Think aloud
We all have that one friend who attracts each and every man she comes in contact with.
Sometimes, you would love her to give you a lesson on how to be irresistible because you see how good at it she is.
It’s not the way she dresses or talks; it seems like it is deeply rooted in her persona. She just has it all and she knows how to get a man’s attention.
Some women are born with it; they have that thing that makes everyone around them aware of their presence.
They know how to put themselves in the center of attention and you can bet on the fact that guys won’t take their eyes off her.
Still, it doesn’t mean that you can’t learn how to be irresistible.
If you use the following tips and tricks, your confidence will rise and you will start to draw more attention to yourself.
P.S. I know that you are trying to be more irresistible for that one guy in particular.
This article will help you bring out the best of you which will make him fall for you head over heels.
Keep reading, if you want to learn how to be irresistible to him.
This is how to be irresistible to a man (from physical appearance to your personality)!
Don’t think that it’s the end of the world and that there is no way that you could become more irresistible to a man.
Everything can be improved or fixed when you know what to focus on.
We have listed ten things that can help you climb up the ‘irresistible’ ladder.
1. Maintain your appearance
Truth be told, physical appearance is the first thing we notice.
We can deceive ourself and others by saying that we don’t care how someone looks and how we only care about their personality.
However, we know that this isn’t true.
A person who doesn’t seem to care about themselves will never be seen as irresistible. That’s a fact!
So, when you are trying to be more irresistible, the first thing you should do is pay more attention to the way you present yourself.
Not only will it make you more appealing in the eyes of a man, but it will also boost your confidence.
When he sees that you genuinely care about yourself, he will instantly see you as more irresistible.
And nothing screams more, “I care how I look,” than freshly washed clothes and clean, brushed hair.
Self-care is the key! When you start feeling good about yourself, it will reflect in the way you look.
You should pay more attention to exercising, eating well, and taking good care of yourself. It will make a difference, trust me!
2. Acknowledge the power of scent!
Scent is a great memory trigger. It can make someone think of you later in time, when they smell something that reminds them of you.
That’s why you need to pay more attention to your choice of perfume when you are trying to be more irresistible.
It is something that can attract him and make him think about you whenever he smells it.
This scent can literally make him go crazy for you and it can make you look more appealing in his eyes.
Look for a perfume that you enjoy smelling on yourself and let it be the one he can’t resist either.
3. Be confident!
Men love women who are confident and know their worth.
It makes them more irresistible and their wish to be in the company of someone like that instantly grows.
If you are trying to be more irresistible, you need to start working on your confidence; that something-something that makes a man fall for a woman comes from the inside.
You can be the prettiest girl in the world but if you don’t know how to handle all that prettiness, he won’t notice you.
On the other hand, when you know what you have to offer and carry yourself with confidence, your beauty shines from within.
Your character and your ability to show how much you are worth are what’s going to sweep him off his feet.
When you know what you want from life and when you show him that you don’t lower your standards for anyone, he will see you as an irresistible woman whom he needs to get to know better.
Men appreciate women who know exactly what they want. That’s why you need to start working on your confidence.
Practice walking around the house, with your head up high, shoulders wide. Observe a confident woman and see how she behaves.
It can help you understand how you can improve your posture to make yourself look more confident.
Another great thing that makes you seem more confident is eye contact. When you know how to use it, you become a master of seduction.
You can clearly see the difference between a shy woman and a confident one.
A shy woman turns her look away from the guy she likes while a confident one stares directly into his eyes.
She won’t feel uncomfortable because she is confident enough to know what she wants.
If you feel that you are still not at that level then keep on practicing. Start with a mirror and look yourself directly in the eyes.
Then move on to your friends and when the time comes, use that powerful look of confidence on the man you like.
It will make him go crazy for you and it will make you look irresistible.
4. Change your mindset into a more positive one!
As you shine, you attract – five words of wisdom.
Don’t expect to look irresistible in his eyes when you constantly beat yourself up.
He will sense your insecurities and your opportunity to impress him will be doomed to fail.
If your mindset is negative even if you are trying to hide it, trust me, he will sense it.
Remember that negative people bring us negative thoughts. That’s why you need to change your attitude.
If you think positively, the positive energy will shine out of you and you will make other people around you feel good.
So, when you are trying to be more irresistible to a man, you need to make sure to change your energy.
Eliminate pessimism and replace it with a dose of optimism.
No, bad things are not happening to you because you deserve it; they are happening so they can make you a better person.
That’s the attitude you have to have if you want him to fall for you (and make yourself a happier person overall).
5. Stop seeing other women as a threat!
Don’t blame it on other women. Period.
By making rude comments to them, you won’t make yourself irresistible to him. It can only make him lose interest in you.
They won’t take him from you if he’s meant to be yours. That’s why you need to stop seeing other women as a threat.
If you constantly compare yourself to them, your confidence will lower and he will see you as insecure.
Instead, you should show him what it is that you bring to the table.
Show him that you are unique, one of a kind, and if he doesn’t like it then he’s not the one for you.
You need to be aware of your qualities and you should never put other women down in order to lift yourself up.
Don’t be jealous of other women – it makes you look desperate and guys don’t like women who fight to be seen by them.
6. Show him that you are independent!
Men can be afraid of independent women but still, they can’t resist the temptation to be with them.
They like the idea that a woman will show them that she knows what she wants from life.
He won’t need to take her by the hand and show her how the world functions as she already knows.
When you show him that you are capable of taking care of yourself, it will make you look more irresistible.
If he sees from the very beginning that you know your worth and that you don’t have time to waste, it will immediately make you more attractive to him.
He will know that you don’t go out with guys just because you are in desperate need of someone.
He will see that he will have to fight for you a bit more than he usually would with a woman.
That’s what men love – they love to chase and they also love women who don’t show everything on the first date.
You should show him your attitudes and beliefs and make him aware that you won’t be home alone, sitting and waiting for him to call you.
You have your visions and goals to fulfill. This makes men go crazy and it makes you look more irresistible.
When he knows that you won’t give up your whole life just to be with him, he will immediately try to find a way to become a part of your life.
7. Use your smile as a way to sweep him off his feet!
Men love to make women laugh but they also love when a woman can make them laugh. It’s a powerful turn-on for them.
Especially these days, a woman often doesn’t bother being the one who makes a guy laugh. Instead, she sits and waits for him to make the first move.
When he realizes that you are one of a kind, someone who is willing to make him laugh, you will become more irresistible in his eyes.
All of us love to be in the company of a funny person who knows how to joke around.
If this person is a strong, confident woman – you – then you will be lucky enough to win the game of capturing his heart.
Play it cool and start using more humor in your conversations but don’t force it too much and don’t overuse it, as that sends him a signal that you are trying to be noticed too much (and men don’t like that).
If you feel that you are not comfortable telling jokes, start practicing around close friends.
Also, use facial expressions or tone of voice to give more personality to your jokes.
You don’t have to sit at home, looking for jokes that will make a good impression on him.
Instead, incorporate your humor into everyday situations and slowly but surely start to use it.
Observe his reaction and you will see in his eyes that he’s falling for you.
8. Express your opinions!
Men love women who are not afraid to say what they think. They love that they can engage in meaningful conversations with them.
So, if you are trying to be more irresistible, you should definitely start working on your conversation skills.
Don’t be afraid to tell him what you feel about a certain subject, even if your opinions don’t match. It can only make you look more attractive.
We already know that men love to chase and a man wants to convince a woman that he is the one who is right.
This means that if your opinion differs from his, it can only make him want you more.
When you tell him with confidence, “These are my attitudes and this is what I believe in,” it shows him that you are not willing to change your opinions for him.
They love it when you don’t sugar-coat things because of them, but instead, honestly express what you think.
This makes their head spin in a good way so you should use it to your advantage!
Show him that you are not afraid to tell him what you think and believe and he will chase you, looking for more of your opinions.
9. Leave something to the imagination!
Men love mystery. They love it when you don’t tell them everything at the very beginning but instead let them explore and look for the other parts of you.
Men don’t want the whole cake at once; they want it piece by piece.
Even if you are open about yourself and have no trouble sharing every part of your life, start doing things a little bit differently.
If you put all your cards on the table, there is nothing that will make him look forward to your next date.
You would be sharing everything and there would be nothing to keep him interested or excited for the next time.
Sometimes you need to give him only half the story so that he will have to use his own imagination. Keep him guessing and thinking about you.
If you finish your puzzle on the very first date, there will be nothing to get him enthusiastic about the next one.
Instead, put the puzzle together piece by piece. This way, you will keep him interested and he will be excited to learn more about you.
10. Learn to truly love yourself!
When you learn to love yourself, others will follow your lead and you will become more irresistible to them.
Instead of trying to please others, focus on your life and your goals. Show a man that you can live a life without him and that it won’t bring you down.
If he wants, he can be part of it but if he doesn’t, you won’t spend ages thinking about him and how he didn’t choose you, as you have your life to live.
The key is to create a fulfilling life that will make you happy, no matter whether a man is around or not.
You need to learn that you come first and that others should never take up position number one.
Once that happens, you will start to radiate happiness, and others will become attracted to it.
Positive emotions are contagious and everyone will want to experience them with you.
Desperation and low self-esteem will only push them away.
Mistakes you should avoid if you are learning how to be irresistible to a man!
Every story has two sides. It also means that each ‘does‘ has its ‘don’t’.
Sometimes, you can be too focused on the fact that you want him to notice you, and to be the only woman he wants, so you start making mistakes.
Unfortunately, those can bring you more harm than good.
When you are trying to be more irresistible, you need to be aware of what not to do the same way you need to know what to do.
(This ‘don’t do it’ part can sometimes be even more important than the ‘do it one.)
Firstly, you should never overdo it. If you try to use all of the tips on one date, the chances are that you will not come off as irresistible but as scary and too pushy.
This is not your goal.
Instead, without scaring him off, show him that you are confident and that you know your value.
If your first date is filled with sentences such as, “I am the best.
I know my worth and I don’t need you in my life to be happy,” he probably won’t bother asking you on a second date.
Or if you pay too much attention trying to make him laugh, you can end up looking like a bit of a lunatic and he may ask himself what is wrong with you.
That’s why you need to act naturally and slowly reveal your cards that will sweep him off his feet.
Don’t go in too fast, otherwise you are creating an obstacle for yourself.
Secondly, don’t wear clothes that are too revealing, thinking that it will make you more irresistible.
If you are interested in something serious and longer than a one-night stand then avoid showing too much. It doesn’t help but rather makes you seem cheap.
Thirdly, don’t pretend that you are something you’re not just because you want to attract a man.
It can work a couple of times, but eventually, he will realize that you were pretending in the beginning.
Men appreciate real women who are comfortable with who they are. They don’t want you to pretend just to get their attention.
They want you to be real with them and show them your true personality.
Playing games can help you in the beginning, but later on, it only pushes you back to the starting line.
Another thing men hate is when a woman plays dumb for them. We women have to realize that playing dumb will never do us a favor. NEVER!
Instead, men think that we really have nothing to say, that we don’t know how to express our opinions, or that we are unintelligent and they run away from women like that.
A real man will always appreciate a woman when he can have a real conversation with her and share his ideas and opinions, rather than someone he struggles with engaging even in small talk.
If he feels like he has to beg you for your opinions, trust me, he will walk away.
That’s not playing mysterious; that’s playing dumb and men don’t appreciate it.
Finally, get his attention with your words and behavior and not by talking loud.
This is a desperate move that screams, “I have no idea what I am talking about so I am just being loud in order for you to give me your attention.”
Let your words and actions speak for you, and not loudness or a high pitched voice. This can only scare him off as you may come across as too desperate.
To conclude…
Once you understand that the ability to look more irresistible comes from within, you will start to attract what you want.
Men love women who care about themselves and who walk and talk with confidence.
When he sees that you can live a full and happy life without him, that’s when he will try to become a part of it.
He wants to see that you are a strong woman who can let him into your world and let him be your man.
Once you achieve that, he will see you as irresistible and someone he wants to get to know better.
