Wouldn’t it be terrible to be with someone whose intentions you always have to question? They might tell you that they care, but their actions show otherwise. You simply can’t believe them when they say the words, “I love you,” because they haven’t really shown it. We all know about those bad people who can look you in the eyes and tell you that they love you… but the moment you look away, they will show their true face and hurt you. Maybe you even experienced a situation where a man would convince you that he loved you but would then go sneaking around and lying.
That can make you question every next man you meet. Someone who has gotten their heart broken will find it hard to trust others. You will meet a man who will tell you that he loves you, but your heart will still wonder if it is true and this is because it has been deceived so many times before. After all, my ex would tell me he loved me… yet he would emotionally abuse me and treat me like a doormat. It made me doubt when someone else told me he loved me and it happened with my husband as well but this time it was different.
My husband would tell me he loved me all the time, but that wasn’t all because I could see and feel his love as well. It’s funny, but it made me think it was weird. Instead of thinking I was weird for doubting him, I thought he was weird with me for being so kind and honest. It took me a while to realize that this was someone who would never make me doubt his love. I remember the first time I thought he didn’t care enough for me. It was our first big fight, and I was ready to let him go but he did something no man had ever done for me; he cried in front of me because of the fear of losing me. I never again doubted his love, and he never gave me a reason to.
I am telling you all this because I need you to believe me that men like that are out there. Their hearts are pure, and you won’t believe your eyes when you see how honest they are. It is like they are aliens who haven’t been corrupted by human experiences. That’s how it seemed to me, as someone who was always dating the worst kind of men. It was hard for me to believe too, but we actually deserve men like that, even if it’s hard for you to imagine that they are real at this point in your life.
When you find someone like that, you will truly understand what love actually looks like… And no, it’s not the constant wondering ‘what if’ and questioning his intentions; it is about feeling comfortable, safe and peaceful. Once you find someone who will never make you doubt their love, you will be able to sleep calmly at night, knowing that you are loved for who you are. What’s best about it is that you will know that he isn’t going anywhere and this type of guy will prove it to you over and over again. No matter how hard you try to doubt his love, he won’t make it possible.
It will be obvious to everyone around you that he is crazy about you. You will be sure that he will never leave you and that he will do anything he can to make you happy. I have experienced it myself, and it has made me the happiest woman alive. If you never had anyone prove to you how much they love you, you are in for a treat. This guy will give you the moon on a string if you only ask him to. He will simply be that committed to the relationship.
Never think even for a second that you deserve anything less than this. When I met my husband and saw the love in his eyes, I honestly thought that God himself had sent him to me but I didn’t think I deserved someone like that and it was not what I was used to… so I tried to push him away and wanted to break up. He just seemed too good to be true. But the thing about these guys is that they won’t give up on you even if you want them to. They will be ready to give you their heart, and once they do, they will never want it back. Such a man will love you for the rest of your life, whether you like it or not. He will be so honest and open with you so that you will never have to doubt his love.
When you meet someone who will never make you doubt their love, you will know that you have found someone you’re going to spend the rest of your life with. He will prove to you that he will never again look at another woman or betray you in any other way. Maybe you haven’t met this guy yet because you aren’t ready to meet someone you will spend the rest of your life with. This kind of guy is almost never your first love, but he will definitely be your last one.
Once I found out what it’s like to be with someone who will never make you doubt their love, I then knew what real love is. It is something that every one of us deserves to experience in our life and it is all about peace and harmony. There is no drama with such men, even if you try to create it. A guy like that is determined to love you and will prevent anything from standing in his way of doing so. That is why you will always feel calm knowing that you are loved more than anything. Such love isn’t easy to find, but you deserve it, and once you do find it, it will be your last love… and you will live happily ever after. Trust me, it happened to me, and it will happen to you.