stopped being open with you, there seems to be a problem. 

Relationships should be about sharing everything. Has he changed? Well, it’s probably because he has found someone else to confide in. This is a serious problem, and no one likes to see this subtle sign that their partner likes someone else.

5. His phone is blowing up

Is your man texting another woman when you are not around or even when you are? Well, it definitely seems like his phone is blowing up. If in addition, he acts shady when you ask him about it and doesn’t answer calls when you’re around, I’m sorry to tell you, but it’s one of the clear signs he’s in love with someone else. 

Try asking him who is calling and see how he reacts. If he acts suspicious and can’t answer that fast, there’s something going on. Why wouldn’t he tell you if it was his friend calling? It’s because the person on the other line is much more than a friend and he wants to hide it from you.

6. He is suddenly busier

Has your man been unusually busy lately? He probably has time for you only when it’s convenient for him and that is a major red flag. It gets a lot more suspicious if he is especially unavailable on weekends and in the evenings. They are the times when people are usually done with work, and they often use it for dating. This is one of the signs he’s in love with someone else. 

After all, what else could have turned up in his schedule that he can’t tell you about? Get ready for a lot of lame excuses because this guy is doing something very suspicious. Don’t ignore the red flags.

7. He acts differently around someone you are suspicious of

If there is a specific girl in his life that you are suspicious of, notice how he acts around her. Does he change his behavior or act nervous around her? It could be a sign that he cares for her more than he should. 

Notice if he acts more manly around her or messes up his words. Remember how he used to act around you when you two started dating. Does he now act the same way when he is around her? If so, you don’t need a bigger sign that he has fallen in love with her.

8. He is especially focused on her on social media

In these modern times, it’s normal that the Internet can cause problems in a relationship but don’t take this as a sure sign if it’s the only one. But if you are suspicious of a certain woman, it’s not a bad idea to check out her profiles. Is he especially focused on her? 

By that, I mean are there a lot of his likes and comments on her profiles? Again, don’t take this as a sure sign cause it could be completely innocent since they could just be friends. However, if you see a lot of the signs I have mentioned, this can be taken as an additional one.

9. He takes everything the wrong way

Is your man acting defensively? Perhaps he acts short-tempered at even the most innocent questions you ask him. The reason for this may be the guilt that has been piling up, making him feel frustrated. When he is hiding something, his natural defenses will come up. 

So, be very concerned if your man has suddenly started acting moody. He may go crazy if you confront him, but that’s not a way to be in a relationship. There is no place for such negative emotions in your relationship and he can’t blame you for the guilt that’s eating him up.

10. You think he would rather be with someone else

When you two are together, do you get the feeling that he would rather be with someone else? A man who loves only you wouldn’t be bored in your company and hurry to ‘get it over with’. 

The only explanation as to why he’s acting that way is that he would rather be with someone else. Everyone would prefer being with the person they love so if your man doesn’t love to be with you but acts as if he would prefer to be with someone else, this your cue that something’s off.

11. He doesn’t spend money on you

When you’re buying flowers for the woman you love, don’t forget about your wife. It’s a joke, but it’s also a well-known fact that the other woman always gets more expensive presents than the wife. In a healthy relationship, you will get presents from a man ‘just because’ but if your man isn’t willing to spend a dime on you, it probably means that he’s spending it on another girl. Consider how things used to be and compare them to how they are now. If he was giving you gifts before but now doesn’t want to even pay for dinner, there’s a problem.

12. He is trying to find an excuse to end the relationship

If your man has realized he has feelings for another woman, he will have the need to end things with you. Of course, he won’t be man enough to tell you the reason to your face so be ready for a lot of lame excuses as to why your relationship isn’t working out anymore. He might even get mean or aggressive to make himself feel better. 

A lot of men who cheat start hating their girlfriend even though it’s not her fault so if your man starts projecting guilt onto you, don’t let him. You deserve to be treated with respect, and he should be man enough to tell you the truth. Remember that you don’t have to take his bad behavior. There’s nothing wrong with you or your relationship, there’s something wrong with him.

13. He doesn’t want to be seen with you in public

You’d think that this would be something that only applies to the other woman, but no. He won’t want others to see you as a couple because he wants to be with another girl so instead of just hiding her, he will start hiding you as well. 

After all, his feelings for the other girl matter more to him than his feelings for you. You’ll see this when he starts avoiding holding your hand when you walk down the street. He is actually confused about which relationship he should be hiding.

14. You have the feeling that he’s being unfaithful

When a woman is being cheated on, she can sense it. Many claim that women actually know it right from the start but it’s hard to accept it, so they ignore their gut feeling. Don’t do that. If you suspect that your man is being unfaithful, do something about it. 

First, make sure that it’s true. If it turns out it is, see whether you can forgive him or if it’s too late. You shouldn’t let him treat you like that, though. If he is in love with another woman and doesn’t want to do anything about it, you know what to do… Leave him.

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