Think aloud
Are you wondering if there are signs he will marry you someday? Can you really tell if he genuinely loves you and wants to be your happily ever after? And most importantly, can you recognize those signs by yourself without giving away the fact that you’re ready to tie the knot?
To answer your questions shortly: yes, yes, and yes! There are indeed signs he will marry you someday and I’m here to highlight the most common ones.
You see, when a woman is head over heels in love with a man, one of her persistent uncertainties is whether the two of them are going to be together forever. You secretly hope that he’ll get down on one knee and propose, and you can’t wait for him to finally pop the big question.
Even though your relationship is like a fairy tale and you know his heart belongs to you, he’s never told you directly that his wish is to be your future husband. That’s exactly why you’re reading this article and questioning his future plans with you.
Your mind is so overwhelmed with this riddle, you start thinking that maybe he’s scared of marriage. Or it could be that he needs more time to plan everything out and gather all the people you truly care about. And more importantly, you begin asking yourself, “Does he really love me?”
How can you be certain that he wants to be married to you?
You may think that men are mysterious and tough nuts to crack, but in reality, they aren’t.
A man whose intention is to marry you someday will make sure to be an active part of your life. On top of that, he’ll never back away when a problem arises, whether it be big or small.
Also, whenever the topic of marriage comes up, he’ll be interested in participating, not pull away like other men do if they’re not ready to take the relationship to the next level.
So, if you want to know whether or not he’s preparing to make you his happily ever after, then pay attention to the following signs he will marry you someday.
Clear signs he will marry you someday
1. He’s protective of you
Whether he admits it or not, it’s in a man’s nature to protect the woman he loves so dearly. And the same here applies to your significant other.
He doesn’t see you just as his girlfriend but also as his family. The reason he’s so protective of you is that his innate drive is pushing him to make sure you’re okay at all times.
Your significant other thinks of you as his life partner. He won’t let anything bad happen to you. He would rather sacrifice himself for your benefit and in some way, he already behaves like a real husband.
Don’t believe that he’s doing it to belittle you in any way. He knows you can take care of yourself. He just wants you to know that you can count on him, come hell or high water.
And if you’re in need of help with a certain task, you can always count on him having your back. Even if everyone and everything seems to be against you, he’ll be there to help you get through it.
And if someone is giving you the stink-eye or attacks you for whatever reason, he’ll defend you against them and anyone else who wants to do you harm.
This is an obvious sign you mean a lot to him and he’ll do anything he can for it to stay that way for a long time – possibly forever.
2. He loves spending time with you
When you say your vows, you promise your significant other that you’ll spend the rest of your life with them. And some people are frightened by the thought of spending that much time with someone.
That’s especially true if you think of the other person as boring and dull. That doesn’t sound appealing at all, am I right?
So, if your boyfriend absolutely loves spending his free time with you and never gets bored doing it, it’s definitely one of those subtle signs he will marry you someday.
You two share many of the same interests and love the same things in life. So he doesn’t have a problem making compromises in your relationship regarding, for instance, which places to visit and what activities to do.
He’s obviously head over heels for you and your life is interesting to him. He knows he’d never get bored when he’s with you.
Also, he’ll ask you a lot of questions because he wants to know everything about you. All of this is a sign that he’s keen on spending the rest of his life with you.
He knows that every activity, no matter how boring it is, will be fun with you. That’s how much he genuinely loves you.
3. He wants you to move in with him
If you didn’t know it by now, one of the main signs he will marry you someday is when he suggests the two of you move in together.
He may be shy about bringing up the topic of marriage, but it’s obvious that he wants to share his life with you if he asks you to move in with him.
Let’s face it, living together is actually a pretty big deal. I know several couples who couldn’t believe that living together would be so exhausting. That’s why moving in together can really be an eye-opening experience.
That said, it’s something you don’t do unless you’re absolutely sure you’re going to spend the rest of your life with that person.
And if he offers you to pack your bags and move in with him, that’s the proof you need to know his intentions with you are serious.
Honestly, when you move in together, you’re practically already married, albeit without all the legal papers.
And this man loves you enough that he knows he wants to spend every day of his life waking up next to you.
Also, if he thinks that you’re compatible enough to live together now, then he’s obviously sure that you can also be married sometime in the future.
4. You’re part of his life
Are you wondering whether or not he genuinely loves you? Are you afraid that he might not appreciate you enough? If your significant other makes you part of his life, then you can be certain that his heart belongs to you.
You’ll be part of his every major life decision because he cares what you think.
This means that you won’t have to wonder what goes on inside his mind. He’ll be like an open book – you’ll know what his plans are, if something is bothering him, and whatever else is happening in his life.
If his intention is to marry you someday, then he won’t have the desire to go through life as a single man, but rather to include you in everything he does.
This means that you’re not just a random girl to him, but someone who he appreciates very much. Still, that doesn’t include him spending every minute of his life with you. He’ll still respect your privacy and won’t bother you if you wish to go out with your friends without him.
The point is that you’ll never feel like a complete stranger beside him.
You’ll always be the first he’s goes running to when something good or bad happens, not because he feels obligated to do so, but because he really wants to.
5. He doesn’t forget the little things
How do you know that his dream is for you to become his wife one day? Well, if he’s keen to know everything there is about you, then you know it’s true.
This means that he’ll pay attention to you and everything you have to say. He try his best to remember all those important dates such as your anniversary, birthday, and other events that mean a lot to you.
You’re part of his world now, the part only a few people have access to. Everything concerning you will be significant to him.
And you’re wrong if you think that he won’t notice if you change your appearance or behavior in any way.
Remember, he’s mesmerized by you. He’ll catch even the slightest change about you, whether that be something with your hair or a new outfit.
On top of that, he’ll notice if you have any weird food cravings or mood swings and he won’t simply flee as other men would do. He’ll be there to comfort you and hug you. That’s a clear sign the man wants to marry you someday.
6. He doesn’t keep any secrets from you
Most men are rather secretive beings. They aren’t too keen on sharing their personal details with just about anyone.
But that changes once the perfect woman marches into this life and he seems to lose his head.
And this guy is certain that you’re the one for him since it doesn’t bother him to open up to you and take your intimacy to a whole other level.
You know his every secret, even how many girls he dated. He doesn’t hide anything from you.
You know what his deepest fears, goals, and dreams are.
And you know as well as I do, no one in their right mind would reveal that much about themselves unless they’re absolutely sure that the other person is the right one for them.
If he’s not pretending to be someone he’s not just for you to like him more, you’re obviously the other half of his soul.
He’s confident you won’t judge him in any way and he knows that you love him for who he really is. He reveals his true colors to you.
He’s hoping that someday you two will share a life together, so there’s no point in lying and deceiving you because sooner or later, the masks will have to come off and his true face will be exposed.
7. He doesn’t have a problem with PDA
Many men are quite shy about showing affection in front of others. They’d rather wait to be alone with you and then show you how much they love you.
But if your man is genuinely in love with you, then he’ll want to protect you from others and that includes showing everyone that you’re in a relationship with him.
He sees you as his treasure and as someone who needs to be protected at all costs.
And if a man wants to marry you someday, then he’ll never hide you from others. Instead, he’ll proudly walk down the street, holding and kissing you for the whole world to see you belong to each other.
He won’t be shy about expressing his feelings for you, so he won’t have any issue with PDA. After all, he plans on marrying you.
8. He suggests getting a pet
Another major sign a man will marry you someday and wants to start a family with you is when he suggests getting a pet together.
You may wonder what a pet has to do with signs he wants to marry you, but remember that a pet is a living creature who needs to be taken care of. And in this case, he wants the two of you to take care of it TOGETHER.
Any kind of pet is a big commitment and maybe he wants to find out whether or not you two would get along sharing that much responsibility.
Getting a pet together is a good way to prepare yourself for future life and having a family together.
Although you may think that it’s not a big deal that he’s suggesting this to you, it’s actually a huge step forward for the two of you. Something as small as a cat or a dog can really test your relationship, believe me.
It means that he’s already betting on you two being together for a long time.
9. He talks about having children
If your boyfriend keeps mentioning having kids and how he would like to have them in the future, it’s a surefire sign that he wants to marry you someday.
He knows he’s not getting any younger and wants to start a family sometime soon – but not with just anyone, with you.
Instead of telling you outright that he wants to have kids with you, he casually implies or even jokes about how great it would be.
He often asks you about the potential names of your kids and how you imagine they’d look like.
If he talks about this repeatedly, then he doesn’t just consider you to be marriage material, but mother material too. He knows that you’re filled with love and compassion and he wants his children to be just like you.
Also, whenever he gets a chance to hold a baby or play with some kid, he shows you his fatherly qualities. He’s doing this because he’s trying to test the waters and see what you think regarding this topic.
He wants to know whether or not you’d like to have kids sometime in the future and see if you could potentially be the mother of his children.
10. He introduces you to his family and friends
This is a massive relationship step. When a man introduces you to his family and friends, then you can probably guess that he’s already looking for the perfect engagement ring.
Men are known for being very close to their family and friends, and they won’t let just anyone become part of that inner circle. But since you’re an important person in his life, he wants everyone to get to know you as well.
It’s crucial to him that you and his close friends and family get along well because those are the people he fears losing the most – besides you, of course.
So, if he invites you to all of his family events and asks you to accompany him whenever he goes out with his close friends, you can be sure you’re important to him and he wants you to stay in his life.
He’s hoping that you and “his people” will form a connection.
On top of that, he’ll be eager to spend more time with your friends and family as well. He really tries hard to impress them, which is a definite sign of his future plans with you.
He’s hoping that all of you will become one big happy family someday.
11. He often asks for your opinion
Men tend to be overly protective about their egos. For this reason, many men will be adamant that they’re right and not take your opinion into consideration before making a decision.
On the flip side, if your significant other ASKS for your opinion, that means he considers your opinion and viewpoint important.
He listens to what you have to say and eagerly takes your advice.
Why? Because he values you as a person. Your boyfriend plans on marrying you and wants to know your preferences, what you don’t like, and how you handle stressful situations.
He hopes that you’re going to spend the rest of your lives together, so he knows that communication between you two has to be strong and that you need to be on the same page regarding the important things in life.
12. He exposes his vulnerable side to you
A clear sign he will marry you someday is when he’s comfortable enough to show you his emotional side without hesitation.
It’s a well-known fact that men aren’t too sensitive and dislike expressing their emotions through words.
They aren’t keen on doing it because they want to protect their masculinity, and appearing vulnerable in front of others isn’t what society deems manly.
Therefore, if your man has no problems being emotional in front of you, that means he feels safe around you and sees you as his closest confidant.
You’re very dear to his heart and he knows you won’t pass judgment on him. Instead, he’ll feel free to be who he really is and not be afraid to show it to you.
A man won’t let his guard down unless he’s positive that he will marry the woman someday.
Showing his emotional side is only reserved for that special someone and that’s who you are to him. He sees you as his future wife and long-term companion.
13. He’s your biggest supporter
A man who has your back, come hell or high water, is someone who has serious plans with you.
A man won’t plan to marry you unless he knows you can work as a team.
And this man is ready to take your hand and face all of life’s challenges. And whenever he backs you up and spurs you on, you’ll know that he’s being serious about you.
He’ll always be there for you to help you through life’s challenges. He’ll go out of his way to show you he supports you. And he’ll be your hero whenever and wherever you need him.
He wants you to know that he won’t ever abandon you when things get rough because that’s something a real man doesn’t do.
14. He makes you feel special
Do you go all puppy-eyed every time you see him? Does he make you feel like you’re the only woman in the world? If so, then you can be certain he will marry you someday.
Let’s face it, if a man wants a relationship with you that will last a lifetime, then he won’t look at any other girl beside you.
He only has eyes for you and isn’t afraid to show you as much. He won’t make you feel like you have to compete with all the other girls to get his attention, because his focus will be on you and you only. You have him just to yourself.
All these signs that I’ve mentioned here are indicators that your boyfriend takes your relationship very seriously and is hoping that one day you’ll be his wife – in the good times and the bad.
