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24 Signs That He Totally Adores You

24 Signs That He Totally Adores You

When a man adores you, you won’t have to wonder whether he’s into you or not.

He’ll make it perfectly clear that you’re the only woman in the world for him, and you’ll feel loved more than ever before.

Maybe he won’t tell you directly that he adores you, but words aren’t needed when actions speak so loud.

He won’t be one of those men who feeds you empty promises and words that have nothing to back them up. Instead, he’ll let his actions speak for him, and you’ll be sure that he’s crazy about you.

Everything he does will show you that he can’t get you out of his head because he’s constantly thinking about you.

You will be the most important person in his life, and it will be perfectly clear that you’re his top priority.

Nothing will ever prevent him from being there for you whenever you need him, even if it’s just to listen to you.

All he’ll really think about is you, because you mean the world to him and he loves you deeply.

The little things he does to make you happy will prove that he loves you more than you could possibly imagine.

Everything that interests you will interest him as well and that’s because your needs come even before his own.

He’ll value your input, so your opinions will be the ones that matter to him the most; that’s why he’ll always ask you for advice before making an important decision.

Among other things, you’ll see it in the way he touches you because he’ll always want to hold your hand, kiss you and hug you.

Those are just some of the signs he adores you that you’ll notice if he’s really that crazy about you.

However, there will be many more, and I’ll mention all of them in this article.

When you see these signs he adores you, you can be sure that he’s a keeper, so hold on to him, and reciprocate his love.

Men like him are rare, so, if you have found one, appreciate him and let him know you adore him just the same.

When a man adores you, you know that he’ll treat you right, the way you deserve to be treated.

He won’t ever leave you guessing how he feels about you, even if he doesn’t tell you he adores you.

The signs he adores you will speak for him, and you’ll feel loved and appreciated.

Here they are:

1. He remembers even the smallest details you share with him

24 Signs That He Totally Adores You

When you talk, this man really listens to you, so he remembers even the little things about you.

He knows what your favorite food is, your favorite ice-cream flavor, the bands that you like, and your favorite restaurant. 

These little things are valuable pieces of information about you that he wants to know and keep in mind.

He then makes sure that his plans involve these little things about you that he remembered.

Big moments in your relationship consist of these little things and one of them might be when he gives you a signed picture of your favorite actor… weeks after you mentioned you liked them.

This is just one of the examples of how he uses the smallest details you share with him to make you happy.

2. He acts goofy

Do you know how a man in love usually acts? He becomes playful and acts goofy around you, he has that silly smile on his face whenever he’s around you and is all giddy.

All those cute things that men don’t usually like, he now likes doing; for instance, sharing ice cream or rubbing noses together.

You bring out the cute side of him that he never even knew was there and this is because he’s happily in love and he can be open with you.

3. He actively pursues you

When a man adores you, he’ll often text you, and he’ll make sure to make plans with you in advance.

This shows that he’s always thinking ahead when it comes to you.

He thinks about you when you’re not around, which is one of the signs he adores you.

This man actively pursues you because he wants to make you his forever.

4. He’s interested in everything that interests you

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Whether it’s dancing, shopping, or traveling, he’ll do these things even if he doesn’t like them. He is willing to leave his comfort zone to do things that you like because all he wants is to see you happy.

It is never all about his needs and him because he makes sure to take your needs into consideration.

He wants to make you happy because your smile is the most beautiful thing he has ever seen.

That is why he does things he doesn’t like… just because you like them.

5. He gives you all of his attention

When he’s with you, he’s fully present.

The thing is, people pay attention only to the things they value most; we give our attention only to things that matter to us.

Does he give you all of his attention? Is he focused on you and fully present when he’s around you?

Those are signs he adores you more than you know.

6. He talks to you every single day

He couldn’t go a day without getting in touch with you and finding out how you’re doing so the first thing you see when you wake up is a good morning text from him.

During the day, he calls to ask about your day and find out how you’re doing and the last thing you see before falling asleep is a goodnight text from him.

When you’re dealing with something stressful, he’ll make sure to call to check on you and sometimes he even calls when you least expect it, simply to hear your beautiful voice.

When you’re together, and he leaves, you promptly get a text saying he can’t wait to see you again.

That’s how much he loves you, and it’s the best thing ever!

7. He’s with you when you’re going through a hard time

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All of us have times when we feel great, but all of us also have times when we don’t. What happens when you are feeling down?

Does he offer a shoulder to cry on?

He’s there to help you fix things, but if that’s not possible, he’ll simply be there to listen to you.

He wants to make you feel better, but if he can’t solve the problem, he’ll just be there for you and listen to what you have to say.

When a man adores you, he’ll be there for you not only when things are going great, but when you’re going through a hard time too.

He’ll support you and help you get through it, with you knowing that you don’t have to do it alone.

This is very important because you don’t want someone who’ll only be there when things are going great.

You need your partner to support you when you’re feeling blue too.

Somehow, he always manages to make you feel better, even when you think that it isn’t possible.

This is because you feel his love, and it’s like a cure for every problem you could possibly have.

8. He wants to hear your opinions

Of course, he has his own viewpoints, but he’s always interested to hear what you think.

This is not just when something involves you, because he asks for your opinions even when it comes to other aspects of his life.

He sometimes initiates things and tells you where he wants to go, but in the end, he’ll listen to what you suggest.

All he wants is to make you happy and please you.

When a man values your input and asks for your opinions before making a decision, you can be sure that he loves and respects you.

9. He puts in maximum effort

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Have you heard about breadcrumbing? This is when he does only the bare minimum to keep you hooked on him.

Well, your man does the exact opposite of breadcrumbing you.

He plans a surprise date, an adventure, a picnic or hike, to surprise you and make you experience something new and exciting and that’s because he’s crazy about you.

He pours maximum effort into all experiences you have together because he wants to create things so amazing that they will leave you breathless.

10. He couldn’t care less about what others think

He wants to win your heart, and he couldn’t care less about what others think about him while he tries to achieve that.

Big, bold public displays of affection are not a problem for him; in fact, he may surprise you by doing something like singing to you in the park.

He doesn’t mind making a fool of himself, as long as it makes you smile. Others can see how crazy he is about you, but he doesn’t care.

He will have even made some big changes and decisions so that he can see you more often.

You are special to him, so he wants to make you feel special and that’s why he makes you a priority and does everything he can to make you happy.

11. He lets you influence him

When you truly love a person, you let them influence you.

You allow them to change your point of view or convince you to do something you never thought you’d do.

When it comes to their political views, you respect them, so you even allow them to sway you.

You aren’t afraid to explore new places with the person you love, you’ll be willing to see any movie they wish to see and you’ll even find yourself doing chores like loading the dishwasher.

When you love someone, you let them influence who you are, precisely because you love them.

Some would say it’s a sign of weakness, but it’s actually a very big sign of love.

After all, as I said earlier, when you love someone, you don’t care about what others think.

Does he allow you to influence him? Then he probably adores you.

12. He uses every chance to touch you

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He uses every chance to hold your hand, hug you, or kiss you and this is because he wants to be close to you, and he wants to make you feel protected and safe in his loving arms.

You can always lean on him, and he tries to show you that.

Couples who hold hands show the world that they are together so if he always holds your hand, you can be sure that he wants everyone to know that you’re his girlfriend.

13. He is completely focused on you

Not only does he remember the things that matter to you, but he asks you questions regarding your life.

He’s curious to find out what you like, what’s new in your life, and what you want in the future.

He loves you, so he wants to know about everything you love and he also remembers things you tell him about yourself and your family, so he asks you about them.

For example, he will remember your pregnant sister’s due date, so he asks you about whether she has had the baby yet.

It’s all because he’s so focused on you, and he’s interested in everything that has something to do with you.

14. He lets you have the last piece of chocolate

It doesn’t have to be chocolate, it could be chips, or anything else… but the point is that he always lets you have the last piece.

He shares everything with you, so one day, you share some chocolate and at one point, you both realize that there’s only one piece left. So what does he do?

He could eat it himself, offer it to you but hope you won’t take it or feed it to you. So, he’ll choose to feed it to you because your happiness is more important to him than his own.

This may sound like a silly example, but it actually shows that he puts your happiness ahead of his own.

He wants you to have everything, and he would share everything with you, but he’ll always give you more than he’ll take.

15. He helps you out even when it isn’t convenient for him

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Maybe you need someone to drive you to the airport at 4 a.m. and you know you can count on him or when you’re moving to another apartment, he’s there to do the heavy lifting.

You know that he always has your back. He doesn’t have to be happy about doing it, but he’ll do it anyway because that’s how much you mean to him.

It’s easy to help someone when it’s convenient for you but it’s when it’s inconvenient that they see who really loves them.

16. You are a priority to him

He would never make you beg for something and that’s because he gives you everything freely, including his time.

You have never been stood up by him, except maybe when there was an emergency, but he told you about it as soon as he could.

He wants you to know that you’re a priority to him. You matter most to him because he loves you like crazy.

Maybe you would like him to spend more time with you, but he spends as much time as he can with you, and that’s clear to you.

He always puts you first, and nothing will stop him from making you happy.

17. He wants to be exclusive and move forward in the relationship

He wants to move the relationship forward, and it’s understood that the two of you are exclusive.

He’s aware that if you weren’t exclusive, some other guy could get to date you, and he can’t let that happen.

This man loves you and wants you to be only his, so he doesn’t want you to see other men.

He wants the two of you to spend a lot of time together, as much as possible.

This relationship is moving in the right direction, and he couldn’t be happier about it.

18. He finds everything you do adorable, even if it isn’t

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We girls tend to be afraid of doing anything un-cute and even gross in front of our men. However, it still happens.

Still, you have nothing to worry about because your man finds even the most embarrassing things you do adorable.

Your morning breath or leg stubble doesn’t make him think of you as any less of an adorable creature, which is one of the signs he adores you.

So, when you do things you’d rather not do in front of him, he even finds them cute.

Nothing you do will ever be wrong in his eyes, because he’s that crazy about you.

You’ll feel like you can do anything in front of him and look any way you want and he would still find you adorable.

19. He cares deeply about your comfort

He wants you to be comfortable around him and feel as comfortable as possible when you’re with him so when you’re in a car together, he’ll ask you whether the temperature is right or if he should turn up the heat or turn the air conditioning on.

When he expects you to come over to his place to spend the night, he’ll make sure you find a toothbrush in the bathroom and you’ll also find your favorite shampoo there.

He will even clean up his place from the kitchen to the bathroom because he wants you to enjoy your time there.

All he wants is for you to feel as comfortable as possible when you’re with him.

20. He’s not afraid to be vulnerable with you

Men usually want us to believe that they have everything figured out and under control, but the truth is that they don’t.

When a man adores you, he’ll be willing to open up to you and share his vulnerable side with you.

He’ll tell you about what his life is really like, and how he really feels.

He won’t try to make you believe that he has it all figured out because he’ll be willing to admit to you that he doesn’t.

21. He makes plans for the future that include you

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One of the signs he adores you is when he plans the future with you.

He’ll talk about the places you’re going to visit when you go traveling and what your house will look like.

He might even go as far as planning your future children’s names.

If a man is not afraid to talk about marriage and children with you, you can be sure that he’s husband material.

He wants to have a future with you, and it couldn’t be clearer.

22. He shows you affection when you’re in public

He’s not ashamed to show the world you’re his girlfriend; in fact, he does so proudly.

When you’re in public, he holds your hand or puts his arm around you.

He doesn’t hesitate to kiss you either, no matter how many people are looking at you.

Public displays of affection are signs that he’s crazy about you, and that you mean the world to him.

23. He’s always thinking about you

Maybe he saw a new restaurant, so he instantly texted you that he would like to take you there and when you’re at work, he’ll surprise you by sending flowers.

He texts you that he’s thinking about you and that he misses you so you always know you’re on his mind.

He lets you know, by planning romantic evenings or giving you gifts he knows you’ll love and maybe he has even written you a long romantic letter or email.

You know that you’re the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up, and the last thing he thinks about before falling asleep and that’s because he sends you good morning and goodnight texts every day.

24. There’s no doubt in your mind that he adores you

He shows it with his words, with his actions and his behavior.

You feel an inner peace you never felt before, and you know that you’re safe and secure with him.

He never leaves you guessing what’s on his mind, because you know it’s you. You’re sure that he adores you.

24 Signs That He Totally Adores You

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  1. Kyra says:

    I am so fortunate to have attracted this man that truly adores me…and yes he is fully matching every one of these traits. I find it comforting and adorable. Trust is fully there. Yes, there are great guys out there. He is fully showing up in every sense of the word. And he reads to me every night so I can fall asleep. Zero guessing, zero games. He is a kind, appreciate, wonderful man. Even when I need space to process my feelings , he thoughtfully backs up. I treasure him too.