Men aren’t as articulate as women when it comes to expressing their love. You might think you need a grand gesture or a public declaration of love to truly believe he has feelings for you, but… it’s always the little things that prove he thinks you’re irreplaceable.
“He loves me, he loves me not…” You wouldn’t be the first woman to spend her valuable time picking petals off a flower, wondering whether he feels the same way for you as you do for him.
Your insecurities have gotten the best of you and you shouldn’t beat yourself over it. Luckily, we speak the language of the common man and we’re here to help you!
Believe it or not, there are so many little things a man will do if he thinks you’re irreplaceable. He has his tells when it comes to matters of the heart, and all you need to do is pay attention and take notes. So, let’s dive in!
1. He’ll make time for you
Trust me, when a man thinks you’re irreplaceable, there’s nothing in this world that will stop him from hearing your voice.
He’ll call you just to say hello, he’ll drop by your apartment just to give you a kiss, and he’ll send you a text whenever you cross his mind.
Remember that Friends meme he just sent you? What better proof do you need? Not only was he thinking about you at that moment, but he made it his priority to remember your favorite show.
You might think it’s just a silly meme, but it’s his way of telling you how much he cares. If a man takes the time out of his day to scroll through Instagram and TikTok just to send you something relatable, he is one hundred percent falling for you!
2. He’ll listen to you
Is there anything better than a man who can take a hint? A man who knows something is wrong before you even say a thing?
A man who thinks you’re irreplaceable will pick up those breaks in your voice and drop everything he’s doing just to be there for you.
And he will listen! He won’t pretend he’s paying attention while he’s actually looking at the football game on the TV screen behind you.
This man will do whatever it takes to make you feel better, even if the only thing you need is for him to hold you in his arms and let you cry your little heart out.
He might not be able to read your mind, but he’s certainly able to pay enough attention to learn what it takes to make you happy. Or at least to make you feel a little less alone in the world.
3. He’ll laugh at your jokes
You told him a lame knock-knock joke and he’s rolling on the floor unable to catch his breath from how much he’s laughing?
Trust me, he couldn’t be more in love with you even if he tried. Your stand-up comedy future might not look so bright, but you will always have your biggest fan in him.
A man who thinks you’re irreplaceable will laugh at your jokes because seeing you happy is what makes him happy.
You might tell him the lamest joke he’s heard a million times before, but he will laugh at it because he knows it will make your day. Isn’t that the most adorable thing you’ve ever heard?
4. He’ll tell everyone about you
Everyone knows that throwing friends and family in the midst of a relationship makes things messy. You might not like them, or they might not like you, or they might even turn out to be completely insane and make your life impossible.
But, a man who thinks you’re irreplaceable won’t mind the risk. He’s placing all his bets on the fact that the two of you might just spend the rest of your lives together.
Does that mean you’ll finally understand why he never talks about uncle Richard? Yes, but there’s something incredibly romantic about baring your baggage to someone you love.
5. He’ll pay attention to little details
You might think he wasn’t listening when you were going on a rant about your friend’s relationship problems, but he might surprise you a day later with a “Was Caitlin feeling better when you gave her a call?”
Don’t be surprised, a man who thinks you’re irreplaceable will find every part of your life just as interesting.
Trust me, he’s all in! Get ready to catch him on your doorstep bringing you a pumpkin spice latte from Starbucks because he knows that’s your favorite way of celebrating autumn.
He might even surprise you and organize a 90s romantic comedy movie night because he knows it will make you happy.
You have nothing to worry about because this is his way of telling you he wants you to be a significant part of his life. Not only does he see you for who you are, but he also thinks you’re pretty amazing.
Girl, he’s sweeter than that latte of yours!
6. He’ll surprise you with little gifts
The most meaningful things in life can’t be boxed and wrapped in shiny paper. But, there’s hardly anything that can make you more excited than a spontaneous gift from a man who thinks you’re irreplaceable.
You might think he wasn’t paying attention when you were watching those countless romantic comedies, but he might just prove you wrong.
How else did he get the idea to surprise you with a random bouquet of carrots? That has to be the most you thing anyone has ever surprised you with!
Trust me, a man who’s falling in love with you will do his best to keep you on your toes. He knows that flowers, chocolates, and jewelry make a woman’s heart beat faster, but…
He also knows you’re different from any other woman he’s ever been with. You’re one of the lucky ones!