Think aloud
Sometimes you find yourself in a situation where you have to tell your friends that hurtful, “He broke up with me,” sentence.
From that point on, your main question becomes, “Will he come back?”
Breakups are hard but it’s even harder to wake up every day, wondering if he will come back.
Is there any chance that you two will get back together, even though he broke up with you?
They say that if someone who is meant to be with you leaves, they will always find their way back.
At some point, they realize that they can’t live without you. Still, you are not sure what will happen in your case.
Will he come back or will he continue with his life, on his own, leaving you behind?
Sometimes, it’s easy to tell. It seems like all of the signs are screaming, “Yes!” to your, “Will he come back?” question.
But sometimes, they all show that, “No,” is the correct answer.
Will he come back if he broke up with you?
Usually, the little things are what show you whether he will come back or he will leave you in the past and start a new life.
The following ways can tell you if he has any intention of coming back and trying again with you.
P.S. I’m sorry to say but if he doesn’t do any of these, then there’s a low chance that he will come back.
Maybe he has moved on and has no intention of trying again with you.
1. He expressed his appreciation of you at the time of the breakup
If you want to know whether he will come back to you, then look for the answer in the way you two ended up things.
When the ending is friendly and he expresses his appreciation for you, there are high chances that he will want to try again.
If there were no words of hate but rather, “I love you but I need some time to think about us,” then you can expect that he will come back.
The reason why he broke up with you may be because things were going too fast.
Maybe he needed some time to think about your relationship, and now that he has, it will be easier for him to realize how lucky he was.
The time and space without you will make him appreciate you. It will just click in his head and he will think, “Man, I was so lucky to have her.”
While you’re overthinking about whether he will come back, he may have even already planned a way to sweep you off your feet again.
2. He always checks on you
If he occasionally sends you a, “How are you doing?” message, even though you two are not in a relationship, then why are you even asking yourself whether he will come back?
When his concern for you continues even after the breakup, he probably wants to get back together.
He still has your back and he doesn’t want to lose you. He may even be planning something better for you.
If you show him that you also still respect him and that you will be there for him even though the two of you are not together, his wish to come back to you can only grow.
3. He wants to stay friends with you
If he wants to stay friends with you, it means that he’s not ready to lose you. He needs you in his life and he’ll do anything to have you there.
This could also mean that, “Will he come back?” equals, “Yes.”
Let’s be honest, it’s hard to stay friends with someone you’re in love with. At some point, you two will end up back together and that’s a fact.
So, if he wants to be your friend even after the breakup, it suggests that he won’t be reluctant about the idea of getting back together.
Maybe he will use the friendship to try to work on the issues from the past.
Or he will see the way you two function as friends and he will miss that connection that he only had with you.
Whatever the reason is, if he tries to stay friends with you, he’s aware that he can’t afford to lose you. Somewhere down the line, he will try to get you back.
Otherwise, he would just move on.
4. He sends you, “I miss you,” texts
If the two of you are casually chatting from time to time and he slips an, “I miss you,” text into your conversation, it’s a probable sign that he wants to come back.
If he puts his feelings ahead of his ego and tells you sincerely that he misses you in his life, then his feelings toward you aren’t dead.
It takes guts to let yourself be vulnerable in front of someone when you don’t know what their answer will be.
He is willing to do that just to let you know that he still needs you.
If he does this, he’s giving you an answer to the, “Will he come back?” question. Plus it’s an answer you will like!
5. He calls you the nicknames you called each other when you were together
When you want to end things for good, you keep everything that reminds you of that person in the past.
Especially the cute nicknames you called each other when you were together.
However, if he accidentally says the name he used to call you when you were in a relationship, it suggests that his feelings are still there.
Trust me, he didn’t plan to use those words. It just happened because he still thinks about you.
His subconscious won’t let him get away without showing you that he wants to get back together.
The bottom line is that you can’t be sure whether he will come back if he only does one out of the five things that I mentioned above.
But combined together, you will see clear signs that he’s not ready to get rid of you from his life.
He needs you and even though he broke up with you, he finally realized that you are the one for him.
