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When He Calls You Baby: 12 Undeniable Reasons Why He’s Doing It

When he calls you baby, you might not even be aware of the many meanings that it entails.

Calling someone a pet name has always been a term of endearment but calling someone baby is a very specific one.

Women are always wondering about the meaning behind it.

There are a huge number of women who don’t like it when they’re called baby or any other pet name for that matter.

When I was called baby for the first time, it was by a male best friend. He never made any moves on me besides that, but it did get me thinking.

He later admitted that it was his subtle way of admitting his feelings for me.

There was no way for me to know what it meant because he didn’t make it clear that he liked me in the first place.

I have also had male friends referring to other female friends of theirs as baby but it had no underlying meaning. They just liked the nickname.

Is it that hard to understand the meaning behind something as insignificant as a nickname? Well, it sure does seem like it!

Men are usually not direct with their emotions and it makes us even more insecure.

We could misinterpret their actions as something romantic when it doesn’t mean anything.

For that exact reason, let’s figure out what he means when he calls you baby and make sure that you are prepared for every situation!

Is it OK when a guy calls you baby?

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Let’s start by talking about the morals behind it. There are women who will thrive when called by a nickname.

They feel empowered, appreciated, and loved.

Women who like being called by nicknames, especially one as personal as baby, will tell a man right away.

Or at least it will be seen in the way they start acting after being called baby.

When he calls you baby and you feel happiness and security with it, it’s OK for him to call you that. You can tell a man right away if you don’t like it.

It’s not all right when he calls you baby if you don’t feel comfortable with it.

There are women out there who think of this nickname as demeaning and degrading.

If you are one of these women, please let him know that. He needs to know that you don’t want him to call you baby.

At least make it abundantly clear through your body language that you don’t find this situation as something appealing to you.

What does it mean when he calls you baby?

As said before, nicknames are something very personal.

Some men don’t even like to use this term of affection to appeal to a woman. Instead, they’ll use other nicknames, like kitten, honey, my dear, and so on.

The meaning behind calling you baby can be different for every man, so here are a few possible explanations:

1. He accidentally calls you baby

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You were probably taken aback the first time he called you baby. For whatever reason, he dropped this nickname into a conversation.

When you looked at him, what did he look like? Did he look confident?

If he did, it was obviously intentional and he wanted to see your reaction.

If he looked insecure and surprised by what came out of his mouth himself then he didn’t intend to call you that.

He might have been thinking about you for a long time and it kind of just slipped through his lips. Yes, it’s possible that he called you baby by accident.

You just have to know that even if he did it unintentionally, he did mean it. He simply wasn’t prepared to say it so early on.

2. He keeps forgetting your name

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So you just met this man and he drops the ‘baby’ card on you. It seems cheesy and it just seems kind of off.

The most probable answer to this can be that he forgot your name, especially if he’s drunk or if you’re in a bar and it’s quite late.

There are many more women he had talked to during the evening, so he was actually scared to mess up your name.

He didn’t want to embarrass himself so when he called you baby, he was doing it to make sure you didn’t notice.

Your ticket out of this situation? Call him out on it or simply joke about how that’s not your real name and make him correct himself.

3. He calls every girl baby

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Have you heard him call another girl baby? Does this just seem like something he usually does?

If you have then it doesn’t mean anything. He doesn’t put any meaning into the nicknames he throws around.

It’s just nothing special when he calls you baby, but rather it’s a habit of his.

If you haven’t heard him call another girl baby then pay closer attention.

There is a chance that he still does do it with every girl, but you might not have caught on to it yet.

Listen closely and if you hear him call another girl baby then it doesn’t mean anything when he says it to you.

4. It’s just a nickname

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To be honest, it might just be a nickname. If you’re in a relationship with a man who calls you baby then it’s just what he likes to call you.

Nothing much can be added to that. He prefers it over calling you another nickname, but he still believes that a term of endearment is necessary.

If it’s a man who you are friends with, as said in the introduction, it can really just be a nickname that he prefers.

The only way you can know if it’s actually this is by asking him straight out.

5. He thinks you’re cute

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You have been talking to this man for some time now and he has been referring to you as ‘baby’.

Well, if he sent you this over text, it was not a mistake and if you’ve been talking for some time now and he’s just now using the nickname, it does have meaning behind it.

He’s trying to communicate to you how adorable he thinks you are. It’s a flirtatious way of saying he thinks you’re cute.

Yes, he is flirting with you and yes, he is trying to make it as obvious as possible.

When he calls you baby, it has meaning behind it and the ball is in your court now!

6. When he calls you baby, he’s in love with you

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I know that a nickname doesn’t have to mean anything but at the same time, it can mean everything.

You have probably been seeing him for a while now, you have amazing conversations and you just seem to work well together.

He hasn’t dropped the ‘I love you’ card yet, but everything else points to that he does.

He might just be scared to tell you how he actually feels, but at the same time, he wants to make sure he has honest intentions with you.

So what does happen? He starts calling you baby out of nowhere.

He probably wants you to tell him you love him first before he says anything, but he wants you to know how special you are to him.

This is very obvious through his behavior that is combined with this nickname.

7. He wants you in his bed

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This is very often the most obvious reason for calling you baby.

A man wants you in his bed when he continuously calls you baby even though you two have just met.

You can’t be oblivious to his flirting, it’s quite obvious. When he adds the nickname, it just becomes an open invitation to his bedroom.

When he calls you baby in a very flirty manner, he is telling you that he would love to take you home and into his bed.

8. He’s toying with you

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Do you have feelings for him? Does he know about your feelings? Is he not interested?

When he calls you baby even though he knows that you have feelings for him, he’s doing nothing but toying with you and your emotions.

Especially if you know that he doesn’t feel the same toward you, this can only result in heartbreak.

A way of toying with you is if he’s mansplaining things to you.

You have probably heard this term before but if you don’t know what it means, it’s when a man looks down on you and he tries to explain things to you, thinking you’re stupid because you’re a woman.

While he’s mansplaining things to you, he’ll start calling you baby in a demeaning manner just to get a reaction out of you.

You can’t do anything about it, because if you start getting defensive, he’ll take that as a win.

Your only way out of this situation is to show him that he can’t toy with you like that, so you need to show him who the smarter one is.

Show him that by calling you baby, he can’t insult you or put you down. You are above that.

9. He wants something more serious

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If you have been texting with someone or if you have been dating a man for some time now, when he calls you baby for the first time, it means that he wants something more serious.

This is his way of telling you that he thinks of you as more than just an acquaintance.

He wants to make sure you get the memo so you can understand the intentions he has with you. He wants to make it official.

What if you’re already in a relationship with a man and he starts calling you baby out of nowhere?

It’s still a possibility that he wants to take the next step in your relationship.

Whether it’s to be physically intimate with you or, the most serious step of them all, he wants to propose to you, if this is the case, he won’t wait for you to make the first move, but rather he’ll do it sooner.

You won’t have to question his intentions because he won’t play games with you, but rather work on showing you how he feels.

When he calls you baby, it isn’t a stupid little nickname to him, he wants something more serious.

10. He thinks that you’re already dating

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So, you’re in a group setting, surrounded by your friends, and he comes up to you and calls you baby out of nowhere? All eyes are now on you.

He doesn’t seem bothered by it, but rather seems very proud of himself. You might be very uncomfortable with it or very happy.

Either way, if you didn’t discuss your relationship status with him beforehand and he didn’t bother to ask, when he calls you baby, he’s just assuming you two are already dating.

11. He wants to make you feel special

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The occasion might not matter as much as his intentions. He wants to make you feel special!

When he calls you baby, he sees that as the perfect opportunity to show you how much he loves and appreciates you.

It’s his way of making sure that everyone knows how special you are to him.

Even if it’s in a fight or to calm you down, he’s doing this to show you that he cares.

You are his baby and he isn’t afraid to let you or everyone around you know that.

12. He’s teasing you

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Are you a cry-baby? Are you sensitive in general? If the answer is yes, he might be using this nickname to tease you.

It’s not anything bad, he just thinks it’s cute to tease you like this.

This can also be relevant if you told him about your jealousy and he makes fun of you for being honest with him.

It’s just a way of teasing you for your cuteness and he doesn’t mean it in a bad way.

You should take it light-heartedly as you have to realize that it’s just a joke and nothing serious.

When he calls you baby, does that mean he’s cheating on you?

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This is a concern that I have come across with a huge number of women who have been in a long-term relationship (sometimes even a marriage) and their partner starts calling them baby all of a sudden.

These women weren’t used to this.

Their concern was that he might be doing it so he didn’t get her name mixed up with the name of the other woman he was with.

As much as this can be the truth, unfortunately, you won’t know unless you ask him.

This is a very tricky question to ask as it’s not something that happens often, but it happens enough to have a lot of women worrying.

He might just be trying new things.

He wants to call you baby to bring something new into your relationship. It’s his way of spicing things up and giving you a reason to feel special.

Yes, he could be cheating on you. Yes, he could use this as a way to make sure that he doesn’t get your names mixed up.

At the same time, you can still crack a joke that it’s not your name and that you like it more when he uses your real name.

When you tell him something like this, he won’t have another chance to call you baby so you’ll know if he messes up your name.

He shouldn’t be messing up your name if you’re in a loving relationship and he’s not cheating on you.

What does it mean when he calls you baby girl?

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You may have heard this term in the 2020 Polish movie 365 Days. It has become nothing more than a meme these days.

This is where he probably got his inspiration as well.

The term baby girl is mostly used in intimate situations or exclusively in situations where he wants something more from you.

It’s not a term of endearment that is usually used on a day-to-day basis, but rather only on special occasions.

This is a term used very often by someone very dominant when talking to whom he sees as submissive.

There is no ‘one solution fits all’ type of situation for this. There are girls and women out there who love to be called baby girl, while others can’t stand it.

What does it mean when he stops calling you baby?

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There is not only the concern about what happens when he calls you baby but also what happens when he suddenly stops calling you this nickname.

This is especially if you two have been in a relationship for a while now and he suddenly stops saying it. It can be a very bad sign, but there are mostly just two reasons.

The first reason why he stopped calling you baby could be that his feelings for you aren’t as strong as they were before.

He might feel less affectionate toward you and he’s putting space between the two of you and he doesn’t know how to tell you.

He doesn’t have to tell you that, because the absence of the nickname speaks volumes.

The other reason is that he thinks you don’t like it. You might not have had the best reaction when he called you baby, so he just stopped.

If you do like the nickname, you need to make sure he knows how much it means to you when he calls you baby.

Don’t just assume he knows, because he isn’t able to read your mind.

Believe me when I tell you that he would love to hear you say it aloud, even if he might feel a little bit embarrassed to admit it.

The next time you see him avoiding this nickname, make sure to tell him that you would love to hear it again from him.

Should you have a nickname for your partner too?

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When he calls you baby, you might want to have a nickname for your partner as well. It just seems fair to give him one.

If he has a cute and adorable nickname for you, you have to come up with one yourself.

So if you ask yourself whether it’s OK to have a nickname for your partner, the answer is simple: Yes!

It’s more than OK to have a nickname for your partner if he is fine with it.

If he doesn’t like to be called baby himself, then there are a huge number of different nicknames you can choose from.

You can come up with your own nickname that will be unique to you two as a couple.

A pet name is a beautiful thing in a romantic relationship and it can show how close two people can be.

It just gives an intimate vibe to your relationship, when you’re comfortable enough with each other to understand the importance of nicknames.

Are men OK with being called baby?

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This really depends on the person. You have to communicate with your partner about the nicknames they’re OK with.

For example, he could get very offended by it because he might not see it as cute, but rather demeaning when a man is called baby.

Because of that, you have to check with your partner about what is OK with him and where his boundaries lie.

You will tell him if you don’t like it when he calls you baby as well so why not ask him about his honest opinion.

Conclusion

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Nicknames are a sweet and adorable way of showing how much you care about someone. Different nicknames have different meanings.

So what does it mean when he calls you baby? It really depends on the person.

Not everyone has the same opinions on nicknames, so you should ask the other person if they like it.

When he calls you baby, you may have a clear picture of what he wants from you.

More often than not, he’s calling you baby to show you how much he likes you. Very rarely will you be called baby by someone who doesn’t like you.

I know that people can say whatever they want, but even if it’s a stranger, you won’t have to think a lot about their attraction toward you, as with this nickname, it will likely be obvious.

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