Think aloud
Are you interested in dating a stubborn girl? Well, I’ll tell you why that’s a great idea!
Even though many would say that being stubborn is a bad thing, a stubborn girl has qualities that make her different from all the rest.
Being stubborn basically means that you don’t let go of your grudges or beliefs for a long time, but it also means that you don’t give up on anything easily and that includes not giving up on the person you love.
It also means that you’re tenacious and persistent, which are positive qualities.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that being with a stubborn girl won’t be exhausting from time to time.
She can be tough to handle, but you know what? It’s worth it.
You will have arguments with a stubborn girl, but she will be stubborn about loving you, too.
The truth is, being stubborn means that she is not the type all men can handle.
She needs a real man, who will be able to understand her and love her for who she is.
Her stubbornness will be something you’ll love and hate about her at the same time. It will amaze you at times and seem annoying on other occasions.
The great part about it is that you’ll realize that she doesn’t need you; she just wants you.
If you’re tired of girls who need you, this is the one you should be with because it will surprise you how independent she is.
She is also not going to be careful about what she says around you. When she has something to say, she will say it, whether you like it or not.
You might not be so happy about that right now, but that actually means she is real and honest, and those are great qualities.
She will need you to understand her and be patient, and you will have to put in as much effort as she does when it comes to your relationship.
It will never be boring, as being in a relationship with a stubborn girl is always interesting.
She’ll keep things real and passionate, and why would you want to be with someone who never disagrees with you anyway?
If you want someone like that, this is not the girl for you.
She has a mind of her own, and she will disagree with you whenever she thinks that you’re not right.
When she is the one who is wrong, she won’t be glad to admit it, but that is why you will know that she’s being genuine when she does.
Are you falling in love with this girl already, or do you need more reasons?
Here are all of them:
1. She is incredibly passionate
Being stubborn means being passionate and what man wouldn’t like to be with a passionate woman?
When she sets her mind on something, she excels at it, whatever it is, and it’s all thanks to being passionate.
If she is genuinely interested in something, she will be passionate about it, and that passion will lead her to succeed in what she does.
This is because that passion keeps her motivated and full of energy, and those are the two key factors of success.
If this doesn’t sound like a good enough reason to fall in love with her, you should keep in mind that it means she’ll be passionate about you too.
When the two of you get into a relationship, she will be passionate about making it work, which means that even though you will have your disagreements, she will do everything she can to resolve any problems and get your relationship back on track.
2. She has a mind of her own
The truth is, it will be hard to handle her sometimes, but, as I said earlier, it’s worth it.
So what if she isn’t willing to accept all your advice or all your suggestions? It only means that she has a mind of her own, and she’s not afraid to use it.
Having a mind of her own means that she won’t blame anyone else for the mistakes she makes.
She will be aware that she was the one who made a choice, and no one else is to blame if it turns out to be the wrong one.
Some men like women who only nod at everything they say, and can’t think with their own head, but if you’re not one of those men, you’ll love this girl.
3. When she finally opens up, she’ll be fully committed to you
Don’t expect her to open up right away.
She is independent, and she’s the only one who watches out for her, so she’ll be careful at first.
She doesn’t want to let anyone manipulate her, so she’ll need to get to know you before she lets you get to know her.
This means that you’ll need to be patient. She’ll have to make sure that you’re the right person for her before she opens up to you.
Once she does, she’ll give herself fully and commit to the relationship.
She won’t ever give up on you once she’s sure about you, so just be patient at first, and don’t give up on her.
4. Her heart is pure
She might be the most stubborn person you have ever met, but you should know that her heart is pure.
When she feels, she feels deeply, and stubborn people actually wear their heart on their sleeve.
She is a sensitive person, especially when it comes to the elderly or children.
When she sees any of them hurting, she will do everything in her power to help them and make them feel better.
Even though this girl is, as they say, high-maintenance, that doesn’t mean that she cares about material things, as she doesn’t.
What she cares about are feelings, so seeing you help an elderly person cross the road will mean much more to her than if you buy her an expensive gift.
5. She will make you a better man
You’ll be surprised when you realize that she knows you better than anyone, including yourself.
When she is sure that she knows what’s best for you, she will make sure you realize it too.
Your happiness, well-being, and safety will be more important to her than her own, so she won’t ever let anything jeopardize them.
If you try to destroy yourself, she won’t let you, even if it means getting in a huge fight with you.
She’ll teach you to love yourself, even more than you already do, and she’ll make sure that you become the best possible version of yourself.
If you want to be with someone who will make you a better man, this is the girl for you, because she won’t stop pushing you to become better.
6. She doesn’t lie
Don’t expect that she’ll act like nothing’s wrong when she’s hurt.
If you hurt her, she’ll make sure you know about it, and that you regret it, so you would never do it again.
This is because she is an honest person, who always says what’s on her mind, and she can’t lie.
She’ll say everything she has to say, and she’ll do it directly because she doesn’t keep her thoughts to herself.
I’m a strong believer that only honest relationships are the ones worth having… so, if you’re anything like me, you’ll appreciate the fact that this girl doesn’t lie.
7. She owns up to her mistakes
Let’s be honest, a stubborn girl is a proud girl, which means that she doesn’t like admitting that she’s wrong.
However, that doesn’t mean that she won’t do it, and when she does, you’ll know for sure that she’s being genuine.
She hates making mistakes, but she’s not afraid to own up to them.
Her shortcomings and weakness are things she’s not proud of, but she won’t deny having them.
8. She is incredibly independent
She knows how to look out for herself, and she’s been doing so her whole life.
A stubborn girl is actually a strong and independent woman who got everything she has only thanks to her own efforts.
This is why she doesn’t let anyone tell her what to do and she does whatever she wants with her life.
She knows best what’s good for her, and she won’t let anyone else tell her otherwise.
A lot of men are intimidated by independent women, so they are too scared to approach them, but you don’t have to worry…
If she likes you and thinks you’re right for her, she will approach you instead.
9. She is confident
Being stubborn means having confidence in the beliefs you have and the things you stand for.
You don’t need me to tell you how attractive confidence can be in a girl, and this girl has it.
She doesn’t need you to boost her self-confidence because she knows who she is and is proud of it.
This girl walks with her head held up high, but it doesn’t mean she isn’t humble enough or that she isn’t aware of her flaws.
10. She won’t let herself fall for you so easily, but when she does, she’ll be yours forever
She doesn’t let herself fall in love so easily, but when she does, she falls madly in love, and it lasts forever.
The reason why she won’t fall for you right away is that she got hurt several times in the past, and she learned an important lesson from that.
She won’t let you close to her heart right away, because she doesn’t want to let you break it.
You need to show her that her happiness is important to you and that you’ll do all it takes to finally win her heart.
She needs a man who is ready to make an effort to get her to fall in love with him.
Once you show her that you’re the right person for her, you’ll see that it was all worth it, because she’ll be completely yours, and she’ll love you forever.
11. She is loyal
As you can figure out from what you read earlier, earning her trust won’t be such an easy task.
However, once you manage to do so, you will get an amazing reward for your efforts – her loyalty.
Once she sees that you’re ready to put in a lot of effort for her, she’ll put in a lot of effort for you too.
She will be loyal to you, and she’ll try to meet all your expectations and needs.
12. She is very emotional
I already mentioned that she is sensitive, but you should know that she’s not afraid to show it either, so she won’t be embarrassed about crying when the two of you are watching a sad movie.
Her emotions are strong, and she doesn’t think twice about expressing them, no matter when, where, or why she feels them.
She is proud of that because she never pretends she’s something she’s not.
In a relationship, she will express her love for you in all the ways possible.
13. She will consider your perspective
Of course, you’ll argue with her sometimes, but stubborn women are experts at arguments.
This means that she knows that she needs to consider your perspective as well and to look at things from both sides.
She will have strong feelings when the two of you argue, but it won’t stop her from trying to see things from your point of view.
14. It never gets boring with her
All in all, being in a relationship with a hard-headed girl like her won’t always be easy, and there are bound to be some conflicts.
Would you really rather be with someone who never disagrees with you?
Sure, it won’t always be easy with a stubborn girl, but it will never get boring because she knows how to keep things interesting, real, complicated, and passionate.
If this doesn’t sound like the girl for you, don’t waste her time, but if you think that you can handle her, go for it, and you’ll see how worthy of the trouble she truly is!
