Think aloud
We have all been in situations where we spend hours daydreaming about the one. This has brought us to believe that anyone we fall in love with will be the one.
You have always thought about meeting the right person and now the thought of a soulmate seems like the most romantic thing ever.
What you might not know is that you will love many people in your life, but meeting and loving the one brings unimaginable feelings to the surface.
The right person, your forever person, the person you will call ‘the one’, he will be like nothing you have ever experienced.
He will show you how he’s different from everyone else you have met because love is more than when he calls you baby. You will know that he’s the one because these feelings will surface:
1. You will feel safe
Your forever person won’t make you feel anything less than absolutely safe. He will show you that you don’t have to fear being lonely, and you won’t have to fear him abusing your vulnerability.
He will do whatever it takes to make you feel loved and cared for. You will feel like his priority.
In your past relationships, you might have doubted your partners’ intentions and where you stood with any of them.
The right person won’t let you feel unsafe or not taken care of. He will show you how a man can take care of you and that he would never do anything to put you in danger.
2. You will feel worthy of love
Little things can make us feel loved and appreciated, and it almost always depends on the person or what they deem to be acts of love.
Very rarely do we feel worthy of that love. Why? Well, past relationships and toxic friendships can do that to a sensitive person.
We learn that being worthy of love is conditional. You have to be this or that to be deserving of love. With the right person, you will feel worthy of love because he will love you no matter what.
There won’t be a moment where you will believe that you don’t deserve his loving and caring nature.
He knows how to help you work on your insecurities and he’ll do anything to make you believe that he loves you. This will be his sole purpose in life.
3. You’ll be thankful for everything
When you finally meet the one, you will be thankful for everything that happens to you with him by your side.
You will find yourself being thankful for the arguments you experience with him because they will bring you two closer together.
Whenever you look at him, you will realize how lucky you were to meet each other. It will be obvious that he’s thankful for you too.
He’s grateful that you exist next to him and that he gets to experience every new day by your side. This is the most wholesome part about meeting the one.
4. You will feel physically drawn to him
Intimacy isn’t of the same importance to everyone. Every person has different wants and needs of course.
When you meet the right person, you will feel physically drawn to him. You will be attracted to him and all the silly things he does.
Even when he thinks that something about him is unattractive, you will make him feel like he’s the most appealing man alive.
He will do the same for you. Women usually have a lot of insecurities, but with the right person, you will feel perfect.
He will be drawn to you physically just as much as you are to him.
It’s this beautiful connection between soulmates, where you will always find a reason to touch each other. Holding hands and cuddling will become your favorite activities.
5. You will feel respected
One of the most painful experiences in a relationship is not being respected by your partner.
It hurts to know that you’d do whatever it takes for him but he doesn’t reciprocate your feelings and doesn’t respect you at all.
For that exact reason, feeling respected in a relationship takes your partnership to a whole new level. You will feel respected if you’re with the right person.
6. You will feel inspired to work on yourself
We can feel inspired by so many people during our life. Everyone can give us something of value that we can hold on to.
When you meet your Prince Charming, you will know that being inspired to work on yourself is much more prevalent in your relationship. He will show you that by working on yourself, your partnership will become even more beautiful.
7. You will feel free
It sounds a bit funny when you say it like that. You are in a relationship with someone, but at the same time, you feel free. How is that even possible?
Well, being in a relationship or marriage with the right person can make you feel free.
You will feel free to be yourself. You will feel free to express your opinion. You will feel free to go out with your friends whenever you want.
He will never put you in a position where you will have to shrink yourself down for him.
There will never come a time when he will forbid you to do anything, because he knows how valuable freedom is in a relationship.
8. You will feel like no obstacle is too big
Like with every relationship, there will be obstacles in yours even with the right person.
There will be times when you’ll yell at each other or have an argument about a topic for hours.
The difference is that you’ll never feel like a silly argument will tear you apart. Rather than that, no obstacle in your relationship will seem like a big deal.
Even if you have financial problems, you will fight together to overcome any hurdles!
9. You won’t have to hide your feelings
You will never have to hide the emotions you feel when you’re with the right person.
He will welcome all your feelings with open arms and will let you express them however much you need.
You won’t have to hide how much you love him, how sad you are, or if you’re ever mad at him.
He will want to know what’s going on with you and he will ask you how you feel about anything and everything. That’s what being with the right person feels like.
10. You will feel like you’re finally home
You know that feeling when you’re tired from a long day at work and you get home? The feeling of familiarity and safety can overwhelm you.
That’s how it will feel to finally be in the arms of the right person.
You’re tired of heartbreak and of men who don’t know how to treat you right. You’re tired of people who don’t see your worth.
When you find your way into the arms of the right person, all of that tiredness will evaporate, because he will show you how you deserve to be loved.
11. When you meet the one, you will just know
I would love to tell you that when you meet the right one, there will be a particular feeling that you will experience.
The truth is that you will just know he’s the one.
You will know by the way your entire body and soul are drawn to him. People are not lying when they say that you’ll have a gut feeling that is never wrong.
Your gut feeling will tell you that he is unmistakably the one.