All of us are tired of men who don’t appreciate us. We are tired of being taken for granted, of being ignored, and especially of all the texting games.
I know how it feels when you give your best and get nothing in return. It’s exhausting. We want more, and we deserve more.
It’s actually very simple, no matter how complicated it seems to most guys.
You deserve to have a relationship with a man who’ll never forget to send you a goodnight text.
A goodnight text seems to be a very small gesture, but it actually means a lot. How come guys don’t understand that?
When he sends you a goodnight text, it means that you were the last thing he thought about before he went to sleep.
It shows that he thinks about you, that he cares about you, and that you are important to him. He makes you a priority.
That simple romantic goodnight text from the man you love actually shows all these things.
You need a man who won’t find it hard to send you a goodnight text every night before going to sleep. It shouldn’t be too much to ask for, and it’s not that complicated.
When he sends you a goodnight text, it means that he’s not playing hard to get, and he isn’t hiding his feelings.
You don’t need someone who’ll make you guess what his actions mean and who’ll play mind games with you.
None of us need men who’ll just keep stringing us along and make us think that they love us when in fact, they don’t really care.
Those men will always treat us like an option and won’t care about what we need and what we deserve.
You don’t need someone who won’t put effort into texting you because he won’t put effort into anything else.
A man who finds it too hard to text you will find other things too hard as well.
It will be too hard for him to express his feelings, make time for you, and show you affection. He will only give you the crumbs of his love and attention.
That isn’t what love should look like, and it’s not the relationship you want to have.
A man should shower you with love, attention, and kisses. He should hold you in his arms and make you feel like you’re home.
A man needs to show you understanding and respect.
He should make sure that you know that there’s no other woman for him and that he genuinely loves you.
A man who can’t do that won’t ever make you happy.
You need to be with someone who isn’t scared to show you how much you mean to him and how much he needs you.
You’ll feel safe only with a man like that. You won’t ever have to question him and his intentions.
A man like that won’t send you mixed signals, and he’ll be open and honest with you.
He will help you realize that love shouldn’t hurt, that relationships are supposed to be happy, and that you don’t need to overthink things.
It isn’t really that hard. All it takes is for him to send you goodnight texts each night, even if it’s the only text he sends you that day.
He could be too busy to have time for texting sometimes, but everyone has time for one text before going to sleep.
That simple goodnight text will show you that he has time for you, regardless of how busy his day gets.
With a goodnight text, he is telling you that you matter to him and that his days can’t end without getting in touch with you.
Don’t ever think that you are needy just because you want your man to make an effort, show up and send a text.
You’re not needy, and it’s not too much to ask for. You just want from your man what you don’t mind giving him.
It’s not something big, and you just want to know that he cares about you. He can show you his love in this simple way, so what’s wrong with that?
He should be as invested in the relationship as you are. It takes two people to make a couple.
Both of them need to show love, and when it’s only one of them, it’s not real love.
A lot of women make the same mistake, and they shouldn’t. They are always willing to give everything and don’t ask for anything in return.
A lot of women settle for a lot less than what they deserve. They always make time for a man and end up being too available.
A lot of women are the ones who text first, and they send follow-up texts when they get no response.
They forget about their own life and put all their focus on a man.
Prioritizing a man’s needs and ignoring your own, doesn’t that sound familiar?
We don’t like to admit it, but most of us do it. It’s time for it to end. It makes men pull away, and more importantly, it won’t ever make us happy.
Of course, girls should send goodnight texts as well, and making that effort is important. However, we need to do this only for the right man.
The right man is the one whose actions show that he respects and loves you. He should be willing to give you as much as you give him.
Don’t ever believe a guy who tells you that he doesn’t have time to send you a goodnight text. No one in this world is really that busy.
If a man cares, he will text you, and not only to wish you goodnight but during the day and in the morning too.
Don’t settle for anything less than what you deserve. Know that you deserve a man who makes loving you, texting you, and supporting you seem easy.
You will see that you’ll sleep better and have more beautiful dreams after a romantic goodnight text from him.