Think aloud
When you look around, it’s easy to notice all of the signs that the person sitting next to you has a pure heart in their chest.
The calmness shines out of them, and you simply know that what guides them through life are positive thoughts and a kind heart. A heart that’s crystal-clean even though it’s been through a lot. A heart that’s suffered but never let that affect it.
When you look in the eyes of the person who has a pure heart, you see the beauty that they carry within themselves. It encouraging to observe them as they walk around making the world a better place with their kind, loving heart that can’t hurt anyone.
Even though conditions are never perfect and life always gets in a way of happiness, a person with a pure heart shows no signs of despair or negativity. They walk through life with their head up high, proud of everything they created by themselves.
Their beauty may not be appreciated by everyone, but as long as they have faith in themselves, things will be just fine.
If I were to ask you, “What are the signs of a pure heart?” what would you say? Are you able to recognize a kind-hearted person the moment they walk through the door or is it a bit more complicated than that?
Let’s find out, and let’s see what makes a person with a pure heart so special and unique.
In a world where everyone’s pretending to be who they actually aren’t, it’s hard to know who’s being real and who’s only faking it.
Sometimes, people pretend that they are nicer than they actually are in order to feel powerful or get praise from others.
That’s why you never know who you can trust and whose actions are honest and straightforward, without deceit.
But there’s one thing for sure – you’ll be able to see the signs that a person has a pure heart through their actions and the way they act around others.
Everyone can talk praises about themselves, but it’s a challenge to show that they’re real.
Ignore the words and look for actions. It’s the only right way to know if a person has a pure, kind heart who wishes good to all of the others, or if they’re only wearing the mask that’s bound to come off sooner or later.
Here’s how you can tell that a person’s heart is filled with kindness and generosity, and that there’s nothing dark and bad inside of it.
1. They’re always smiling
It’s not that their life is easy and they’ve nothing to worry about. To be honest, none of us have things that way.
But people with a pure heart don’t want to bother you with their own pain.
They don’t want to make your life harder by complaining about their own problems.
They believe that the world could be a better place if only we made a bit more effort. So, they make a change and start with themselves.
When you walk into the room, the first thing you’ll notice about a kind-hearted person their smile.
They’ll welcome you with their positivity and you’ll feel comfortable in their company.
It’s one of the first signs that tell you: This person has a pure heart. Treat her with kindness and you’ll never feel bad when you’re around them.
And honestly, everything will seem just fine when you find yourself close to a person whose heart is crystal-pure.
You know that they’ve been through a lot – it’s written all over their face.
Still, they don’t let the bad experiences turn them into a negative person who ruins the mood the moment they walk through the door.
Everything looks better with a smile on your face – this is a kind-hearted person’s mantra.
2. When they give, they don’t expect anything in return
Is there anything more pure and honest than doing things for others, without expecting anything in return?
You don’t owe them a favor; they wanted to help you out of the goodness of their heart. There are no hidden intentions.
If you ever meet someone who keeps doing things for others, not looking for a return favor, see that as a sign that their heart is pure.
People like this are rare and they’re certainly an exception.
In a world full of those who do things for others only because they know they’ll be offered something in return, it’s hard to find someone who doesn’t look at things this way.
Their only intention is to help others. They don’t need anything back.
And the reason behind this is simple.
People with a pure heart believe it’s morally right to help others and that God always returns the favor in His own way.
They know that good things come to those who give and that’s why they don’t need you to do them a favor if they do something for you.
As long as their heart and soul are proud of their actions, they can sleep at night and happily move through life.
3. They always try to make others happy
People with a pure heart love to see others happy. To them, other people’s happiness is the same as their own – there’s no difference.
They’ll be your shoulder to cry on, the wind at your back, and your biggest support whenever you need it.
Instead of bringing you down, they’ll look for ways to show you that your situation has its good sides and that you can get through them if you believe in yourself.
And if you don’t know how to do that, they’ll be there to believe in you.
To show you that you can do everything you can. To bright up your days whenever they get dark and gloomy.
If you see a person who makes everyone around them happy, see their behavior as a sign of a pure heart who does amazing things because it just feels right.
4. They treat people with respect
You won’t ever hear a bad word come out of their mouths. You won’t hear them talking trash about people behind their backs.
People with a kind, pure heart show no signs of disrespectful behavior.
Instead, they respect each and every person who comes into their life.
They understand that we all have something going on, and they always look for ways to treat others the right way.
Even if they don’t agree with you, people with pure hearts won’t pressure you to change your opinion.
They’ll let you do your own thing because no one is supposed to have to change for the sake of others.
Just because our opinions differ, it doesn’t mean that we’re supposed to hate on others.
The world is already too harsh.
No one should want to make it even worse by treating people with disrespect and bringing them down whenever there’s a chance to do so.
That’s why people with a pure heart treat others with kindness and the deepest respect.
Sooner or later, the way we treat others comes back to us. The question is, do you want to be hit by a brick or a softball that can’t hurt you?
It’s up to you to make the right decision – one that makes you happy and hurts less.
5. People with a pure heart can’t stay angry at others
Even if you make them angry, people with a pure heart won’t be able to stay angry for a long period of time.
No matter what you do, they always look for the reason behind it.
Maybe you had a bad day and simply said something that hurt their feelings. It wasn’t intentional, but it happened.
Or maybe you’re going through a tough period of your life and your stress levels are hitting the roof.
This makes you act in ways you usually don’t, and you may end up saying something you’re not proud of.
One of the signs that a person has a pure heart that seeks good in everyone is if they look for ways to not stay angry for a long period of time.
They simply make an excuse for you and move on because they truly believe that deep down under the skin, we’re all good and we mean well.
Sometimes, we slip and do something we aren’t proud of. Still, it’s not a good enough reason to be treated badly for the rest of our lives.
Kind-hearted people know that, and they try to behave that way with everyone around them.
It makes no difference if they’ve known you for years or you’re a stranger they’ve just met.
No matter what, you’ll get the same treatment and even if you hurt them, they won’t stay angry.
They can’t stand being the ones who make the world a worse place by being mad all the time.
6. They forgive easily
People with pure hearts don’t know how it feels to live a life full of wrath and other unhealthy emotions.
They don’t know what it means to hate on people and despise them for their actions. They don’t know, and they don’t want to know.
Instead, they forgive others for their wrongdoings and don’t bother about other people’s mistakes.
We all make them here and there, but it doesn’t mean that we have to prevent happiness from walking into our lives because of them.
Even if you make a life of a person with a pure heart harder than it is, they won’t blame you for it.
They will work through it and forgive you for your deeds.
That’s just how things work when you carry that unique heart hidden inside of you. You look at life from a different point of view.
People with a pure heart believe that God forgives all our sins. And if God is so merciful, then why shouldn’t they be?
They would rather forgive you for all of your mistakes and bad feelings that you caused in others than go to bed thinking about how they’re making you suffer by being mad at you.
These are some of the signs of a pure heart that make those people different and special.
Forgiveness runs through their veins and they see good in everyone.
You can be the biggest liar, but a person with a kind heart will surely find something that you have and no one else does.
It’s their special ability – to see the good in people and believe that it can overpower the bad.
7. They’re always ready to help others
Call them in the middle of the night, and they’ll come running to help.
Ask them for a favor anytime in your busy day, and they’ll leave everything behind just to be there for you.
People with a kind heart have something in themselves that makes them different from the rest of us.
Their goodness is contagious, making you want to become a better person.
Spend a few days with them and you’ll feel motivated to help others, in any way possible.
Even if it’s the smallest act of kindness, you’ll feel proud that you did something for others, without expecting anything in return.
8. They choose to go through life with an optimistic mindset
While walking down the street, carefully observe people around you.
Are they all in a hurry – serious, worried faces breaking through the masses, trying to get as much from life as is possible?
Now, imagine this person: Happy and smiling, no matter what life throws their way.
When you speak with them, their thoughts are filled with positivity and mindset makes you want to change and become a better person.
People like this believe in life and see its beauty whenever they go. They believe in starting over and improving yourself with every daybreak.
They see experiences as lessons and don’t bother too much about what will happen afterward because after every rain comes the rainbow.
If you have anyone like this in your close proximity, know that everything I’ve just mentioned above is a sign that their heart is pure and innocent.
It’s kind and loving, and it’ll remain like that till the world goes dark.
Their mind is filled with optimism, and come what may, they believe that there will come a day of happiness – because bad days can’t last forever.
9. You can always trust them
No matter what you tell them, know that your secret will be safe in their hands. It’ll be known to the two of you only. End of story.
A big sign of a pure heart is that the person can be easily trusted.
It doesn’t take them long to show you that you can put your heart in their hands and they’ll treat it with grace, making sure to never hurt it.
They don’t betray those who trust them enough to share their secrets with them.
They don’t play with other people’s hearts because they know how much it hurts to trust someone and have that person turn their back on you.
When they make you a promise, know that they won’t break it, no matter the circumstances.
So, if you have someone you can trust and who keeps your secrets safe, you’re looking at proof of a pure heart.
And folks like that are trustworthy to the bone.
10. They’re generous in everything they do
No matter what you ask them for, they’ll give you more than you expect.
Sometimes, you won’t even say a word and they’re already on their way to help you.
People with a pure heart are better givers than takers. They give and give, without stopping.
Advice, support, or gifts – it doesn’t matter what we’re talking about. They generously share whatever they have with those around them.
They also put others as a priority because they feel that it’s only the right thing to do.
Their heart feels better when they know that they’ve helped someone, and they’ll keep on doing it as long as they can.
It’s a clear sign that those with a pure heart see love everywhere and share it with everyone.
If you have them in your close company, cherish them and appreciate everything they do.
People like that are rare and hard to find in a sea of self-servers.
11. People with a pure heart stay humble
No matter what they achieve with their own two hands, people with a pure heart never brag about their accomplishments.
If you sit down with them to have a chat, you’ll quickly notice how humble they are.
It’s only because they know that everything is temporary and all that matters are our actions and the way we treat others.
Money won’t ever make you happy from the inside. It’ll bring you superficial, temporary happiness that will go away the moment you lose it.
People with a pure heart know that, so they focus on what’s on the inside.
They care about the soul, and they keep their thoughts positive because, at the end of the day, it’s the only thing that really counts.
12. They empathize with others
When you’re in pain, they feel your pain. When you’re happy, they share your happiness with you.
No matter how you’re feeling, those with a pure heart will show you that they understand your emotions.
They know what’s going on in your mind and heart right now, and they’re here for you if you need anyone to talk to.
When you speak with someone who’s heart is pure, their tone of voice will reveal that they truly understand your emotions.
You won’t feel like you’re being judged or blamed for something.
Instead, you’ll see it in their eyes that they understand you on a whole another level, in a way you’ve never been understood before.
13. They are always ready to share the love with others
When you’re having the worst day of your life, a person with a pure heart will approach you and show you that light can penetrate even into the darkest cracks.
When you’re feeling like you can’t take it anymore, a person with a kind heart will hug you tight and show you love in a way you’ve never felt before.
A big sign of a pure heart is the need to share their love with other people.
They genuinely care about the feelings of others and are happy to deal out love to whoever needs it.
Summing up the signs of a pure heart
I don’t need to say it for you to know that people with a pure heart are hard to find.
They really are scarce, so count yourself lucky if you have any in your life.
Once you meet someone who is pure at heart, is kind and loving, and who treats people the same way they want to be treated, do your best not to lose them.
People like this carry such a precious crystal-clear heart inside of them that the only thing they can do is make you become a better person.
They inspire you to be the best version of yourself and choose a brighter way to look at the world.
Let me sum up with a beautiful quote by Vanna Bonta:
“Pure at heart: to be like a flower that blooms as gloriously, brilliantly in a secluded wild wood, not seen and praised.”
It’s obvious that those who have a pure heart are precious – like the most beautiful flower, hidden in the dark parts of the woods for only a few to find.
But once you do, appreciate their beauty and let them grow to their fullest potential.
And they’ll enrich your life in so many ways, making you wish you’d met them earlier.
