I bet you had a chance who knows how many times to meet a guy who is nice and who you like at first. Then when you get to know him better, you realize how bad he actually is.
You find yourself lost all over again, and you regret it because you’ve never learned the lesson from past experiences.
If you look objectively, you can spot some common characteristics of a partner who is not worth fighting for.
Even though you give so much effort, it may not be up to you. You are trying hard to maintain something that is not actually possible, no matter how much energy you spend.
These signs will prove to you he is not worth fighting for.
1. He laughs at things you like
You may have told him about your love for some things you find cute, and he made a joke of it and started laughing loudly.
If he loves you, he would respect things you like, even though he doesn’t find them interesting at all.
Don’t make an effort to stay with someone who does not value your ideas or respect things you like. That kind of man is not for you.
2. He’s overprotective
Being overprotective is tightly connected to manipulation.
At first, it looks like your partner is getting a bit jealous simply because he wants to spend more time with you. After a while you get yourself stuck in a situation where he controls your life.
Being jealous in a small amount can be good for a relationship, but taking things way too far isn’t something you should tolerate.
Possessive behavior quickly turns into an abusive one. Remember that next time your partner tries to control your life.
3. Emotional offense is still an offense
There doesn’t have to be any physical contact but you still can feel violated. And it can feel even worse than physical violence God forbid.
If he humiliates you with all the gross words he is saying to you, trust me, it’s not love.
You may have tried to change him for the better, but it was in vain. Actually, he may even pretend that he’s willing to work on himself but only because he’s noticed that you’re about to leave him.
He won’t let you walk away so he will act as a changed man.
4. You’re unhappy
Even though you have him near you, you started to feel lonely. His presence disturbs you.
This isn’t normal, bear that in mind. It’s better to be alone than to feel lonely in a relationship.
Relationships take a lot of work and if you’re trying to make things work while he doesn’t lift his finger, you should stop.
Save your energy and realize that you already gave more than enough. Now it’s time to let go.
5. He cheated or lied to you
I don’t think there is ever a good explanation when someone cheats on you.
You can give him a thousand more chances, but he’s still going to waste them all.
He’ll keep looking for excuses because he assumes that you would rather believe his lies than be alone, right? Well, this is your chance to prove him wrong.
Someone’s ability to lie isn’t something you can change. He can only fool you as many times as you allow him. So, stop tolerating his behavior and walk away. That’s the only right thing you can do.
6. He’s not determined or ambitious
If you have to act like a mother sometimes, you should be aware that your boy is not really a mature person.
You don’t need to worry about someone’s daily tasks when you have your own. It is fine to help your partner and support him, even more, it is desirable because it strengthens your relationship.
But if you see him lying there day after day without doing anything, run away as soon as possible.
Your partner should inspire you instead of bringing you down to the edge of life.
7. You can’t count on him in most cases
Sometimes when we feel low and miserable, we only want someone to be there for us and cheer us up.
Can you imagine that there might have been someone out there who would definitely choose to be with you instead of making excuses?
So are you still thinking about staying in a relationship with this person who’s not making your life any better?
Think wisely and find out if you still want to be the only one who is fighting for the relationship or whether you would rather find someone who will love you and trust you, someone who will be honest and who will make an effort to make your relationship healthier each day.
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