Think aloud
What does it mean when a married man says I love you, and can you trust him?
Maybe he always makes time for you and acts differently when he’s around you.
You see him looking at you constantly and he may even joke that he’s interested in you.
He wants to know all about your love life, but he doesn’t say much about his.
Maybe he often gives you compliments and smiles at you or he mirrors you and leans in when the two of you talk.
You may have noticed that he tries to get close to you as well. It seems like he uses every chance to touch you.
He also started caring more about his appearance and tries to look his best when he’s around you.
Maybe he even always tries to cheer you up when something’s bothering you.
He could also be interested to find out what your plans for the future are and perhaps he even hints that he is considering leaving his wife.
When a married man says I love you and shows all these signs, it could be true.
Why has he fallen in love with you even though he is a married man? There are three common reasons why a married man could fall for another woman.
One of them is that he isn’t happy in his marriage. An unhappily married man will seek satisfaction outside of the marriage if he can’t find it with his wife.
Another reason is the excitement his marriage could be lacking. Everything turns into a routine when someone has been married for a long time.
Falling in love with someone new is exciting.
The third possible reason is resentment. If his wife had an affair, he could be looking to even the score.
So, when a married man says I love you, does he truly love you? Truth be told, it’s most likely that even he doesn’t know the answer to that question.
If you are in a relationship with a married man, you should know that things are going to be complicated.
Maybe he isn’t happy in his marriage or the way he currently lives his life. So he finds you as a source of happiness and has an affair with you.
First of all, cheating on his wife really isn’t the right thing to do. The right thing would be to talk to his wife and tell her how he really feels.
If he doesn’t love her anymore, they could get a divorce and find happiness with other people.
Another option is to try to work things out and save the marriage.
Those are the only two options that are fair to both partners involved but people often choose the third option – having a secret affair.
Cheating shouldn’t be an option, but it is, and it often happens.
This makes things complicated, especially for you, if you are the person he’s cheating with.
Can you trust him if he is having an affair with you while still being married to his wife?
When a married man says I love you, you can’t be sure that it’s the truth, unless he leaves his wife for you.
The problem is that most married men who cheat on their wife promise their mistress that they will get a divorce.
Most often, however, that doesn’t happen, even if they love their side chick.
The only thing you can do to know whether he really loves you or not is to look more at what he does than what he says.
Actions always speak louder than words, and there’s nothing easier than just saying the L-word.
Proving you love someone is a lot harder, especially if you are married and having an affair with that person.
Do you only get to enjoy stolen moments or does he really try to spend as much time with you as he can?
If his actions show that he loves you, you should trust him, even if he doesn’t leave his wife.
Most of the time though, affairs are all about lust and not about love.
Of course, sometimes you just end up with the wrong person and find true love when you’re already with someone else.
This means that it’s possible that he truly loves you, but it’s much more likely that he’s just looking for something new and exciting.
Either way, as long as he is married, your relationship is going to be very complex.
Is he going to leave his wife for you? If there are signs he won’t leave his wife for you, no matter what he tells you, you shouldn’t believe him.
Maybe he told you that he loves you and that he will leave his wife, but will he really?
Getting a divorce causes a lot of problems and difficulties, so no one really wants to go through with one.
Even if he loves you, he probably won’t get a divorce even if he promises that he will.
Right now, he has both you and his wife, so he has everything he needs. He most likely doesn’t want to lose either one of you.
So, what can you do when a married man says I love you? If there are signs a married man is in love with you, it could be true.
But are you happy with being just a side chick?
If you want something more from that relationship, you will have to give him an ultimatum.
You can tell him that he has to choose between you and his wife and that you aren’t going to wait any longer.
If he leaves his wife for you, you will know that he truly loves you and you will finally be able to be happy together.
However, if he keeps postponing it, it means that you’ll never be able to have something serious with him.
An affair can last for a long time, but there’s no future in a relationship with someone who is taken.
If you are fine with that, and just want to have a good time for a while, you’re not going to get heartbroken.
However, when there’s a mention of love, as he told you he loves you, you are in danger of falling for him too hard.
Do you really want to be in love with someone you can never have a real relationship with?
It could get you hurt in the end, so it’s maybe best to just walk away if he’s not going to leave his wife for you.
If he doesn’t show that he loves you with his actions, but only with his words, don’t believe him.
It’s not easy for a married man to find a woman he can have an affair with.
Now that he has found you, he could be willing to say anything just to keep you around.
Even single guys lie about being in love, so why wouldn’t a married man?
If you are in love with him, you will want to believe him, but try to be objective.
He needs to prove that he loves you, and it’s not enough to just say those three little words.
When you truly love a person, you want only what’s best for them.
If you spend your nights crying because he cancels on you at the last minute to be with his wife, don’t trust him.
You deserve to be with someone who will shower you with love and affection. If you feel like you give a lot more than you get in return, don’t settle for that.
Also, you should keep in mind that a man who cheats with you could easily end up cheating on you.
This means that even if he leaves his wife to be with you, he could cheat on you.
Some men are simply players and they don’t understand true love.
Do you think that he is not one of them and that he truly loves you? Perhaps that’s true.
However, you’ll never know for sure unless he makes a huge sacrifice and walks away from his marriage.
So, what can you do until that happens? Well, if you are fine with having only something casual, have fun and enjoy it while it lasts.
However, if you are looking for something meaningful and long-lasting, you shouldn’t settle for what a married man can give you.
Saying he loves you simply can’t be enough if he doesn’t prove it. If he can’t promise you a future and keep that promise, you should walk away from him.
If you are falling for him, it’s best to end things if he has no intention of leaving his wife for you.
You don’t want to end up broken-hearted when there are a lot of available men out there who would give you all of their free time.
Don’t you deserve to be with a man who will proudly introduce you as his girlfriend to everyone he knows?
If you are looking for love, it’s not only what you deserve but what you need too.
Good luck!
