When a woman truly loves a man, she gives her utmost attention to him. That unconditional love comes from her pure heart.
But a man who uses those beautiful and pure things against her will certainly lose her.
What happens when a man realizes he’s lost a good woman?
Does he regret it and chase her back? Or does he continue with his life as though nothing happened?
Let me clarify something first. Guys are human beings with emotions too. They do feel things, just not with the same intensity as women do.
They do feel pain and regret, but in most cases, they don’t realize what they’ve done before it’s too late.
Maybe the guy won’t see that he’s made a mistake right away. However, sooner or later he will.
At first, he may think that he’s freed himself from the burden he’s been carrying for a long time.
He may even believe that he’ll find someone better. Someone that will provide him with the love he thought he deserved.
But that day will never come. He’ll only wake up from those crazy dreams and find himself facing the harsh reality that you aren’t with him anymore.
That’s when he’ll find out that the kind of love you had only happens once.
And that’s when he’ll find out the true magnitude of his actions.
Men easily get complacent when they’re seeing gorgeous women. It’s a well-known fact that men are visual people.
That’s why sometimes he doesn’t see the consequences of his actions. He becomes mesmerized by the grace and beauty of that woman.
So, what if you poured your heart into him and never expected that you’ll get this in return – him walking away like your love didn’t mean a thing.
You wonder if he’ll realize what he’s done. Trust me, he will.
When a man realizes he’s lost a good woman, he’ll certainly regret it.
You just have to be patient and give him some time to process the damage he has done to himself.
When a man realizes he’s lost a good woman, his perception of love will change.
Eventually, he’ll learn that the most precious thing he had was you beside him, but he let it slip away so easily.
There’s no coming back from that. You’ll be long gone and your heart will have healed from the wreckage he inflicted.
It’s not that hard to figure out what a guy thinks in his mind when he realizes he’s lost a good woman.
Love can teach people many valuable lessons about life. People learn so much when they lose the one who gave them everything.
Moments when a man realizes he’s lost a good woman
Here are the times a man comes to the realization that he made a huge mistake by breaking up with a one-of-a-kind woman.
1. When he meets someone who only cares about materialistic things
Don’t worry, the universe has its way of showing the people who broke us what they’ve actually done.
A man will realize he’s lost a good woman when he meets someone who values money over love.
This will absolutely crush him. And the reason for that is because it isn’t a relationship based on love.
To cope with the loneliness he has to face now after losing a good woman, he might get involved with a woman who only cares about what he possesses – how many cars he owns, fancy houses, and dinners at expensive places.
That isn’t true love.
He realizes that when he was with you, he had a girl who didn’t care about materialistic things.
In fact, you shared contempt for those who valued money over love.
And now he sees that. The one that only cares about material stuff will show him that you were unique and not like most people he knows.
He realizes now that he should have cherished you more.
He didn’t just lose you, but he finally realizes that no matter how much wealth you accumulate, it will only attract the wrong people.
That’s how powerful it can be to realize you lost a good woman.
2. When he has no one to share a deep conversation with
It’s difficult to deal with knowing you have no one waiting for you at home to share a deep conversation with.
He finally realizes what he has done. No more long, good conversations until sunrise.
You won’t be there waiting for him to come home from work and listen to how his day has been.
He’ll feel devastated because he won’t have you by his side anymore.
And he will realize it, trust me. It will strike him unexpectedly and hit him hard.
Everyone needs someone to confide to.
And he’ll realize how good of a woman you are when he has no one to listen to his jumbled thoughts like you did.
You always tried to help him find his way out of the mess he created. But you won’t be there for him anymore.
No one knows his heart the way you did. And it must be crushing knowing that the woman who knew how to calm his storms is now long gone.
3. When there’s no one who loves him the way you did
Heartbreaks are tough, but they teach us valuable lessons. There will come a point in his life when he’ll start longing for you.
Everything around him will start reminding him of you.
He’ll miss the way you laughed at his stupid jokes. He’ll start to miss your presence because he felt like you had his back at all times.
He will reminisce about the times when you two took a hike and the way the sun shone on your radiant face.
He will miss the way you put your head on his chest every time you watched a movie together. He’ll miss the way you loved him.
And it will crush him. He’ll try to get back to you but he won’t succeed. Your wounds will have long healed and you’ll be brave enough to say “no.”
When you’re in love, the whole world seems different and brighter. And with you by his side, he had everything.
You made every single thing better for him and now he’s longing for that touch of yours.
The world won’t embrace him as you did. And that’s when a man realizes he’s lost a good woman.
It will dawn on him that you were the one who gave everything into your relationship, and he’ll find out how rare it is to find someone that’s willing to do that.
It may take him some time to reach this understanding, but once he does, he’ll also know that there’s no returning to the way things used to be.
He’ll certainly regret turning his back on you.
4. When he discovers how rare a real connection is with another person
People will come into your life and leave it as they please.
But some will stay. Those who have your best interests at heart will stay by your side no matter how difficult it may get.
It’s one realization that is the hardest to bear, but it’s the most truthful.
A long time will have to pass before he figures out that what he had with you was special.
The connection that you two had was unique and beautiful, but now it’s gone.
He has to experience many failed relationships, many other heartbreaks before he realizes that the connection you two had was rare.
And he’ll get there, don’t you worry about it.
But you won’t be there to see him realize that. Your heart will be elsewhere.
And he’ll mull over how wonderful you could’ve been together only if he stayed with you.
5. When having friends isn’t enough anymore
Friends can be great company, yet there are times when you don’t need them by your side, but rather your loved one.
He’ll realize he’s lost a good woman when he needs someone to guide him and talk to him.
He’ll be struck by how much you actually gave to the relationship, and then he’ll start to miss you.
True friends will help you with your troubles, but they won’t be there for you when you have the need to feel loved.
Genuine love can only come from a person you share a rare connection with.
6. When he sees that people with a kind heart are very rare in this cruel world
Unconditional love is so hard to find. And that’s what you gave him thinking he’ll reciprocate. But he never did, and now he’s paying the price.
Instead of fulfilling your every need and listening to you every time you needed him, he took you for granted.
Eventually, he’ll realize that people with a kind heart are very rare and unique.
He had that, yet he threw it all away for some fling.
Genuine love is unconditional. You’re lucky if it happens once in your lifetime.
Nowadays, finding someone who loves you without asking for something in return is near impossible.
But he’ll realize what an amazing and beautiful woman you are once he sees how rare unconditional love really is.
It’s tough to find someone who is prepared to give you everything in life.
When he recognizes the true magnitude of what he has done, it’ll become too painful and he’ll try to get back to you.
7. When he figures out that there’s more to life than just parties
Crazy nights out and partying all weekend can be great and fun when you’re young, but at some point in his life, he’ll realize that there’s so much more in life than that.
Every man grows out of it.
Those are just temporary things that don’t have a special meaning.
Life is about finding that special person you can grow old together with and share similar opinions.
He’ll realize he’s lost a good woman because he’ll become aware that he had all of that with you. It’s his fault that you left, and not yours.
It’s hard to bring back something you didn’t appreciate enough when it was there.
Truth to be told, nothing will ever be the same again – for neither you nor him – but you’ll manage to pick yourself up and carry on with your life.
What about him?
When that realization hits, his values will change and he’ll realize he’s lost a good woman – for good.
8. When he discovers life isn’t worth much if you don’t have someone to love
The sadness will overwhelm him and he won’t’ be able to decipher the source of it.
His heart will feel empty and hollow, but he won’t know what to do to fulfill it.
Those materialistic things all mean nothing if you don’t have someone to love.
That’s when he’ll realize he’s lost a good woman – that your love was the only thing that should have mattered to him.
You were the one who filled his heart with genuine love.
But it will be too late.
You’ll be long gone because you know how unhappy you were in your relationship.
9. When he figures out that everyone around him is selfish
As I said before, everyone has their own agenda and sometimes they try to take advantage of you.
When he notices how cruel and selfish certain people can be, that’s when he’ll realize how selfless your love and compassion was.
He’ll regret all the times he took you for granted because he’ll know that only your love was unconditional and without any strings attached.
Your love for him was pure and magical yet he decided to throw it all away.
But he’ll come to the harsh realization that he’s lost a good woman.
10. When he admits he wasn’t the perfect boyfriend
Men have a hard time seeing their own mistakes because they think they’re perfect. But let’s face it, no one is.
So that’s why when he realizes that, it’ll hit him hard how badly he mistreated you.
Maybe he blamed you for the problems in your relationship. However, he’ll begin to realize his flaws as he grows into a mature man.
He’ll realize the stupid mistakes he made because of his immature behavior and decisions.
He’ll start appreciating the woman that once gave him all of her love, but it’ll be too late.
11. When no one is as patient as you were with him
Most guys overlook their flaws and don’t see how patient a good woman needs to be with them.
However, when a man realizes how patient she actually was, that’s when he’ll become aware that he wasn’t ready for her.
He’ll recognize that she loved him despite all of his flaws and mistakes, that she supported him, that he was always her top priority.
But he wasn’t ready to receive that kind of love.
What about you? What happens when a good woman is left by a man who’s unaware of her unconditional love?
Well, a woman who knows that she gave her best to love her man and still he left, uses that anger and pain as fuel.
She takes action once everything has settled down.
She uses the anger and pain that she feels like fuel to rise above the things that once tore her to pieces.
But that’s not all she’ll do. She’ll also recognize her flaws and work to improve on them.
She’ll make him regret his decision to leave her in the first place.
She won’t just improve her looks and search for new hobbies, but will be filled with a new-found sense of confidence.
When a woman gets hurt, she uses that pain as a guide to change into an even better woman afterward.
It will be too late for a man to do anything to get her back because he had his fair chance and he blew it.
She’ll not waste any time crying over someone who didn’t treat her the way a lady should be treated.
When a man realizes he’s lost a good woman, it’ll be too late for him to try to win her back because she’ll be stronger and smarter.
She won’t settle for a man who knows nothing about giving his utmost attention to just one person.
Being heartbroken means that you’ve been given another opportunity to become more resilient and amazing.
And she’s aware of that.
That’s why she’ll do everything she can to make a man realize it’s his loss and not the other way around.
She’ll be back on the dating scene in no time, and she’ll find someone who’ll appreciate her the way she deserves.
The day will come when she’ll think about the man just as someone who was there to teach her a valuable lesson.
And eventually, a better man will come along to show her what she’s been searching for all along.
Let’s face it, good women are like gold. They are truly rare and special. Other men will easily spot a good and beautiful woman.
When a man realizes he’s lost a good woman, she’ll be long gone and most probably already have found someone else worthy of her love.
What if your ex doesn’t realize how good of a woman you truly are? Can you make him regret losing you?
Actually, you can. You just have to give it some time and be patient.
Time will show him that the love you gave him was perfect because he’ll start comparing you to other women, which will quickly make him regret losing you in the first place.
So, it’s best to give it some time. You won’t have to wait for too long, don’t worry.
Focus on yourself, create a beautiful life, and be content. Don’t think too much about him.
Remember, you don’t need a man to be happy. It’s more about finding happiness within yourself in order to truly be content. Plus, it’s the best revenge tactic.
You just have to focus on yourself and make sure you chase happiness in your new post-breakup life.
You can’t lose by focusing on yourself.
Don’t just wait for him to realize it’s his loss and not yours.
You have to understand that your ex isn’t a part of your self-improvement plan.
You’ll make him regret losing you by going out there and living your best life.
When a man realizes he’s lost a good woman, he’ll certainly try to win her back. But you won’t be present in his life anymore.
Try to become the best version of yourself. Recognize your shortcomings and work on them.
Speak with your actions. Prove to him that you’re not settling for someone who’ll treat you any less special than you treat yourself.
It will certainly make him regret his actions and he’ll possibly start reaching out. But guess what?
You’ll be over him and not even bother replying to his messages. That’ll make him feel out of control. And men hate that.
Don’t stress. Trust me, give it some time and he’ll realize he’s lost a good woman.
It’ll hit him that nobody can compete with you. Nobody can replace the bond you two once shared.
He’ll figure out that nobody can calm him down and make his day better the way you did.
You’re truly one of a kind and replacing you with someone better is mission impossible.
When a man realizes he’s lost a good woman, he’ll try to win her but not succeed.
No one can measure up to the kindness of your soul and no one can provide him with the calmness like you did.
As for yourself, focus on your own happiness and try to find it elsewhere.
Don’t worry if another guy will ever realize what a good woman he has beside him because you’ll never settle for anything less than you deserve.
Losing you was the stupidest thing he ever did, and unfortunately, now he’s paying a heavy price.