Think aloud
A guarded girl is a girl who doesn’t wear her heart on her sleeve.
You see the hurt and the pain in her eyes because she’s never known a love that hasn’t ended in heartbreak.
She’s never been loved the way she deserves, so she’s locked up her heart.
When you’ve been through so much hurt and pain, it’s the only natural thing to do.
You start to believe that love isn’t meant for you, that love is only supposed to bring you misery.
You don’t just forget your entire past and move on. Sometimes it feels like love simply isn’t for you.
When you want to pursue a guarded girl, you’ll have to fight harder than ever before.
This woman has known heartbreak for so long that she has built walls so high and wide, you might not even be able to see where they end.
She’s put them up just to keep herself and her fragile heart protected from harm.
Her walls will show in the number of times she pushes you away in the times she actually needs you the most.
She won’t let you get near her in her most vulnerable moments.
You won’t be able to help her even when help is exactly what she needs.
That is exactly what a guarded girl does – she doesn’t know that it’s possible to react any other way.
Her entire being is raging against letting you help her.
She wants you to work to own her trust. If you expect her to lower her walls for you, you need to show her you’re worth it.
You can’t just sit around and wait. You need to make sure she knows your intentions are pure.
Her entire past has been a long list of painful encounters with love. She wants to be sure you’re actually worthy of her time and effort.
Because if you’re going to hurt her, you might as well leave right away.
When a guarded girl gives you a chance, consider yourself lucky.
She’s probably wrestled over this decision over and over again, never really sure what the right choice is.
A guarded girl is someone who doesn’t just give people a chance to look into her soul. She’s scared – she’s beyond scared.
But she’s decided that you’re worthy of being given a chance. She wants you to be the one she loves.
That’s why she’s cautiously decided to give you a shot.
You have to realize the thought process probably wasn’t an easy one.
She’s looked at you from every perspective, analyzed your every move, talked with all her friends – just to be sure she’s made the right decision.
The truth is, she might still think that it’s a bad idea. She may still think of herself as a fool for falling in love once more.
But you’ve given her a reason to try. She thinks you worthy of another broken heart – and that’s a big deal.
When a guarded girl falls in love with you, don’t play games.
Don’t play with her emotions. Don’t be a toxic, manipulative man like all the men before you.
Treat her with the kindness and respect she deserves!
The thing is, she’ll know when you’re playing her. She can read the signs in front of her like an open book.
You have to understand that this is a woman who’s been through so much to be where she is right now and you can’t pull tricks on her.
You can’t expect a guarded girl to turn a blind eye to your little games. She’ll either call you out or simply walk away.
There’s no middle ground.
When a guarded girl falls in love with you, she’s ready to forget the past.
Her past has been a living hell. Heartbreak after heartbreak, she’s made herself believe that she isn’t worthy of love or that love isn’t worth her time.
Whatever the case may have been, it’s obvious by the way it’s taken you ages to get her to open up to you.
But when a guarded girl falls in love with you, she’s ready to leave all of that behind.
She’s prepared to move on from her past because her wounds have finally healed.
One day she might look back on those memories as a reminder of where she came from.
They will serve as a reminder of the time she thought love wasn’t real, but look at her now.
Look at how she glows when she looks at you. Look at how wholeheartedly she loves you.
She’s given love a second chance and moving on from her painful past. This woman right here is a fighter!
When a guarded woman falls in love with you, she will love you like no other.
She has guarded her heart for so long because she loves without boundaries.
When she loved before, she’d serve her heart to the guy on a silver platter.
She’s guarded her loving and caring heart because she knows how fragile it is – how much it’s capable of loving.
You will feel her love through every act of kindness, every touch, every glance.
Her kisses and embraces will be like no other you’ve ever received.
That is the love of a woman who has guarded her heart for far too long. No other has loved or will ever love you as much as a guarded girl.
When a guarded girl falls in love with you, don’t mess it up!
You’ve been given a chance that many others have fought for before you. She’s giving you this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to be loved by her.
Why would you want to mess this up?
Treat her with the kindness, respect, and gentleness she deserves. Show her you won’t just leave when times get tough.
Show her love can last decades when you’re with the one who’s meant for you.
Be the one to remind her that love is the most beautiful thing in the world. Then she will love you fiercely for the rest of your days!
