How to make an Aquarius man miss you?
It’s like a mystery that can’t be solved. He seems so detached from his emotions that you don’t even know if he can miss another human being.
Well, this air sign is something else, alright. You can’t win him over with basic tricks that you’ve used in the past on other guys.
You need to outsmart this evil genius of the zodiac and show him that you can win at his game.
As you’re likely aware, air signs are known for their intelligence and communication skills. They’re not known for being the most emotional people of the zodiac – if anything, they’re exactly the opposite.
When talking to someone born under the sign of Pisces or Scorpio, you see just how much they’d miss you in a matter of days. Well, that’s the charm of water signs.
Fire signs will play hard to get. For example, Aries will never tell you when they miss you even though they’re burning up for you.
But when we’re talking about an Aquarian, it’s like you just met an alien and genuinely don’t know how to communicate with him to make him yours forever. Well, good thing I have a few tricks up my sleeve to help you in this endeavor.
How to make an Aquarius man miss you
Once you start reading these tips and implementing these things to make him yours, you’ll see that they have a certain note to them. Most of them revolve around you holding the reins without letting him know you are.
This zodiac sign is ruled by Saturn, which is the planet of rules, regulation, and structure. You can imagine how an Aquarius guy functions and thinks if this is his ruler.
So, before we even begin with these tips and tricks, you need to outsmart the genius and step into the mindset that you’re taking total control of this situation.
1. Don’t be too available
This is the first step to making an Aquarius man miss you. Before you go on and think about doing anything else, first make sure that you’re not always available to him. That’ll completely put him off and the only thing he’ll miss is time without you.
Let me guess. Whenever he calls, you’re always there and you answer right away.
Well, as strange as it sounds, an Aquarius man likes a girl he can’t get that easily. When you’re always available, there’s nothing for him to chase. There’s nothing for him to look forward to because he knows that you’ll always be there for him.
That’s certainly not what this man is looking for, nor will that make him miss you. An Aquarian will only miss when you give him enough time to miss you.
For instance, make sure that you have other plans too. Tell him that you won’t be able to go out with him because you’ve already made plans with friends or for hobbies.
This way you’ll let him know that he’s not the only interesting thing going on in your life right now.
2. Leave a few of your things at his place
This is a sneaky little thing that works and we, as women, should do it much more often.
How do you make an Aquarius man miss you without having to make such a huge deal about it? Well, you can try to leave a few things at his place.
They shouldn’t be too obviously placed, nor should they be something that you can’t conveniently forget about.
For example, if you leave your phone at his place, that’s just inconvenient to you and it also looks like an obvious trap for him. He’ll know you’re playing games.
Aquarians are known to be players, so you can’t beat him at his own strategy.
By all means, leave stuff like your toothbrush, hairbrush, or something else that can be easily forgotten yet you have a spare of at home. Did you ever think to leave your scrunchy at his place and place it somewhere near his bed?
If you went through a breakup with this man, then you’ll score with this little trick.
He’ll remember how amazing it was to have you around and how much you meant to him. This is the perfect way to remind him of all the good times and make an Aquarius man regret losing you.
3. Wear a signature perfume
As human beings, we’re extremely sensitive to scent. We can always make out a particular smell and place it to a certain memory or person.
If you really want to make an Aquarius man miss you, you can use this little piece of info to your advantage.
Don’t just use some random scent for your signature perfume, especially not if it’s really common. But it also shouldn’t be one that no one in this world uses. In both those cases, your perfume won’t be that effective on him.
Use something that he won’t forget. Remember that you’re unique.
From now on, whenever someone walks past him with your perfume, it’ll remind him of you. If you manage to bump into him and he catches a little whiff, that scent will imprint in his memory.
If he ends up smelling your scent somewhere else, he’ll think of you and want to talk to you.
4. Give him space
How do you expect someone to miss you when you don’t give them enough time to do so? You can’t expect him to feel this undeniable need for you when you’re always around him.
I know that it’s hard. You’re so in love with him, you want to spend as much time with him as humanly possible. But if you want him to be head-over-heels for you, then you need to give him some breathing space.
Show him that you have other things to do as well. Show him that he’s not the only thing you pay attention to.
When you give him the space he’s craving, you’ll give him an opportunity to think of you.
The first few days, he won’t think that anything’s wrong. He may even be happy that you’re not texting him. But I can assure you that an Aquarius male will give you undivided attention when he feels like you’re slipping away from him.
He wants space, of course, but when you’re not around him for long enough, he’ll start to run after you.
5. Be independent
There’s nothing more attractive to Aquarians than independence. It doesn’t matter if this Aquarius guy you’re in love with is your ex or if you’re just casually talking, you’ll win him over with this.
If you’re an independent woman who pays her bills and actively works on becoming the best version of herself, then you’re the perfect woman in his eyes. That’s when he’ll start to see you as a divine being that he wants for himself.
He’s independent too, so he can’t stand when his partner crowds him with her neediness. This man has his own life, his friends, and a career that he’s working so hard for.
You can’t expect him to set everything aside to help you because you’re too codependent to do anything by yourself.
6. Don’t let him know everything about you
When you have an air of mystery around you, he’ll run after you like a lost puppy.
That sounds a little bit extreme, but it’s the truth with this air sign. It’s the same thing with Capricorn, who’s another sign ruled by Saturn. They have that thing in common where they hate people who overshare their life with everyone. That’s a huge turnoff.
If you want to turn on an Aquarian man, then let it be your mysteriousness.
In a romantic relationship, an Aquarian will want to see other parts of you too. He’ll ask more intimate questions and always be ready to listen to what you have to tell him.
But if he’s resisting you and you know he’s trying to keep his emotions at bay, you can’t give him the satisfaction of knowing too much about you. You have to remind him that you’re not giving parts of yourself away to him just to satisfy his curiosity.
Show him that you have boundaries. It’ll eat at him that he can’t figure you out. This way, you’ll become more intriguing to him by the minute.
7. Don’t text him first
If you want to make an Aquarius man miss you, it’s sure not by always texting him first.
Each time you send him a text first, he most likely rolls his eyes. He doesn’t want to talk to you, but here you were again trying to start a conversation.
What air sign wants that? Maybe Libra does, on a good day. But Gemini and Aquarius? Nope. An Aquarian will fall in love with you when you don’t bother them.
It sounds awful, I know, but it’s true. When you text him first, you’re sending him a message that you’re clingy and needy. And he really doesn’t want a girlfriend like that.
Wait for him to text you first. And if he doesn’t, or he takes too long to text you, let him go. He’s obviously not worth your time.
8. Never double text him
Is there a bigger sign of desperation to an Aquarian than someone who texts multiple times in a row to get their attention? I doubt it. (I think you could’ve guessed by now that I’m an Aquarius myself, so I’d know).
If you do decide to text him, ask him something, or send him a random meme, don’t send text after text afterward.
At this point, it’s not even about the content of the messages, it’s just about the fact that his phone is vibrating multiple times in his pocket.
He won’t reply out of spite.
At this point, I’m making my star sign seem like a villain, but you know that it’s true because he does act this way. That’s why not many people can make an Aquarian fall in love with them.
9. Be the first to end a conversation
This is a little trick that you can definitely use to make an Aquarius man miss you.
This sun sign will try everything to show you that they’re the one who has everything under control. Show him that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Always put an end to the conversation first.
Don’t even bother to give him an explanation for your little disappearing act. Just tell him that you need to get some work done and that you can’t continue talking to him.
Even though Aquarians don’t like someone clingy and codependent, they still value communication above anything else.
So when you don’t give him what he seeks most in a relationship, he’ll want to search harder for it. He’ll become more interested in what you’re doing and ask himself why you’re always the first to leave.
It’ll be so alluring and attractive to him that your entire world doesn’t revolve around him.
10. Subtly hint that you don’t want anything serious
One of the personality traits of Aquarius people is that they’re afraid of commitment. It’s not because they don’t want to be tied down, but that they’re afraid of losing themselves and their entire freedom because of someone else.
As an Aquarius woman, I can tell you that this depends on the rest of our natal chart. But it’s something very much common with our sign.
An Aquarius man in love will want you for himself entirely, but you need to get to that point with him first.
For instance, when you’re just talking, tell him that you don’t want anything serious for the time being. Tell him that you’re just casually dating.
That’ll lead him to think about you when you’re not around him. If you’re looking for a surefire way to make an Aquarius man miss you, that’ll get the job done.
He’ll go home and think about what he did wrong to make you not consider a relationship with him. He’ll get past his commitment issues and let himself fall in love with you wholeheartedly.
11. Have a designated song that’ll remind him of you
It doesn’t matter if you looked at the compatibility between his sign and yours. Even if you’re a Taurus or Virgo, you can still get him to miss you.
You’ll do this by using his biggest love to your advantage. Which is music.
Have you ever met an Aquarius who didn’t have a huge connection with music? Thought not! So, make sure that you have a designated song to remind him of you.
You know just as well as I do that a particular song can transport you back to a time where the song is significant.
If the two of you always listen to this song when you’re together, then it automatically becomes your song.
You can send the link to the song to him, or post it somewhere on your social media. It’ll remind him of you and he’ll miss the time he spent with you.
12. Appeal to his intellect
One thing you’ll always read about Aquarians in horoscopes is that they’re highly intelligent. So when you want an Aquarius man back and want to make him really miss you, then this is it.
Aquarians are often lost in social situations because they can’t find someone of their caliber. They can’t just have an intellectual conversation with anyone, because people don’t seem to be interested in the same things.
This is your time to shine.
Show him that you put a lot of effort into your intellect. Tell him about the interesting books you’ve been reading, the podcast you’ve been listening to. All of those things are important to him.
You’ll seem so much more charismatic and enthralling to him when you show him how your brain is wired. He’ll want to know everything he can about you, especially the way you think.
Many women these days like to believe that men are only into girls who play dumb, but that’s definitely not the case here.
13. Wait for him to make plans
There’s nothing more frustrating than having to wait for a man to make plans to go out. But sometimes, it’s necessary.
You can’t make him miss you when you’re always initiating time together – always being available to him and the one begging him to go out with you.
He doesn’t want that from his potential girlfriend. He wants to see that you have other things going on in your life.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t tell him what you do and don’t want to do when going out. It’s good to make your boundaries clear to him. Tell him openly when you don’t want to go somewhere or when you don’t want to see him.
But let him make the plans. By all means, share your opinion on those plans – don’t be a bubblehead. Just don’t be the one to plan everything out and then just invite him.
And don’t be the one to always text him and ask when he’ll be able to hang out with you. You’ll quickly bore him with that.
You want to make an Aquarius man miss you. You can’t do that when you continue to run after him. Show him that he has to put in some effort.
That way he’ll be intrigued by you (and feel good about himself in the process).
14. Do interesting things that he’ll notice
Every Aquarius you’ve ever met has had some weird obsession or bizarre hobby you haven’t seen before. At the very least, he has some passion that he’d do anything for.
He dedicates a lot of time to it because it’s so extremely important to him. For example, if he’s in a band, you know for a fact that he spends most of his day practicing and writing music.
What are your hobbies? Do you believe that he doesn’t want to listen to you talk about those hobbies? Well, you’d be surprised just how interested he is in it, especially if you’re not that open about it.
These things can make him love you. When he knows that you spend your alone time on something so productive, he’ll want to know everything about it. If you do something like that, then he’s sure to notice you.
So go ahead and post pictures on your social media accounts where you know that he won’t be able to scroll past them. He’ll see those pictures and want to talk to you about your interests and your hobbies. He’ll want to see what you’ve been up to.
You don’t have to try too hard to make an Aquarius man miss you because this is the perfect little trap.
15. Never get overly emotional
A common thing between all Aquarians is that they’re kind of awkward with emotions. Call it emotionally constipated, but they don’t know how to act around people who show their emotions too much.
It simply makes them very uncomfortable. So when you’re too open about your emotions, he’ll want to get as far away from you as possible.
Especially if this man is your ex-boyfriend and you want to make him miss you. He’ll want to keep his emotions locked up for a very long time. So when you show him too much of your vulnerability and your love for him, he’ll withdraw even more.
You need to give him enough space to open up emotionally when he’s ready. You can do that by being rational about feelings and always thinking things through.
Don’t act on impulse but rather use your intellect to rationalize your feelings and his.
He’ll end up missing you because he’ll know that you’re the only person who makes him feel understood. To him, emotions don’t make sense until someone manages to explain them properly. Be that someone for him.
That’s when he’ll want you around all the time.