Verbal communication is not the only way a woman expresses her emotions. Interpreting female body language will help you understand how she actually feels. Whether it’s her facial expressions or hand gestures, you need to know what they mean.
Non-verbal communication is going to reveal a lot about a person. A woman’s body movements will tell you if she’s feeling comfortable, defensive, or even submissive. Is she slouching or fidgeting while she’s talking? These cues mean something and you need to know how to decipher them.
Body language is truly amazing since it reveals some of the secrets the other person would never tell you. By observing someone’s actions, you can find out a lot about what’s going on inside their head.
Interpreting female body language: 7 signals you need to know how to decipher
When you’re trying to figure out why a woman is acting a certain way when she’s with you, you also need to know how she acts normally.
Is it common for her to touch the person she’s speaking with? Does she usually get fidgety when she’s having a conversation with someone? Or does she lean in towards the other person every time they start talking?
The best way to figure all these things out is to observe her when she’s sitting with her friends. She probably feels comfortable around them which means that her body will be relaxed and it will show you how she usually behaves.
Once you know that, you’ll be able to pay attention to the following things.
1. Does she tilt her head?
This is something women do when they’re involved in a conversation. If you notice her tilting her head, she probably agrees with you. At the same time, she enjoys listening to you and believes that you’ve made some good points.
This doesn’t instantly mean that she likes you and imagines a future with you. Instead, she simply agrees with your opinion and would like you to keep on talking so she can see what you’ll be saying next.
As much as you like her, don’t get overly confident assuming that she’s tilting her head because she’s interested in you or because she’s imagining your future together.
However, you have a chance to impress her now that she’s carefully listening to what she has to say. So use that wisely and don’t waste this opportunity.
2. Does she lean forward during a conversation?
This is also one of those body language gestures men tend to misinterpret. Just because a woman is leaning toward you while you’re having a conversation, it doesn’t mean that she likes you.
First of all, you have to take into consideration the environment you’re in. Is it noisy? In that case, she may be trying to get a better understanding of what you’re saying.
On the other hand, you may be talking about something highly important to her which is the reason why she’s so invested in the conversation. She’s carefully listening to everything you’re saying and waiting for her turn to talk.
However, if there are other people with you and she only leans in when you’re talking, then it could mean something more. Her body may be trying to tell you that she’s interested in you which is exciting. Especially if you feel the same way about her.
3. Does she make any gestures while talking or listening to others?
There are certain moves that women make when they’re nervous. But the thing is that most of these actions can also be noticed when a woman is flirting with you. So, it’s going to be a real mission to decipher what she’s trying to tell you.
Let’s say that she’s playing with her hair, touching her neck or even picking at her hands every time you start talking. Does it mean that she likes you and is nervous around you because she doesn’t want to do something stupid? Or could it be that she’s just a socially awkward person who has these self-soothing habits she uses all the time?
The best way to find out the truth is to pay attention to the way she acts around other people. Does she tend to play with her jewelry or the collar of her shirt all the time? Or does it specifically happen when she’s talking to you?
4. How much space does she take?
When you’re together with this woman, can you tell how much space she takes? Is she keeping her shoulders in, looking down, and hiding her hands? Or does she sit upright with her shoulders wide open, looking directly at you?
When we’re nervous, we tend to take as little space as possible. We don’t want to be noticed so we use our bodies as shields and hide behind them. On the other hand, when we’re feeling comfortable, we’re going to make sure we open our bodies and take all the space we can. This signifies confidence and dominance.
Even though it doesn’t necessarily mean that a woman likes you if she’s acting in any of these ways, at least you’ll be able to tell how she actually feels.
She may talk to you confidently, but if you notice that her body is shrugged in, then you’ll know that all the sweet talk is just her way of pretending. Maybe she doesn’t even realize how nervous she is but her body knows it and it can’t hide it.
5. Does she maintain eye contact?
Whenever you’re trying to read someone’s body language, you should focus on their eyes. Avoiding eye contact usually signifies anxiety while looking straight into someone’s eyes means that the person is confident and isn’t afraid to show her dominance.
Now, if you’ve already noticed that she holds eye contact with other people but can’t look straight into your eyes, it may signify that she’s hiding something from you. On the other hand, if she’s able to maintain eye contact with you and she does it while playing with her hair, for example, it could mean that she’s flirting with you.
So, both cases could signify that a woman likes you. Just don’t rush to the conclusion and take some time to see how things are going to evolve.
6. Does she smile when she’s talking?
Guys usually don’t think anything is hiding behind a woman’s smile. But what they don’t realize is that this simple gesture could mean different things.
So, when you catch a woman smiling, pay attention to how she’s doing it. Are her eyes smiling as well? If they are then she’s being genuine and isn’t hiding anything from you.
If you notice that only her lips are moving and she’s forcing herself to smile, it could mean that she’s nervous and trying to cover it with laughter.
Another important thing to consider is if she’s smiling when you tell a joke. When you’re in the company of other people and you crack a joke, does she smile at you even though you already know it’s not that funny? Or does she keep calm, like the rest of the group?
If she follows your lead, it probably means that she’s trying to grab your attention. Even though the joke isn’t hilarious, she’ll make sure to laugh simply because she wants you to notice her.
It could be that she’s flirting with you without using her words.
7. What’s her handshake like?
Now, if you’re trying to figure out if a woman likes you, then her handshake isn’t going to help you much. But if you’re trying to decipher how she’s feeling about herself, then it’s definitely something you can use to tell her inner state.
A firm handshake is a sign of confidence and dominance. When you meet someone for the first time and they give you a limp grip, you’ll already be able to tell that they’re insecure, nervous, or potentially even submissive.
This is especially valuable information in the work environment as you want to know what the other person is like. That way, you can use that information to decide which approach you’re going to have with them.
If you realize that you’re having a chat with a submissive person, you’re instantly going to change your posture and act more dominant. That way, this person will follow your lead and do things as you’d like. You’ll seal that deal in no time and get everything to work in your favor.
When you realize you’re dealing with a confident person, you’ll have to up your game and show them that you’re worthy of their time. In this case, you can’t allow yourself any mistakes since they can cost you even more than you think.
All in all, interpreting feminine body language will help you solve many dilemmas you’ve had regarding any woman in your life. It’s going to help you figure out their inner motives and emotions.
This is especially important if you have your eyes set on this one woman but you don’t know how she feels about you. You don’t have to wait for her to say it out loud. Let her body speak instead and you’ll be amazed at how much you’re going to find out.
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