Think aloud
When you’re dating a narcissist, your whole life turns upside down. You start to question your own self-worth, sanity, and the possibility of being loved by a guy.
However, after you go through the initial shock of dating a narcissist and once you give yourself time to heal emotionally as well as physically, the only thing that you can think of is how to make him regret leaving you.
You want him to feel how you felt the whole time, you want to make him suffer and go through hell, like you did. You start to wonder whether it’s even possible to make a narcissist regret leaving you.
Because of his actions, you want to see him miserable. You want to see him experiencing heartbreak just like you did, and most importantly, you want him to feel the emotional pain you felt because of him.
It’s completely normal for you to feel that way. No one should blame you for having the desire to make him regret leaving you.
This man, this narcissist, broke you down into a million pieces. He emotionally damaged you to the point where you believed that no one would ever love you again.
He destroyed your faith in love and you can’t believe how blind you were for loving such a man in the first place.
So, why would he deserve to be happy when you know he brought you to your breaking point countless times?
Why shouldn’t he experience the same emotional abuse as you did?
He doesn’t deserve your sympathy or you saying sorry to him because he never cared about you at all.
He never thought about how you would feel every time he opened his mouth and said a bad word to you.
And he was ruthless toward you. Your emotional satisfaction and well-being were never a priority to him.
So why would you be kind to him? He doesn’t deserve kindness or affection from you.
This guy deserves to feel the same way you did. He never thought of the consequences his actions would leave on you.
He was merciless and he needs to regret leaving you and making you suffer all this time.
You were in a dark place but you managed to bring the pieces of yourself back together.
You’re now absolutely sure that the only thing that could make you feel better is to get even with him and leave him broken, as you were once.
You want to see him suffering and begging for your forgiveness.
You want to make him regret leaving you and you’re in desperate need of that sweet, sweet revenge.
So, you start searching for ways to achieve your goal. You try to find the best option.
On the one hand, you could pretend that you still believe in his lies and deceptions.
And then start to use them against him and treat him the same way he treated you.
Or you could unveil all of his darkest secrets everywhere you go and make his life miserable.
You start brainstorming different ideas on how to make him regret breaking your heart and leaving you in a bad state.
You don’t want people to think that it was all your fault because it wasn’t.
People only believe that because he sweet-talks them and purposely makes them think that you’re the one responsible for all the bad things that happened.
However, the ugly truth is that you’re never going to change him or his ways.
It’s impossible to find a way to make him open his eyes and see how cruel he actually was toward you.
He’ll never face his misdeeds because he doesn’t believe that the things he did were wrong.
It’s very difficult and complicated to beat a narcissist at his own game. Some might say that it’s even impossible to do so.
The reason for that is that most of them are self-centered and very manipulative. They adore having all the attention on them.
So, my advice to you is to never behave like that.
You shouldn’t try to treat him like he treated you because that would mean that he won and that he brought out the worst in you.
Basically, it means that you went to the dark side, which is never a good idea.
The only way to make him regret leaving you is to leave him for good and by leaving, I mean walking away and never speaking to him ever again!
The worst thing you can do to him is not give him any attention and make him completely irrelevant to you. That’s what will hurt him the most.
You have to pretend as if he didn’t have any impact on you and your future.
You have to act like the words that he said didn’t mean a thing to you, even though he tried his hardest to manipulate and hurt you.
The best way to make a narcissist regret leaving you is to find happiness within yourself and be satisfied with your own life – WITHOUT HIM!
Narcissists love when they feel needed by someone else. They need to have that constant attention on them, as they feed off of it.
As soon as you take that attention away from him, it’ll destroy his ego and you’ll break him spiritually.
Make him feel irrelevant to you. That’s when he’ll know he’s replaceable and that your world doesn’t revolve around him.
He’ll see that his toxicity and deceptions weren’t fruitful at all and that his narcissistic behavior has been defeated.
And if you do that, despite everything he said to you, you’ll show him that you love yourself more than you loved him.
Be the better person, show him how kind and strong you are.
Put all of your effort into creating a new chapter for yourself and don’t ever lose faith in love.
The right one will love you with all of your flaws. He’ll be there for you no matter what and you’ll finally be treated the way you deserve.
Your love won’t be in vain and you’ll get to live your happily ever after.
