It’s difficult to focus on yourself once you’re head over heels for someone. Everything seems to be beautiful and you feel like you’re in seventh heaven.
You don’t think about anything else besides your loved one and how perfect your future is going to be. And with that way of thinking, it’s fairly easy to lose yourself to a man.
You do anything that’s in your power to make him happy. However, in the process of doing so, you forget who you are and what you want.
No matter what you think, you should never chase a man. It’s his duty to chase you and as a matter of fact, men really enjoy doing it.
1. You deserve to have his full attention
It’s never a good idea to force a man to look at you. Even though you’re gorgeous, you shouldn’t use your physical appearance to draw his attention to you.
If you have to beg, then he’s not worth it, trust me. Don’t even bother to date a guy like that, as his attention will quickly shift toward another girl once he gets bored of you.
Soon enough, he’ll lose interest in you and he’ll leave you. That man is not the man of your dreams.
Instead, what you should do is choose a man who has no problem going the extra mile for you. You’ll have his full attention and you won’t be worried that he may leave you.
And you deserve to have such a man. His eyes should always be focused on you and not some other random girl.
2. You know when it’s time to leave
You’re the type of woman who knows when enough is enough and when it’s time to walk away. You know when to stop doing certain things because they do you more harm than good.
A strong woman never begs, chases or forces anything – she just walks away. You know your worth and you have self-esteem, which you’re so proud of, and no one can take that away from you.
No matter what life throws at you, you’ll still walk proudly with your head held high, knowing that you made the right decision for yourself.
You’re a woman who knows when to let go of a man who pretends to be someone he’s not and walk away. You don’t want a manipulative toxic player who only cares about himself and that’s why you’ll quickly leave such a guy.
3. You have so much to offer
You’re a woman of great qualities. You have a pure and kind heart, an amazing soul, and you know how to genuinely love someone.
On top of that, you radiate positivity, which is always great because what you attract is just a reflection of you. Plus you know what you can bring to every relationship.
Most importantly, you have the will to make everything work. You won’t give up on someone that easily.
That’s why you should never settle for a guy who’ll never see your true worth, someone who would never make an effort to make you happy and bring a smile to your gorgeous face.
You deserve so much more and you know it.
Don’t ever chase a guy. You’re a woman with great self-esteem who loves herself enough to know that you’re the one who should be chased.
4. You are irreplaceable
You deserve to be chased.
Why? Because there’s no one like you out there; you’re unique in your own special ways, with your silly quirks and flaws.
You shouldn’t chase a guy and lose yourself to someone who doesn’t even put in an effort to make you happy. You deserve a guy who would do anything for you, someone who would move mountains just to see you for five minutes.
What you deserve is a man who’ll pour his heart and soul into your relationship and who’ll see that you’re irreplaceable.
Someone who’ll make dinner for you when you get home from work tired, a man who’ll stay home by your side while his friends are out partying.
Most importantly, he won’t let you go – ever!
5. You deserve to have everything
You know how much you bring to the table and that’s why you’ll never settle for anything less than you deserve. That’s the reason why you deserve to have everything.
You want someone who’ll take care of you and respect you for who you are. A man who won’t see any of your flaws as something that’s bad and rather as something that makes you you.
Admit to yourself that you deserve to have everything and live your life by those words.
Prioritize yourself over everyone and guys will start to see you as a grand prize. It’s just a matter of time before the right one marches in and sweeps you off your feet.
6. You’re smart
You’re not the type of girl who’ll give up easily on someone. You don’t try and change a guy overnight or talk badly about him behind his back once your relationship ends.
You know that’s not how a proper lady behaves and you’re much more than that.
You’re aware that nothing good ever happens overnight, so you patiently wait for the right man to come to you. And he will.
That’s why you’re so different from all the other women. This is what makes you so unique and gorgeous.
However, those qualities can only be seen by a real man and not an immature boy.