Think aloud
When you find the one who made you fall head over heels, your mind gets preoccupied with the thought that you need to win this girl’s heart.
You can’t take your eyes off her. She is beautiful, fun, and intelligent. She’s more than you ever wished for.
Because of that, you get the feeling that you could never win her over. ”She’s out of your league, dude.”
However, you are not ready to admit defeat and you are willing to give it a shot. You will try to win over this girl, no matter how it turns out.
You like her so much to the point that you are brave enough to be seen as a fool if she rejects you (and we all know how terrifying this is for guys).
If it works out, you will be over the moon and if it doesn’t, at least you tried.
You have made your decision but now you have no idea how to approach her, what to say or how to behave in her company.
Everything seems so complicated and you don’t know what you should do first.
Do you call her to go out or do you wait some time?
Should you tell her that you like her or is it too early?
Should you play it cool and wait for her to make a move?
So many questions about how to win her over, but no answers.
If your feelings are honest and you really like this girl, then keep on reading. This article will help you understand what your next step should be.
It has all of the answers to your ‘how’, ‘why’ and ‘when’ questions.
This is how to win a girl’s heart!
Girls usually know what they want and if you don’t give it to them, the chances are that they will lose interest in you.
If you like this girl so much that you would do anything to win her over, it means that your feelings are intense.
She swept you off of your feet and you can’t stop thinking about her.
Instead of waiting for her to make the first move, here’s what you can do to win her over.
1. Show that you are interested!
If you want to win a girl’s heart, you need to make sure to show her that you like her. Be brave enough to walk up to her and start a conversation with her.
This will make her aware that you are interested in her, and, at the very beginning, you will be able to see if she wants to engage in a conversation with you.
If she doesn’t want to get to know you better, she will politely reject you.
This is her way of telling you, ‘‘I’m sorry but I don’t feel like getting to know you better.”
If by any chance this happens to you, you should take no for an answer and stop pushing her into it.
Respect her boundaries enough to know when is the right time to leave her be.
Otherwise, if you are lucky enough and she seems to enjoy the fact that you approached her, remember to take things slowly.
Don’t scare her by going too fast as this can only make her reject you.
Instead, take small steps that will show her your interest but won’t come off as too pushy.
2. Get to know her better!
Before taking the next step, spend some time getting to know her better.
Girls appreciate it when you give them enough space to breathe but still want to keep the communication going.
If you want to win her over, you should pay attention to what she’s saying.
Remember the color of her eyes, notice the way she laughs and be aware of the way she expresses her emotions.
Instead of rushing into it, take some time to get to know her and let her have enough time to get to know you better too.
This way, you will convince her that you are sincere and that your efforts to win her over are genuine.
3. Take initiative!
Girls love guys who know what they want.
If she notices that you are willing to make the first move and make an effort in a relationship, she will be more open to giving you a chance.
So, if you want to win a girl’s heart, you should be the first one who makes a move.
Admit to her that you have feelings for her and that you would love if she could give you a chance.
However, don’t tell her that you won’t take no for an answer.
If she’s not willing to give you a chance, don’t push her thinking that she will change her mind.
Give her space and time to think about your words. If she likes you, she won’t cut off contact with you.
If she doesn’t, at least you will know where you stand.
4. Don’t forget to make her laugh!
One of the best ways to win a girl’s heart is through laughter. If you can make her laugh, you can do anything.
Laughing at the same jokes creates a connection between the two of you and it establishes a bond that signals that she is comfortable with you.
When she laughs at your jokes, it’s the same as her saying, ”Hey, I like this guy. He is funny.”
Be confident and pull out those good jokes you have up your sleeve.
She will love the idea that you can make her smile and she will immediately let her guard down.
Being funny is a great way to make her more comfortable, as you have to remember that this doesn’t come naturally to her either.
The same way you are nervous about getting to know her better, she is probably nervous about it too.
5. Give her compliments!
When you want to win a girl’s heart, you need to step up your game.
Show her how much you like her by complimenting her personality more than her looks.
Anyone can tell her that she looks beautiful but if you pay closer attention to her, you will notice things maybe no one else ever noticed.
Tell her that it’s beautiful the way her eyes twinkle when she’s happy or that you love how caring she is toward animals.
Open your eyes, see the things she does, and compliment her on them.
If she’s having a rough day, your compliment can be a reason why a bad day turns into a good one.
She will appreciate that you noticed her mood and that you are trying to make her feel better.
For her, it will be a sign that you are fully involved and willing to commit.
However, don’t overdo it, and don’t lie! Your compliments need to be honest and sincere.
Trust me, she won’t love it if you shower her with compliments twenty times a day, as it will seem like you are trying too hard to make her fall for you.
It can also feel like you are faking it just to get what you want.
6. Always pay attention to the details!
Girls always see the little things so they will instantly appreciate a man who does the same.
If you truly want to win her over, you need to pay attention to everything she does and says.
Remember the little details she told you a while ago, as that’s her way of testing your commitment.
If she notices that you don’t listen to her when she’s speaking, she will start losing interest in you.
If she complains to you about something that just happened, try to understand where she is coming from.
Understand her and be her support when she needs it.
Be a good listener, as you will learn a lot of things from the words she says to you. She is putting them in front of you and waiting for you to get the point.
If she sees that you are dedicated and that you listen closely, you are one step closer to winning her over.
7. Make sure she feels safe and protected in your company!
Making a girl feel protected by you is a great way toward winning her heart. She needs to feel emotional protection and safety when she’s with you.
You don’t need to start fights with other guys; we are not talking about that type of protection. You need to make her feel safe in your company.
When she’s feeling sad and like the world is falling apart, you need to be the one to whom she will go running.
You need to comfort her and make her feel that everything will be okay and that you are there for her.
Once you show her this, she will slowly give you her heart and start trusting you more than before.
Be her safety net and catch her whenever she falls!
8. Take her on cute dates!
We’ve already said that one of the ways to win a girl’s heart is to show her that you are willing to make an effort.
And what says ‘effort‘ more than cute and creative dates that you came up with on your own.
Anyone can take her out for dinner but if you are willing to win her over, you should be more creative with your date ideas.
If you have listened to her closely, you will know what she likes and dislikes.
This means that you can come up with more personal date ideas that will mean more to her than cheesy date night ideas that everyone else uses.
If she mentioned that her lifetime wish is to spend a night at the beach, looking at the stars and waiting for sunrise, then your job is to make it possible.
She will be thrilled that you listened to what she was saying and that you want to make her dreams come true.
The little things mean the most and they are the ones that can help you on your way toward winning over her heart.
Be innovative and creative with your dates. Show her that you are fully involved and that you want your relationship to work.
When she sees that your words are supported by your actions, you will be closer to winning her over.
9. Always be yourself!
If you want to win a girl’s heart, everything will be in vain if you hide your real self.
Pretending to be someone else just to get her to trust you is a path toward self-destruction.
You can hide your real personality at the very beginning, but at some point, you will have to show her who you really are.
So, avoid pretending that you are someone different just because you think that she will like you for that. Instead, be confident and be yourself.
You are one of a kind and it’s better that she doesn’t like you for who you are than to like you for who you aren’t.
Girls love guys who are comfortable with themselves and who show their real face from the very beginning.
Don’t trick her into believing that you are someone else as it will backfire on you.
This is how to keep a girl’s heart!
Once you win a girl’s heart and she lets you inside her world, your job is not done. You’ve completed one step but there are a lot more to take.
Don’t think that your previous success will be the reason why your girl will fully commit to you because it won’t.
You need to make sure to always show her that you still care for her and that you are willing to fight for her.
Once you win a girl’s heart, you need to make sure to keep it too. If that doesn’t happen, everything was pointless.
1. Be honest with her!
Men tend to chase something until they get it. After that, they may retreat into their hole and start avoiding you.
If at any point you start losing interest in her, be honest and tell her the truth. It’s better to say it than to start ghosting her and ignoring her calls.
Also, if you see that your opinions don’t match up anymore, it’s probably time to admit it.
Playing games with her will hurt her and if you truly cared for her at some point, you won’t let her get hurt.
2. Don’t stop supporting her!
If you chose her, then stick with her! Be her rock of support and someone she can turn to whenever she needs.
You will be in her heart forever if you show her that she can count on you. Be there for her, no matter how hard it gets.
Your words of support can make her achieve amazing things. She will be able to do everything on her own if she knows that you have her back.
Sometimes, we need just a couple of words that will guide us toward our goal.
If she sees that you are willing to be someone who encourages her, she will be yours.
3. Always show respect!
Once you win her over, you need to show her that you respect the person she is. Make her realize that you will never criticize her for being herself.
You will accept her dreams and beliefs and you will show her that you don’t want to change anything about her.
Also, remember that you have to respect her in the bad times the same way you respect her in the good ones.
Don’t let an argument be an excuse to mistreat her.
If she’s your partner, you should never let yourself treat her the way she doesn’t deserve.
She needs to be respected at all times and you should never take a step in the wrong direction.
The first time you raise your voice or show signs of disrespect, she will be gone and you will be left alone, devastated about what you did.
4. Show her that she can trust you!
Words don’t mean much when you lose the ability to turn them into reality. Your girl needs to be aware that she can always rely on you.
Trust is one of the most important parts of every relationship. When it’s gone, bad things start to happen.
If she doesn’t feel that she can trust you, she will never let you fully have her heart, as she will be guarded all the time.
Lie to her once and all of your chances to become her only one will be thrown in the trash.
Trust is something you earn through your actions and deeds so make sure to do the things you say you will.
Don’t try to deceive her as you will start losing her heart instead of keeping it yours.
5. Pay attention to communication!
Don’t forget that she can’t read your mind.
Start telling her what bothers you. Start sharing your beliefs and thoughts with her as it will make it possible to develop a deep bond between you two.
Sitting there waiting for her to start a conversation every time sends her a sign that you don’t care about her.
If you do, you will make an effort to engage more.
Tell her your deepest fears and share your most intense emotions.
This will mean that you are willing to be vulnerable with her, as you are giving her your heart.
You know that there is a chance that she can hurt you, but you don’t care as you choose to believe that she won’t decide to do that.
When you find yourself in a relationship where no topic is off-limits, that’s when you will be able to say that you have fully won her over.
6. Love her the way she is!
Anyone can appreciate beauty but it’s hard to find the one who can appreciate those parts of us that even we don’t feel comfortable with.
If you really like her, even those parts of her that she’s insecure about will look beautiful to you.
Don’t point them out, telling her that she needs to change anything. Instead, accept her the way she is and appreciate her as a person.
We are all unique in our own way, and the right person will know how to cherish that.
If you look at her and see only flaws, I’m sorry to say, but you don’t deserve her.
When you truly like someone, you see the beauty and don’t notice flaws, as they have too much good to offer for you to focus on the bad.
7. Make her feel like she is the only girl in the world!
If you show her that your intentions are honest and that she is the only girl that you see, she will give you her heart and soul.
Girls love to be treated well and they want to feel that your eyes are only on them. If you can’t deal with that then you are not ready for commitment.
If you really like her, you will do anything to show her that you are truly, madly, deeply into her and that no one could compare to her.
When you look at her, she will feel that no one around her is as important to you as she is.
After you convince her that she is the only one, you will see how it feels when you are the only one in her world.
She won’t see anyone else, and her heart will be yours.
8. Always remind her that you love her!
Don’t forget to remind her how much you love her and don’t forget to do this often. It takes a second to say it and it will make her day better.
We tend to forget to show appreciation once we get what we want.
You think that you two being together implies that you love each other, but it still feels nice to hear those words from time to time.
If you are serious about her and you really want to win this girl’s heart because she seems like the one who is meant to be yours, then go for it.
Make an effort and show her your real self. If she doesn’t like it, then it wasn’t meant to be. If she does, I wish you good luck on your future journey with her.
