You may have heard that a ‘real man’ exists, that he does certain things, and when he does these things you’ve hit the jackpot.
Some women might say that the term ‘a real man’ doesn’t exist because there’s no such thing as a perfect person.
Dating can be tough sometimes. You’re constantly wondering whether the person you’re dating is the real deal or just someone whom you’ll forget after a couple of months.
On the other hand, everyone hopes to get what they deserve, and that’s finding true love.
If you ask women what their ideal partner would be, every one of them would have a sketch of a ‘real man’ in their mind.
Eventually, it really comes down to personal preferences.
It actually depends on the individual, so what one woman might think is attractive, another woman would tell you they find unappealing.
The thing is, most will say it’s not about his appearance, but how a guy treats a lady.
It’s important to notice his behavior toward you.
No amount of words could describe a guy’s feelings because they’re not usually vocal enough about their emotions.
I’m not saying that every guy won’t have the courage to talk about them, but most of them lack the audacity to express them through words.
The right person will be the one who’s ready to be there for you and to go through thick and thin to impress you.
Love should always be unconditional and the right partner will see beyond your imperfections. In fact, the perfect partner will embrace those flaws and love you for them.
I’m not saying that you’ll be always happy with them, but a partner who loves you will try his hardest to make your life unforgettable.
I know you’ve been wondering what sets apart a truly mature man from a boy. Well, if he does these things you’ve hit the jackpot:
1. He’s ready to commit
The perfect guy for you won’t have a problem committing to you. He will be determined to hold on to you, no matter what.
Committing to a person is scary in itself when you think about it.
However, if a guy truly loves you, he’ll do anything to show you he’ll commit and you won’t doubt him because his actions will tell you differently.
Committing to someone means you’ll do anything you can to make them happy and fulfill their every need. That’s what the perfect partner would do.
Also, the perfect partner won’t have any problem expressing his feelings toward you. That’s part of what commitment means.
The perfect partner is loyal to you and knows how much work it takes to make a relationship successful.
2. He protects you
Does your partner protect you both physically and mentally? If he does these things you’ve hit the jackpot.
I know, women don’t need a man to protect them, but he’ll be there for her, no matter what.
He’ll be there for her in times of sadness and despair, and he’ll try to make her happy again.
Naturally, men are very protective human beings, so if you’re unsure about your partner now, notice how he behaves when you’re around random guys.
Is he protective, or is it that he doesn’t care at all?
3. He works hard to gain your trust
The perfect partner knows how important trust is for a relationship. He’ll make sure you’re comfortable and confident in your relationship.
For you to have trust in your partner means to be comfortable and secure around him. And he knows that.
Trust is easy to break. That said, he’ll have no problem working hard to make sure you know you can trust him.
He’ll go out of his way just to prove his loyalty to you.
4. He makes the tough decisions
The perfect partner, a ‘real man’, knows how to be decisive and knows he needs to make the tough decisions in the relationship.
He doesn’t undermine the value of a woman, but he doesn’t leave every big decision to his partner.
As time passes, he’ll get to know you and will make those decisions based on what you’d do in those situations.
He knows that women don’t like indecisive or fearful men, which is why he knows that it’s up to him to be brave and make those decisions.
He’ll grab every opportunity to prove that to you, no matter what.
5. He doesn’t want to change you
The perfect partner will always cherish you for who you are and he won’t try to change your character.
Instead, he’ll embrace your quirkiness, because that’s what makes you unique. He’ll show appreciation and cherish you the way you are.
If he does these things you’ve hit the jackpot for sure.
Everyone has their flaws, but a ‘real man’ won’t run away from your darkness or madness, which everyone has.
Your physical appearance is just a bonus for him. He’ll cherish your mind and soul more than your body.
He knows that physical appearance wears off, but what remains is the inner beauty of a person.
6. He’s supportive and won’t run away, no matter what
Every relationship has its ups and downs. How can you say that he’s the ‘one’ if he runs away every time you have an argument?
The perfect partner will stand by you, even when times are tough. He’s committed to you and he knows he loves you.
Of course, there will be challenges and fights between you two, but he’ll stand by your side.
A mature man knows that a healthy relationship requires both people to be fully invested to make it work.
You can’t run away just because a problem arises.
While it might be hard to find the perfect partner, it doesn’t mean it’s impossible.
There are guys out there worthy of your love, but it takes time and patience to find one.
When you find him, you’ll have to reciprocate in a similar manner and not expect him to do all the work.
That said, the perfect guy or the ‘real man’ will never run when push comes to shove.
Let him know how much you appreciate him and trust me, he’ll cherish that.
If he does these things you’ve hit the jackpot, and he’s a keeper.