It’s never easy to lose a person you deeply care about.
Even the strongest of us find it devastating to end up without those we love.
So, don’t think that you’re weak just because you’re suffering because someone isn’t a part of your life anymore.
You’re only human, and it happens to all of us.
It hurts more than anything, and I know the feeling. However, it really does happen to all of us, and it doesn’t mean that we are weak.
I will not try to persuade you that your heartbreak isn’t important or that there’s no reason for you to cry and that’s because I understand the feeling too well to say something like that, so be sure that I know what you’re going through.
Whether a boyfriend, family member or friend disappointed you, it doesn’t really matter because the end result is the same.
You now have to go on with your life without them and their support. Maybe it will be the toughest thing you ever had to do, but you have to keep going.
It doesn’t really matter who backstabbed or hurt you because continuing with your life without a person you love will be equally hard.
You need to grieve the loss of that someone, but remember that they are alive and well. Even so, going through that takes strength, and it takes time.
Losing a person you love is hard, but there’s something even worse, and it’s losing yourself.
Let’s face it, no matter how cruel it sounds, everyone who walks away from your life is replaceable.
You will easily find another friend, a new boyfriend, or a family figure.
You can replace everyone except for yourself and the relationship you have with yourself is the most important one of them all.
So, I’m begging you not to let those losses kill you spiritually.
You can’t let those heartbreaks leave a permanent consequence on your mental or emotional health.
Some bad experiences could mark you for life, but you can’t let that happen.
Please don’t ever think that you are incomplete without another person.
Don’t think that you need the advice, guidance, or approval of others to stay on the right track.
They don’t give purpose to your life, only you can do that.
It’s not true that you’ll be nothing without those people… and don’t convince yourself that you can’t make it on your own, because you can.
All of us are actually alone on this earth, no matter how harsh that sounds.
It’s true that it’s great to have someone you love to give you the support that you need.
However, it all comes down to you because you have to deal with your problems alone.
Who makes all the important decisions in your life? It’s just you.
You’re the only one who can heal your broken heart, and you have to face the consequences of your actions alone.
At the end of the day, we’re all left alone with our thoughts.
Remember that no one can make you happy but yourself. You have to learn how to make yourself happy.
Others can contribute to your happiness and even make it greater, but it all comes down to you in the end.
After all, if something’s wrong in your life, no one will come to fix it for you.
You’re the only person who can change your life and make it better.
That takes time and energy, so why waste it on people who have walked away from your life?
Don’t allow your past to haunt you, because you need to be ready for the future without all that baggage.
I know you think you need explanation and closure but what you really need is to leave all of it behind you and turn a new page.
Keep in mind that those who don’t deserve to be a part of your life don’t deserve to be a part of your thoughts either.
They left your life, so it’s time for them to leave your heart as well.
Focus on yourself instead of on trying to get them back because they don’t deserve to have a place in your life when they don’t even want to.
Start working on yourself so that you can become the best version of yourself.
You have great potential, so why waste it because of people who don’t care enough for you to stay in your life?
Start working on achieving your goals, and don’t expect anyone to help you do that.
Only you can make your dreams come true, and you can make your life the way you want it to be.
Just focus on yourself and make yourself happy instead of waiting for others to do that.
Put your needs, your desires, and yourself first, and know that there’s nothing selfish about it. You should have done it a while ago, in fact.
No one is more valuable than you, no one can compare to you, and you’re irreplaceable and precious. Remind yourself of that.
You could lose yourself while searching for others, and it’s the worst thing you could do.
How would you take care of someone who means the world to you, someone you love more than anything in this world, if you lost yourself?
That’s exactly the way you should take care of yourself.
Remember that when people leave your life, they leave room for new, better people to come into it.
After all, the only people who leave are those who don’t wish to stay. Why force them when someone else would kill to fill the spot they left?
There was a time when my boyfriend and all my friends left me, and it was the time when I needed them the most…
But let me tell you something – it made me stronger.
A new man and new friends came into my life, and they love me more than those people from the past ever could or wanted to.
Sometimes it is good that some people leave your life, because they weren’t the right people.
Always remember that a strong woman would rather be alone than in the company of fakers so be alone until you meet the ones who will truly love you and come to stay.
After all, letting go of those who don’t value you is the smartest decision you could ever make.
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