How to get a Taurus man back after a nasty breakup? Weren’t you supposed to find your happiness with a man born under the sign ruled by Venus?
You were so optimistic about this relationship, but things seemed to go really bad really quick. Even if you were together for years, you still feel like you fell apart so fast. You probably didn’t even see it coming.
So is there a way to get him back?
Getting a Taurus guy back isn’t always the easiest thing in the world. He’s an earth sign and because of that, he’s very rational. Even though he can recognize his emotions and communicate them, logic and common sense reign.
Of course, there is an entire natal chart that shows our personalities and you shouldn’t just rely on the Sun sign. But there are many similarities between people who have their Sun in Taurus.
They’re reliable, patient, practical, loyal, and stable. You’ll never see a Taurus who doesn’t have a plan for their life ready.
However, Bulls have another side to them. They’re known to be very stubborn and possessive. Their uncompromising nature makes it extremely hard to find a balance between your wants and needs, and theirs.
When you want to get a Taurus man back, you really have to believe in your compatibility and make sure that this is the path you want to take.
One good thing I can guarantee you is that your Taurus ex isn’t over you – not yet. He’ll need some time to adjust to being single and he’s still thinking of you.
That makes things a little easier.
How to get a Taurus man back
Sometimes, it might seem like there’s no way to catch his attention, but believe me when I tell you that you’ll find your way around this.
You’re more than capable of getting him back. Just remember that there’s always a certain boundary of your own that you should never cross.
Don’t blindly run after him.
Especially if you believe that the mask he’s putting on in front of other people isn’t a mask anymore. He’ll try to seem indifferent, but the very moment you realize it’s not an act, you need to move on.
A Taurus man might cry after your breakup, but he will never take you back if he thinks that he needs to move on. He’d rather choose crying over you than being with you if he believes that you’re not meant to be with each other.
1. Use the things he liked most about you
When trying to get a Taurus man back, you also need to consider the things that made him fall in love with you in the first place.
Was he mesmerized by your hair? Did he love your perfume? Was your style absolutely unique to the point where he couldn’t help but compliment you on it?
The first thing you must have realized about him is that he pays attention. Usually, men don’t notice these things. But a Taurus man is definitely the type of man who’ll notice it.
So use your knowledge to your advantage and seduce him one more time. Everything he liked about you can be used to get him back.
For example, if he liked your smile, the answer is obvious. Find a reason to smile. If he loved your voice, talk more when you know he’s listening.
He’ll remember why he fell in love with you in the first place and truly reconsider the decision he’s made. Why would he walk away from you if he’s constantly reminded how absolutely amazing you are?
2. Look good
Taureans are extremely visual beings. They love to look good and to be surrounded by good-looking people.
Their perspective on beauty might vary somewhat, but there’s probably a certain beauty standard that he has.
If you want to get a Taurus man back, always remember that you need to look your best. Even if you decide to wear sweatpants, make sure that it looks stylish.
Are Taurus men superficial? Probably, yes. But aren’t we all to some extent?
You can see this also in a Taurus woman. Everyone born under this sign will put a lot of effort into their looks as well as the men they date.
So make sure to always put effort into your appearance. He’ll appreciate it and want to be near you more often so that he can enjoy the view.
You’re more than your looks, of course. However, a Taurus man won’t see past appearance if you don’t look presentable.
3. Avoid criticizing him
One thing a Taurus male hates with a passion is getting criticized.
He knows about all the mistakes he’s made because he probably started overthinking it the very moment he did something wrong. He doesn’t need you to remind him of it.
You don’t need to see his flaws and point fingers at him whenever he makes a mistake, he all too aware of them already. A Taurus man needs you to see those flaws and love him with every single one of them.
Also, it takes two people to make or break a relationship.
If you start accusing him without seeing your own faults in it, you’re never going to get him back. We usually tend to point fingers to justify our failed past relationships.
This time, try to steer clear of the blame game. If he tries to trick you into saying anything that might blame him, see right through it.
You won’t get a Taurus man back by criticizing him. You’ll get him back by being understanding and also recognizing where you went wrong.
4. Be patient
It doesn’t matter if you were together for years or were casually dating and then decided to split up.
He’ll be super cautious about letting you back into his life. He knows that you hurt him once, so there has to be a really good reason for him to give you another chance.
Taurus is an earth sign, and just like a Virgo man or a Capricorn man, he’ll want to know if you’re someone he wants in his future because he already has huge plans for himself.
Letting an ex back into his life means giving something another try, which they’re not really prone to do.
He gave you a chance and he got burned. This only means that he’ll need much more time to figure out if he still wants to risk it again.
It’ll be worth the wait, though. He has gone through so many “what if” scenarios in his head and he still decided to love you. Because of that, it’ll be that much better once you do get back together.
5. Show him that you’re trustworthy
Don’t wait for him to speak up and tell you that he doesn’t find you trustworthy. He won’t outright tell you if he doesn’t trust you around other men or something like that.
He’s an introverted guy. When a Taurus guy likes you, it’s probably because he finds you worthy of his trust.
Once you break that trust, it’s over and done for him.
For instance, while you two were dating, you might have texted other men as well.
At the time, you didn’t think much of it because you weren’t officially together, but he took note and thought that you simply weren’t trustworthy enough for him.
Imagine how he felt when he found out that he wasn’t the only one for you, even though you were the only one for him.
He wants someone he can completely trust with his deepest and darkest secrets (as he doesn’t talk about them much) and trusting someone with those is very special to him.
When you have a Taurus boyfriend, you certainly won’t have to wonder if he’s cheating on you. He believes that’s the biggest sin one can commit. So he expects nothing less of you.
6. Subtly make him remember the time you spent together
If you’ve gotten to the point where you’re talking to him again, then subtly remind him what you two went through.
For example, if you had a favorite beach that you used to go to together, then snap a picture of it the next time you’re there. Post it on Insta and he’ll recall all the amazing conversations you once had, strolling along the water’s edge.
He’ll try his hardest to forget, but once you remind him of this, he won’t be able to stop thinking back on the beautiful memories you made there.
You can also do this, as previously mentioned, by wearing the clothes that he liked on you or wearing the same perfume he couldn’t stop himself from complimenting.
When you appeal to his senses and remind him of why he fell for you in the first place, he’ll reconsider his decision.
But you need to do this subtly. If you’re too blatant with this and you don’t try to hide the fact that you want him back, he might just find you annoying.
7. Don’t try to make him jealous
Jealousy might work on fire signs (Sagittarius, Aries, and Leo) to a certain extent. But on an earth sign, especially a Taurus man, you won’t get him back by trying to make him jealous.
In fact, it’ll just make things even harder for you. His stubbornness won’t let him see past that miserable attempt of getting him back.
Making him jealous just shows that you’re not trustworthy.
On rare occasions, it works. Men who think that they own you will go feral at the thought of someone else owning you. One of those fine examples is an Aries man.
But when it comes to getting a Taurus man back, you’ll want to stay away from other potential love interests altogether.
He’ll see it as a petty move to get his attention and it’ll only backfire. He might even end up thinking to himself, “What did I ever see in her?”
Your ex-boyfriend is a hopeless romantic, so it’ll only make him more depressed if you choose to use someone else to make him jealous. He doesn’t need that. He needs you to show him that he’s the only one for you.
8. Accept him for who he is
Is there a way to attract a Taurean? Well, let’s start by completely accepting him for the person he is!
And the same principle applies when trying to get a Taurus man back.
Taurarians are known for putting a lot of time and effort into their uniqueness. For some signs, like Aquarius, it comes naturally – they’re quirky and don’t try to hide their true self.
But a Taurus might have fought a battle to learn who he is and accept himself completely.
Relationships are made out of a long list of compromises. You have to consider who he is whenever you want to decide for the both of you.
For example, you might have been the more outgoing one in your relationship. You loved to go out and have fun with your friends. He would tag along – not because he enjoyed it, but rather because he wanted to make you happy.
So when he asked you to stay in and watch a movie together on a Saturday night and you didn’t want to, he was hurt. His introverted self needs that time at home.
Even though it might seem like he enjoys going out, believe me when I tell you that he wants to stay in much more.
You don’t have to be an astrologer to be able to see these things in every Taurus you meet.
A Taurus man wants to be seen for who he is and be able to express himself freely. So the next time he goes on about his action figures, don’t interrupt him. Let him show you his passions and interests.
If you don’t like that about him, then maybe he isn’t the guy for you.
9. Let him take his time
Expect him to take time to understand the situation you’ve both found yourself in. I know that you might want to call him up and confess your undying love to him, but think hard before doing that.
If you need to tell him about your feelings and intentions then, by all means, do it. But that also means that you will have to give him the time and space needed to process what you said himself.
When you do have this conversation, show him that you’re not pressuring him back into the relationship. Show him that you’ll wait for him and that you’re fine with him figuring things out at his own pace.
He’ll want to analyze your past experiences as well as your compatibility. You can’t just expect him to hop just straight back into things and figure it out along the way.
That’s not how you get a Taurus man back. You might get an impulsive Scorpio man with this mentality, but a Taurus is much more grounded than that.
Here is where his stubbornness also comes into play. If he made the conscious decision to walk away from you, he’ll need twice as much time as you might think to come back to you.
So don’t rush him. That’ll only deter him from the goal you have in mind.
10. Admit to your own mistakes and apologize
We’ve already said that a successful relationship needs two people who are willing to work on it together. If you’re just there to tell him that everything was his fault, it’s not going to work out.
You have to admit your own mistakes. What did you do wrong? Did you make him feel unwanted and not cared for?
Did you forget an important date? Perhaps you made assumptions about him that weren’t true and you fell apart because of it?
Only the two of you know what truly went down to cause such a fallout. You can’t really just blame him for everything that happened.
You’ve done some bad things in this relationship, for sure. What did you do? Really, honestly, think about it.
And when you’re ready go to him, admit to the mistakes you made, and sincerely apologize. You can’t expect him to move past everything and come back to you. He will need to hear that apology.
If you truly want to get this Taurus man back, you need to be ready to apologize sincerely. Otherwise, you can kiss your second chance goodbye.
11. Don’t be too needy
You want to spend time with him. That’s completely understandable. Taurarians have a certain energy to them that draws you in and it’s like you can’t get enough of him.
But isn’t that an extremely selfish reason? You need him to validate you, to spend time with you, which only benefits you.
You might want to pick up the phone every now and then just to see how he’s doing, but you’re not considering that it might come across as extremely needy.
Taureans are extremely independent. They can’t take care of you if you don’t take enough care of yourself.
You’re the one responsible for your own happiness and validation. If you expect a Taurus to do that for you, it won’t be long before he’ll walk away, never to see him again.
Instead of spamming him on social media, try to make a Taurus man miss you by actually showing him that you can have an amazing life without him.
12. Be generous with your compliments
With this little tip, it doesn’t matter if it’s obvious that you’re doing it because you want to get back together with him. It doesn’t matter if you’re trying to find a way back to his heart.
He’ll adore you for complimenting him. Especially if you’re genuine and authentic.
For example, when you’ve seen him somewhere in town, make sure to send him a text message afterward, telling him that you liked his outfit or that he looked really nice.
He’ll definitely appreciate your compliment and feel better about himself as well as your entire relationship.
You might feel a little apprehensive complimenting him because it seems obvious why you’re doing it.
If that’s your issue, then make sure to compliment him in a way where he will feel flattered but it won’t be obvious that you’re flirting with him.
You can do this by telling him that no one compares to him. Tell him that he’s unique and that he has a beautiful energy to him.
This way, you’ve saved yourself from the embarrassment, but you’ve also found a way to get your compliment across.
13. Try the no-contact rule
You might not want to stay away from the man who’s so obviously a huge part of your life. You’re always thinking of him and whenever you get the chance, you either text him or give him a call.
But if you’ve broken up, that can only do you more harm than good. You’re not going to get him back by being overbearing.
The no-contact rule has worked wonders for so many couples out there, so why don’t you give it a shot?
Stop initiating contact. Go inactive on your social media accounts for a while so that he doesn’t have a way to contact you either. Whenever someone asks you about him, change the topic.
You can even bring him into this decision. Ask him if this would be okay for him as well. If he’s mad at you, he’ll definitely want to take some time off.
I know that it’ll be really hard for you to ignore him when you’ve gotten used to talking to him. But it’ll do you both good.
Getting a Taurus man back is quite easy when you give him a reason to miss him. He can’t miss you if you’re always somewhere around.
So take some time away from him. You know that if it’s meant to be, it’ll happen. No one can escape their fate.
So don’t cry thinking that it’s over. Rather embrace every possibility that might present itself now.
What to text a Taurus man after a breakup?
If you still choose to text your Taurus man after a breakup, then you should know that playing it cool isn’t going to do the trick. If you’re the one who broke up with him, then you first need to prove to him you’re sorry. If he called it off, then you need to show him that you still care about him. But be aware that Taureans are proud, so there’s a huge chance that he’ll simply ignore your message.
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