We often like to think that we have it all figured out. Maybe you made a decision that you’re ready to meet the love of your life, but God won’t send you your soulmate until you’re prepared to meet them.
We all like to think that we know exactly the “whats” and “whens” in our lives, but that’s not how life works.
The truth is, we can’t control our destiny – we have to leave that part up to God. He has a plan for us and we need to let things unfold the way they were meant to all along.
All we can really do is pray and try our best to be ready for what’s coming to us.
Maybe you’ve met someone who seemed like a gift from God when you first laid eyes on them. You thought that this person was your forever person, even though there were red flags as soon as you started dating them.
Eventually, the relationship failed since it was doomed from the start, and you felt like you’d never find love again… But God won’t send you your soulmate until you’re prepared to meet them.
If you’re in a bad place right now, you’re in no situation to meet your soulmate. You need to pull yourself together and work on improving yourself.
Your soulmate will come into your life when you’re ready for the relationship to last forever.
If you still aren’t over your ex or some other ghosts from your past still haunt you, it’s too soon for real love. You need to get things in order before agreeing to an eternity with the person you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with.
God will send you this person, but you need to have faith in His divine timing.
Don’t try to force someone to love you or jump into a relationship with a new person just so you won’t be alone. Your soulmate is not going to come into your life if you’re already taken.
You need to learn to be fine on your own because God won’t send you your soulmate until you’re ready for them.
Think about it this way: What would you like to be like when your soulmate meets you? What would you want your life to be like?
Think about whether you’re really prepared to give up the dating life and settle down forever too. What kind of person would you want to settle down with and how do you imagine your soulmate?
Are you ready to meet that person? And what kind of person do you think they would want to be with?
These questions will help you get a good idea of when your soulmate is going to come into your life. It’s not something that you can calculate precisely, though.
You need to have faith in God’s plan for you. And you need to work on being the best possible version of yourself for when your soulmate does come.
Get rid of the ghosts from the past and make room for your soulmate in your life. Even if there are no signs they’re coming any time soon, prepare yourself.
This is not the person you can get ready for by applying makeup or dressing up. It’s the person you need to prepare your soul for.
Forgive yourself for any mistakes you’ve made in the past and forgive those who have hurt you. Then let it all go and start working on a better tomorrow.
Be the person your soulmate deserves to have and work towards it every day.
Make room for them in your life by eliminating baggage from the past. Remove the things that bring back bad memories and work on letting go of any emotional baggage too.
Don’t get involved with the wrong people, but stay single until the right person comes along. You can even literally make room for them by emptying a single drawer in your home.
That drawer will one day be the place where your soulmate will put their things. So, let it serve as a reminder and help you keep believing.
Find ways to make yourself happy while you’re alone and meet new people who have the same interests as you do.
God won’t send you your soulmate until you’re prepared to meet them, and you can show Him that you’re ready by doing these things.
Don’t forget that God will give you what you want but you first need to make a move and put in the effort.
What if your soulmate had to walk into your life right now? Would they stick around and would you want them to?
Maybe you’re not ready to meet that special person and that’s okay. One day you will be and you’ll see the signs your soulmate is near.
Until then, just try to be the best possible version of yourself and improve your life in any way you can. Most importantly, learn to be okay with being alone and find ways to make yourself happy.
If you do that, your soulmate is going to meet you when you’re in a very good place to start a new relationship. The foundations will be solid and the relationship will flourish.
Have faith in God’s timing in relationships and know that right now somewhere, your soulmate is wondering where you are. When the time is right, you will reunite and feel like you’ve known each other forever.
You’ll have an eternity to make up for all the time you’ve lost, just stay patient for now.
Your soulmate is worth it, and they’ll show you the true meaning of the unconditional love that you deserve anyway. Help them get there faster by getting ready for them in every way possible.
Ask yourself what you would do if you knew that they’d come in a month from now. If you’d get things in order and improve yourself, do it now!
Keep doing it until you lock eyes with the person you somehow recognize. And trust me, you will recognize them when the time comes.
Have faith in God.
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