You don’t deserve to be half-loved. No one does.
I was with a guy who knew how to make a million promises but failed to make any of them come true.
If he could have, he would’ve promised me the moon and the stars too. But I realized where things were heading and I walked away.
There is only one thing I can thank him for and that is the fact that he finally made me realize that I don’t deserve to be half-loved.
Unfortunately, that was the only thing that he could teach me.
So, now that I’m free from his shackles, I want to raise my voice and say out loud to all the women of the world:
“You don’t deserve to be half-loved and if you notice that it’s the only thing he can give you, then RUN!”
You don’t deserve someone who will call you only when it’s convenient for him.
He will catch up with you when it suits him and he will never put you as a priority.
You will always be unimportant and only someone he goes to when others are too busy.
Instead, you deserve someone who would call you in the middle of a workday because he noticed that your text message was a little off and he wanted to know if everything was okay.
You deserve someone who would go to your house in the middle of a storm because he knows that you are afraid of thunder.
He would hug you and make you feel safe and protected, and he would never let you feel alone or scared.
You don’t deserve someone who will only occasionally text you.
You deserve someone who wouldn’t forget about you and you wouldn’t have to wait for his reply like a princess waiting for her prince.
Someone like that would never introduce you to his friends with the words, “This is the love of my life!” as he would be too proud to do that.
He would never make you feel special but you deserve someone who would text you both a good night and a good morning.
You’d be the first thing on his mind in the morning and the last thought before he falls asleep.
He would never fail to let you know that he was always there for you and that you could rely on him at any time of day.
You would deserve his words of support and love that you would see every time his name popped up on the screen, and that’s what you’d get with the right one.
You don’t deserve to be half-loved or someone who’s not really sure of his feelings.
Someone like that would never show you what love is supposed to look like. He would never give you all of the things you deserve.
Instead, he would come and go from your life, not sure of what to do next. He would not be ready to commit as he wouldn’t know whether that was the right thing to do.
You’d chase him and he would run away and once you stopped, he would come back, and it would go on and on.
He would never give you stability and you would never feel safe in his hands.
Instead of that, you deserve someone who wants you and only you. He would know that you are the right one for him and he would never let you go.
You’d forget what the word ‘chase’ means as you wouldn’t ever have to use it again.
He would always be there, right next to you, to hold your hand when things got hard. He would always show you how much he loved you as he would be afraid to lose you.
You won’t have to prove your worth to him because he would see it. You’d always be his number one, even on the days when you didn’t feel yourself.
With or without make-up, you would be the prettiest girl in his world!
You don’t deserve someone who’s with you only because you are his last chance to get a decent girl.
You don’t deserve to be half-loved. Someone like that would never treat you right.
You’d never feel a spark, as you would always be a temporary solution until something better came around.
Instead of that, you deserve a man to whom you’ll be the first and the last real love.
It would feel like a dream. You might even pinch yourself to see if that was really happening.
Looking in his eyes, you would see a genuine feeling of love and his wish to always have you by his side.
You deserve someone who will make plans with you. He would include you in every decision of his life and you would finally feel enough.
You would be his home and he would never walk away from you.
YOU DON’T DESERVE TO BE HALF-LOVED!
Anyone can give you that. Being half-loved is like accepting to stay until he finds something better.
And you are worth much more than that!
You deserve that kind of love where his heart would beat for you. He would fight for you, no matter how hard life turned out.
He would care for you and give you his attention. You would feel that you were his priority as his actions would show you that.
The effort that he would put into your relationship would be incomparable to the effort all of the wrong guys you were with put together.
You deserve someone to whom you would be the main reason why he wanted to be better. He would work on himself in order to give you everything you deserved.
He would be vulnerable in front of you because he would fully trust you. You would enter his world and he would lock the door as he wouldn’t want anyone else there besides you.
His heart would belong to you. You could do anything with it but you would choose to care for it and protect it, as you would know that he was the one.
You never deserved to be half-loved. That was never a part of the plan.
All those guys before, who gave you temporary love, were cowards who were afraid of giving themselves fully to someone.
And you don’t need that.
So, if you feel that your current guy is giving you crumbs of half-love, know that he will never change. He will continue doing that until he gets bored.
He can’t do anything else, so please walk away and don’t let him treat you like you are not good enough.
I know that you are worth much more and I want you to see that.
You don’t deserve to be half-loved and that’s all he can give you, so I’m begging you to move on from him and wait for someone who would give you the whole world in his hands.
Trust me, you’ll know when he comes!
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