Think aloud
Do you think you’re an attractive man? Are you confident that every time you pass by a woman, she turns around and looks at you? If you aren’t, that’s not a big deal. Chances are there are small yet clear signs you are a good-looking guy even though you don’t feel like one.
I get it. You spend so long every morning trying to look good for that special someone, so you keep reading all those men’s magazines to elevate your style. And you shouldn’t worry that you’re questioning your physical appearance. That’s a perfectly normal thing to do.
But what does it mean when someone tells you that you’re attractive? To have the affirmation that you’re attractive usually means that you’re accepted by society. That’s especially true in terms of dating and relationships.
Perhaps you’re not aware of it, but there are many different types of beauty out there. What you consider to be a beauty standard may not be the case for others.
And when it comes to romantic relationships and dating, you want to focus on two major types of beauty: physical and spiritual. Everyone’s goal is to be equally beautiful and good-looking both spiritually as well as physically.
To help you with that, I’ll highlight the most common signs you are a good-looking guy. Keep in mind that it’s not necessary to possess every single one of them, but you know what they say – the more the merrier!
The best part is that with the tips that I’m going to mention here, you can grow to become even better as you progressively work on yourself.
Signs you are a good-looking guy
Many people will argue that physical appearance – the way your nose is shaped or how you look with or without a beard – isn’t that important.
They usually say things like the beauty of your soul is what keeps the opposite gender close to you and how looks fade away over time.
But even if that’s true, physical beauty still plays a significant role in whether or not you’re going to win the girl you like. And the reason behind this is because your appearance is what makes the first impression on other people.
Those first impressions don’t necessarily last very long, but nevertheless, they influence a woman’s opinion about you.
Truthfully, the more you make yourself look attractive, the more you’ll get out of life. That’s something no one wants to hear, but it’s the bitter truth.
So, if you’re eager to find out whether or not you are a good-looking guy, then you should definitely look out for the following signs.
1. A woman raises her eyebrows when she looks at you
I understand that this might be a weird one for you, but you have to understand that there two possibilities why a woman would raise her eyebrows. It’s either because she was caught off guard or she is surprised.
So, if a woman looks at you and subconsciously raises her eyebrows, then you can take it as one of the subtle signs you are a good-looking guy. You can be sure that she finds you attractive.
Many scientists have concluded that we humans have less control over the upper part of our head, which includes eyes and brows. That usually tends to happen when we feel something special toward the other person.
And raising the eyebrows is similar to smiling since it’s a natural reaction. Even though it can be done consciously, in most cases it isn’t.
When a woman sees a good-looking guy, she also squeezes or “ducks” her lips subconsciously. And I’m not referring to the “duckface” that was trending a couple of years back on social media.
This motion only lasts for one or two seconds, and that’s why many men fail to recognize it while figuring out whether or not the woman likes them.
Side note: If you’re shy and don’t know if a woman wants to be kissed, then pay attention to her lips. A woman who can’t wait for you to kiss her will pucker her lips as a sign. Licking her lips is another obvious clue.
2. Your energy draws others to you
You may think that everything revolves around physical appearance when it comes to dating, but that’s not always the case. People have different opinions about what makes a person attractive.
If your energy draws others toward you, then it’s a clear sign you are a good-looking guy.
That energy or chemistry that we feel toward other people is sometimes more important than physical attraction.
I’m not saying that you should completely stop taking care of yourself, but you’ve heard the phrase, “You attract what you radiate” and that couldn’t be more true.
If you’re filled with positive energy, then people will be more prone to approaching you and wanting to get to know you better.
So, ask yourself this: Do people stop you to ask you a question while you’re walking by? Do people randomly strike up conversations with you when you’re at a party or other social gathering?
You know you’re a good-looking guy if something like this happens to you regularly.
And if you are drawn to a particular girl and she reacts in the same manner, then it’s a good sign of chemistry. Initiate the conversation and who knows, maybe she’s the love of your life.
3. People are surprised when you talk about your complexes
Are people surprised every time you start complaining about your insecurities and how you have a big chin or small lips? If that’s been happening to you a lot, then it’s a sign you’re a good-looking guy.
If others find you attractive and handsome, they’ll usually think that your life is all sunshine and rainbows and that you don’t have a single trouble in your life.
Their initial thought is that because you look perfect from the outside, that everything else in your life is like that – perfect.
That’s why they’re surprised when you start complaining about how insecure you are regarding certain physical features or that you’re shy to approach new people.
Either way, their perception of you is wrong. Almost everyone has their own problems that they deal with every day.
It’s just that some people don’t bother themselves with insignificant things such as physical appearance. They rather focus on evolving spiritually.
4. People are eager to help you
Do you notice that people jump at the opportunity to help you every time you’re having difficulties with something? Even when you’re completely capable of doing it on your own, people still go out of their way to help you?
If you can relate to this, then the reason they’re doing it could be that they’re attracted to you. This is another one of those subtle signs that they find you a good-looking guy.
People are more likely to lend a hand since they can feel your positive energy and they consider you to be attractive. That’s why they’re so generous and friendlier to you than to others around them.
It’s especially true if the girl you like is eager to help you. A girl that really likes you will always find an opportunity to spend as much time as possible with you. And she’ll lend you a hand to make herself look better in your eyes.
She wants you to know that she’s got a good heart and that she likes taking care of you.
5. Others love when they see you smile
Do you get a lot of compliments about your smile? Do people tell you that your smile is contagious? Does it seem that every time you flash that smile of yours, others tend to imitate you by smiling back?
And most importantly, are you wondering about the reason behind all those compliments?
If these and similar questions are going through your mind, then you’re wrong to think that you’re not a good-looking guy.
Why? Because you may not know this, but others are mesmerized by your smile as they find you attractive and handsome.
There are a couple of reasons why people are saying those nice things to you. It rather depends on who it is that’s paying you those compliments.
If it’s a friend of yours, then it could be interpreted as platonic small talk and nothing else. On the other hand, if it’s a cute girl who you know is crushing on you, then she’s flirting with you for sure.
Regardless, if this happens quite frequently to you, then remember to be humble about it and don’t brag too much. Always show that you’re grateful by saying “Thank you” and reciprocate if you want to.
6. You have no problems making friends
People who are usually good-looking tend to be more outgoing and have an easier time making new friends.
The reason for it is because other people are naturally drawn to them and they want to surround themselves with someone who is physically attractive.
You may think that this is a bit shallow and superficial, but this is just how the world works. It’s just how humans are wired and most of those things happen subconsciously.
So, have you been wondering why it’s so easy for you to make new friends wherever you go? It doesn’t matter whether you’re at work or at a party with dozens of people around you, it always seems as if you have friends everywhere?
If that’s the case, then consider it a sign. People will gravitate toward a good-looking guy like you and will go out of their way so that you like them.
7. A lot of people stare at you
Every time we look at something that we find pleasurable, our brain gets hit by dopamine, which plays a huge role in how we feel pleasure. That’s why you find yourself staring at a movie, art, or other people.
But you have to keep in mind that there are different types of eye contact levels as well.
Don’t just assume that every woman who looks at you automatically finds you attractive. Sometimes our eyes wander around and we coincidentally lock eyes with someone else.
On the other hand, if a woman keeps looking at you every once in a while, in most cases, it means that she likes what she sees.
Also, her smiling at you is a dead giveaway that she’s really into you. Then you can be certain that she’s attracted to you.
As I said before, most of our reactions are rather subconscious than conscious. And this one is exactly one of them.
When a woman stares at you and smiles, that’s actually her unintentionally attempting to establish a connection with you.
Moreover, let’s say that you catch a woman staring at you and suddenly your eyes lock and she doesn’t look away. Is there a secret meaning behind it?
Well, of course, there is. That only happens if a woman is really interested in you and wants you to make a move. She expects you to approach her.
8. You’ve had a fairly active dating life
If you regularly go on dates or have had relationships before, then you can be pretty sure women are attracted to you.
Physical attractiveness can really affect your mental well-being. It can make you feel both happy and miserable – it all depends on how you use it.
Some people aren’t even aware that they’re attractive and live in the illusion that they’ll die alone because no one wants them.
But that’s not true at all. Everyone is attractive in one way or another, and quite frankly, it wouldn’t be interesting if all of us looked the same.
9. People always find a way to talk to you
Does it seem to you that both men and women really enjoy being in your presence and talking to you about everything?
Do you notice that there’s no awkward silence whenever you get the chance to talk to someone? If so, that’s probably because you’re easy on the eyes as well as to their soul.
By now, you know that life isn’t fair, right? Well, the same applies to people who are attractive.
The thing is, others tend to treat better those they find to be more attractive. That might explain why you have all the attention on yourself wherever you go.
Most attractive people find that others seem to be almost drawn to them and that’s exactly what’s been happening to you.
By no means is this a flirtatious thing, but rather just a reflection of how people can be really superficial and shallow. Men and especially women enjoy talking to you because they find you attractive and alluring.
10. People ask you a lot of questions
If you’re wondering whether or not others find you good-looking, ask yourself this: Why do people ask someone questions? Is it because they just want to keep the conversation going? Or is there something else at play?
Well, the answer is quite simple. They want to get to know you better.
Think about it, there are plenty of men out there, so why would this woman ask you so many questions?
She wants to understand you better and to know whether or not you feel the same way about her. This is another one of those subtle signs you are a good-looking guy.
Many studies have found that people who ask a lot of follow-up questions are more liked by their conversation partners.
Now you know why a certain woman has been asking you a lot of questions. She’s trying to get you to like her more.
You might be annoyed at first because you don’t know what she wants from you, but you shouldn’t be. That’s completely normal for when a woman finds you attractive. Instead, take it as a compliment and start talking to her.
11. Women get nervous or awkward around you
Tell me, how many times have you found yourself in an awkward situation where you didn’t know what to say to your crush?
Have you been wondering why that happened to you? Perhaps you thought that it might go away as you grew older, but the same thing continues to happen to you over and over again.
The truth is, when you have to engage in face-to-face conversation with someone you find attractive, your brain kind of shuts down and you lose your ability to utter any words.
This is totally normal when you’re around someone you’re attracted to.
So, next time a girl approaches you and you see that she’s a bit nervous and shy, don’t reject her, immediately thinking that she’s insecure about herself.
Perhaps she’ll fumble over her words and get clumsy, but the fact that she came to you is a pretty big deal, you know.
She’s all nervous and awkward around you because she probably thinks that you’re good-looking.
12. Women sigh when they see you
If a woman sighs whenever she sees you or her jaw drops even slightly, that’s a clear sign she’s really into you.
There’s no doubt that she finds you attractive. Body language doesn’t lie. Again, those are subconscious moves that none of us has any power over.
You’ve certainly noticed it before. Perhaps when you walk into a room, and you see that a woman glances at you.
Then she quickly looks away and pretends that you didn’t see her. That’s actually a really obvious sign she finds you good-looking.
13. You’re good at expressing yourself
I mentioned at the beginning that attractiveness doesn’t only refer to physical appearance, but to spiritual as well.
If you can easily express your ideas, thoughts, and opinions, and you’re not afraid of speaking your mind, then you can be sure that you’re spiritually attractive. And trust me, other people notice it too.
You don’t feel the burden of impressing others just so they accept you. You’re well aware of who you are and that’s spiritually beautiful.
Trust me, you have to be real mature to see that the world doesn’t only revolve around physical beauty.
14. You’re not constantly seeking attention
Perhaps you’re not seeking anyone’s attention, but you still get it. Has this ever happened to you?
Maybe you only want to spend some time alone, but friends call you to hang out with them out of the blue? Or your boss asks you to work on a side project?
If this has happened to you quite often, then you must be wondering why is that so.
Well, simply put, people have faith in you and trust you. They know they can count on you whenever they ask you for something.
You’re not an attention-seeker or someone who tends to overpromise. It’s those features that people tend to see as attractive.
15. You’re optimistic and passionate about life
A clear sign of spiritual attractiveness and beauty is when you’re optimistic and passionate about life.
You’re not the type of person who can relate to the proverb “all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.”
You don’t worry too far into the future because you have clear goals for what you want to achieve in life. And you know you’re going to work tirelessly to make your dreams come true.
Also, you understand that not everything is in your hands. There are some things that we can’t influence, but those things you can control, you focus all of your energy there.
Every time you fall, you rise and become stronger. And that’s what being passionate and optimistic about life really means.
As I said, being good-looking isn’t all about having the greatest physique. It also has to do with how you feel about yourself on the inside.
