Think aloud
How does an Aries man test you?
This fire sign is really infiltrating every single one of your thoughts. Everything he says is so captivating, but it also confuses you.
You heard that Aries men like to test the women they’re interested in. It’s like a game for them more than anything else.
You probably think that he does this because he wants to make sure that you’re the right girl for him. But I can assure you that it’s nothing that serious.
This zodiac sign likes to play his little mind games for his own pleasure more than anything. You know that he’s a bit childish, so if you’re not ready to go through all this trouble, then this is your time to leave.
But you can’t tell me that he isn’t one of the most charming men you’ve ever met. He’s funny and charismatic in ways that just make him so unique. So it may be worth the trouble of getting to know him and passing his tests.
At the end of the day, you never know if he’s joking around or if he’s actually serious. It’s hard to suss him out. You want to impress him, but you don’t know which steps to take towards it.
Good for you he’s just an Aries guy, who’s quite similar to other fire signs such as Sagittarius and Leo. He’s not that hard to figure out when you consult the stars.
So let’s use his horoscope to your advantage and win over his heart.
How does an Aries man test you?
1. He’ll try to make you laugh
There’s nothing more intriguing to an Aries guy than a woman who has a beautiful laugh! He, himself, loves to spend his time in the company of those who have beautiful smiles and laughter.
If that isn’t the most wholesome answer to the question of how an Aries man tests you, then I don’t know what is. Remember that he’s an outgoing guy who enjoys the company of others and you’ll soon understand why this is so important.
He’s not the most serious man you’ll meet. He exists purely for the pleasures the world has to offer, so he doesn’t want to spend his days with a frown on his face.
He expects his partner to have a beautiful laugh as well. When I say “beautiful,” I actually mean a genuine and authentic laugh.
He doesn’t want to see that you’re feigning your enjoyment or just trying to look pretty. Laughter should come from your heart, which is why he’ll be able to sense when you start to fake it.
Feel free to laugh your heart out when you’re around him because you can’t be too loud or too awkward in his eyes. If anything, the moment you laugh so hard that you snort will be the moment he falls in love with you.
2. He’ll test your sense of humor
So, we know that he likes to enjoy life and loves to laugh. So it’s no wonder he tries to test your sense of humor.
He wants to make you laugh and he won’t be able to do that if you get offended by every little thing. He’ll say things that may not be for everyone, but if you get it, you’ve clearly won his heart.
So don’t hold back your jokes and random comments. He’s enjoying your sarcastic remarks, I can promise you that much.
It’s simple because he’s really expecting you to be your unapologetic self. If you don’t have the same sense of humor, he’ll move on from you. It will break your heart if you’re someone who can’t take a joke, but it’ll also be good for you.
You don’t want to be with someone who isn’t compatible with you in such an important way. Most men love to make their partner laugh, and if you ace this test by an Aries man, you’ll show him you’re girlfriend material.Â
3. He’ll unapologetically flirt with you
There’s a thing or two you need to learn about the compatibility between your sign and his. For example, if you’re a Libra or Taurus, you’ll be very seductive and flirty, which is right up his alley.
However, a Capricorn or Virgo is too organized for an Aries. He just wants to have fun with the person he’s with, so if you’re a Gemini you could be just right for him.
Especially because he’s looking for someone he can unapologetically flirt with. Besides his fellow fire signs, his next pick would be an Aquarius, because they can flirt while also using their great mind to make him laugh.
But at the end of the day, you’re not just your sun sign, you have an entire natal chart that describes your personality. You could be flirty and seductive either way.
That’s what he’s looking for the most. Someone he can flirt with for hours and never get bored of it. This little game he’s playing exclusively exists to see how long it takes him to make you blush.
He’ll even be flirty over text with you because it’s his way of telling you that he likes you.
There’s no end-goal to this, other than to see if you can keep up with him. And good luck, because he’s had a lot of time to practice!
4. He’ll argue with you
You know how argumentative fire signs are. They often don’t think before they speak, especially not if they’re agitated for whatever reason.
That’s especially dangerous when you’re talking to a guy who doesn’t have a filter in these situations. He just wants to get his point across, no matter what.
It’s not fun to be the person who’s responsible for the anger of Aries. He’s not a water sign like Pisces or Scorpio who can easily move on from things.
He holds a grudge. So he’ll want to argue with you quite a lot before he starts an actual relationship with you. This is because he wants to know if you can handle his temper.
If you’re too scared to voice your opinion or you start to cry when someone raises their voice at you, maybe you shouldn’t fall for him. However, if you’re able to articulate your thoughts even when you’re angry, you’ll pass his test with flying colors.
Just remember not to insult him, but other than that, you’re free to argue with him as much as you need to. As strange as it sounds, I can promise you that your anger will be productive in a relationship with an Aries man.
5. He’ll want to see if you remember the things he tells you
If you’re looking for your soulmate, then you don’t need to search anymore. Once an Aries man falls in love with you, he’ll become everything you need.
Especially because he’ll remember everything there is to remember about you. However, it’s important you give him the same energy back.
How does an Aries man test you? Well, we can definitely see that he’s testing you when he starts to tell you a story, and then he’s like “Sorry, I believe I told you this one before.”
The moment those words leave his mouth, he’s looking for a reaction out of you. He doesn’t want you to forget these things, because he doesn’t forget them either.
When you bring him a gift and it’s something that he explicitly said he didn’t like, you’re done. It’s over. He may not stop hanging out with you, but he’ll always know that you didn’t remember that one important thing about him.
This is one of the most important tests that you’ll have to go through before he falls in love with you. Don’t mess this one up! I can assure you that he’ll be thrilled whenever you remember even the tiniest detail about him.
6. He’ll want to see if you’re ambitious
Another one of Aries’ personality traits is ambition. The first sign you’re compatible with him is if you share this trait.
To him, it’s not about money. He’s not a Capricorn. He’s more interested in authentic success.
What does it mean to you to be successful? Does that mean that you want to start your own business? Does that mean that you’re trying to learn a new skill? Or become a whole new and improved version of yourself?
Whatever it may be, you’re trying to achieve your version of a perfect life. He has those ambitions, too. An Aries man will test you by trying to decipher how ambitious you are in life.
He wants a partner who’s able to set goals, who wants more from life, and is motivated to achieve that. An Aries guy doesn’t want a partner he’ll have to string along while he does the best he can to become the best version of himself.
You need to be able to keep up with him. If you can’t do that, then you’re probably not the right person for him.
7. He’ll put your trust to the test
You’re probably thinking about how to make an Aries man obsessed with you. That’s why you’re trying to pass all of his tests.
Well, when you show him that you’re a loyal and trustworthy person, he’ll be all over you. Because he’s the type who will do anything to remind you each day that he’s loyal.
I understand that many people have different experiences with different men born under this sign. That’s why it’s so important to know if his Venus is in Aries, too. That may become a challenge for you in the long run and no one wants that.
However, loyalty is very important to an Aries sun. When he catches feelings for someone, that person becomes his entire world and he doesn’t want to get heartbroken.
That’s why he’ll test your trust and loyalty. He may do that by leaving his phone unlocked next to you while he exits the room or watching from the sidelines when a guy starts to flirt with you.
Those things seem insignificant, but they tell him a lot about your personality. Once you become aware of these games he’s playing, you’ll become the star player.
8. He’ll ask you for a favor
It’s not every day that an Aries will ask you for a favor, but how else does this man test you? Even if he feels weird about it, he’ll ask because he wants to know if you’re able to be there for him.
The Aries man that you have in your life likes to be taken care of. He wants to know that you’ll be there for them just as much as he’ll be there for you.
You’re used to being on the receiving end of a relationship for the most part. Don’t worry, that won’t change now, but you’ll have to show him effort.
He wants to know that he can rely on you when times get tough. Especially if he’s sick or he needs help with something. This won’t happen often, so don’t expect him to always be at your door begging you for something.
He’ll do it once or maybe twice. But afterward, if he feels like you’re not capable of taking care of anyone but yourself, he’ll just move along. He’s better off without a woman like that.
9. He’ll want to see if you give him enough personal space
One of the things Aries dislikes is when someone is too involved in his life. It’s not because he has anything to hide, but because he likes his privacy.
So, personal space is another aspect that an Aries man will test you in. But you’re so used to seeing him with other people that you don’t even know if he has any personal space.
He’s an extrovert, that’s true. He loves to be around people, but he wants to live a life outside of his relationship. He wants to have his own friends, his own adventures, and time for himself.
He’ll give you that same luxury, believe me. A man like that will never invade your space, so he doesn’t want you to do that to him either. He just wants to know that you two will be able to live two separate lives while also loving each other.
This test will consist of times when he won’t be available to you. He won’t cancel plans with you, but he’ll make sure you understand that sometimes he has other priorities, too.
Once he sees that you’re okay with that, he’ll fall head over heels for you. He’ll want you more than anything or anyone.
Too many couples revolve their entire lives around their partners and he just can’t seem to fit into that mold. Which is why you shouldn’t expect him to.
10. He’ll invite you on adventures
The initiator of all the adventure in your relationship will be your Aries partner! He loves the outdoors, he loves nature, and he definitely loves to move his body.
Sitting at home sounds like a boring activity that he doesn’t even reserve for rainy days. His philosophy is that you can always find something to do outdoors. Even if the weather is awful.
So, you can probably guess how an Aries man tests you. He’ll invite you on adventures and watch the way you react to his invitation.
If you’re excited, he’ll be one step closer to falling in love with you. On the other hand, I can assure you that he’ll adore you if you enjoy those adventures just as much as he does.
He wants to know that you’re ready to pack your bags just to go and explore nature with him. And if you’re not that spontaneous, he may not necessarily hold it against you.
He can have fun with you while also planning things out in advance to cure your anxiety. If anything, you’ll thank him for all the beautiful places you visit together.
If you’re feeling really free-spirited, then you could also plan a vacation or an adventure instead of waiting for him to do it. He’d definitely appreciate that.
11. He’ll want to know if you’re on the same page
An Aries man loves to know that he’s on the same page with his partner. Of course, he wants to make sure that you can both do your own thing, but it’s important that you have similar goals for the future.
For example, it may not seem like it right now, but he probably wants a family of his own one day. If you’re someone who’s never thought of that, then you’re not compatible in his eyes.
He also wants to imagine a future with you and he can’t do that if you don’t understand each other’s needs. Even if those needs are minuscule, they’re still valid.
He doesn’t want to compromise your happiness or his own for the benefit of having someone by his side. He’d much rather wait until he finds the perfect partner.
So, don’t be surprised if he asks you weird questions about your previous breakups, your turn-ons, your ideas, and your dreams. He does all of that because he’s trying to envision a future for the two of you.
It’s not that hard to figure out how an Aries man tests you when you just listen to the questions he’s asking.
12. He’ll want to see if you can keep his attention
This one doesn’t sound fair, does it? It sounds like he’ll move to the next girl before you know what hit you.
This zodiac sign definitely does have quite a short attention span. That’s because he’s moving through life at high speed and he doesn’t have time to waste.
The reason he’s trying to figure out if you can keep his attention is that he wants to know you can keep up a conversation with him. He wants a woman next to him who’ll be able to keep him interested and yearning for more.
The second you become too comfortable and stop being interesting to him, he’ll move on. He believes that there’s always someone in this world who’ll be more interesting.
He’s not a Cancer man who gets comfortable in knowing everything about his partner. He’s a fire sign who wants a change in his life! Even if that change means that he runs off the moment he gets bored.
Final thoughts
So now you know how an Aries man tests you. The big question now is: Are you even ready for his little tests?
After reading this article, I hope you’re able to understand if this is the right man for you. Sometimes, life isn’t fair, and we fall in love with the least compatible person.
But hey, sometimes opposites attract. Maybe you can still have a happy life even if you can’t align all your wants and needs in this relationship.
Either way, you should always remember that the right guy will love you for the person you are rather than for the person he wants you to be. An Aries will test you to see if you’re compatible, but you shouldn’t bend over backward to impress the man.
If he wants a specific type of girl, then he may go out and find her. You don’t exist to please a man. Especially not an immature fire sign such as himself.
Don’t worry! At the end of the day, the stars have someone ready for you, and that someone will be perfect.
Is the perfect partner for you this Aries man we’re talking about or is it someone else? You may find out sooner than you think.
For now, focus on yourself. If he’s ready to love you just the way you are, then you’ll both be happy until the end of your days. But if you need to play pretend, then move on.
You’ll find your happiness elsewhere. His sun sign, your compatibility, and his horoscope won’t matter in the slightest when your love is real.
