I know you probably heard that you’ll never find the right partner if you don’t learn how to love yourself. People say that if we don’t value ourselves, we will let other people walk all over us because we’ll think that we deserve it.
They say that we’ll end up with anyone who comes along and gives us a bit of attention. That if we don’t love ourselves, people around us won’t love us either, because they won’t feel the need to. They will think that we’ve done something awful that made us stop loving ourselves.
But that isn’t always necessarily true. You can let him love you before you learn to love yourself. You don’t have to live your life the way other people want you to. And you don’t have to pay attention and believe everything they have to say. We all know that most people talk lots of nonsense anyway, right?
And the moment you stop listening to them and their theories about love, life, the future, or anything else, is the moment you start living your life to the fullest. When you’ll finally be able to breathe some fresh air.
Now you’re wondering why to let him love you if you don’t really like yourself. And I’m here to tell you. I’m here to prove to you that letting him love you will in fact help you see yourself the way he sees you.
I want to help you realize how valuable you are and how happy he is to have you in your life.
Don’t prevent him from being in your life just because you believed them when they told you those lies. Which lies you might ask? The ones when they told you he’ll fall for a more confident girl. That he’ll capitalize on your lack of self-esteem. Or that he’s just talking to you because he’s bored.
I get you, girl. It’s easy to believe them when you don’t see how amazing you are. But keep in mind that even though you don’t see yourself that way, there are tons of people who do. And there are many more who are jealous of the person you are. So they want to make you feel miserable.
If he wants to be with you, if he wants to show you how much he loves and cares about you, let him do it. Let him prove to you that you were wrong to believe those people. That you were wrong when you thought you weren’t worthy of love. Or when you believed that no one would ever truly love you.
Some people really need to wait until they love themselves first before they can find a suitable partner. But you’ve already tried that and it didn’t change anything. This means that you’re one of those special people who can first find love and then start loving yourself with the help of your partner.
Let him prove to you that you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to him. If he’s there, and he’s patiently waiting for you to give him a sign, then you shouldn’t keep him waiting anymore. Give the both of you the chance to be happy.
He’ll be the happiest person alive because he’ll finally have you. He’ll finally get the chance to cherish you and shower you with kisses and hugs every day. And he’ll be able to start his quest to make you love yourself the way he loves you.
When it comes to you, you’ll finally be on the right track to reaching happiness. At first, it might be difficult to trust everything he says. But as time progresses, you will slowly start believing him. You’ll believe him when he tells you you’re beautiful, funny, or smart.
Then you’ll believe him that he likes you more than he ever liked anyone. He’ll encourage you to reach your goals. And every time you achieve one of them, you’ll love yourself a bit more. Every time he tells you he loves you, you will love yourself a bit more.
Then one day, you’ll wake up and you’ll finally feel it. You’ll feel that you’re worth it. That you deserve the love you always dreamed about. You’ll realize how beautiful, unique, amazing, special, funny, smart, ambitious, kind, and compassionate you are.
You will look in the mirror, and you’ll see the person you always wanted to see. A woman who stands proudly. A woman who’s happy in her own body, and who doesn’t want to change anymore. Who’s stopped believing the lies she’s heard, and who’s started living her life instead.
And then you’ll look over your shoulder and you’ll see the man of your dreams beside you. The guy who loved you even when you didn’t love yourself. The one who helped you get through it and never complained or used your insecurities. Instead, he helped you realize your worth.
He helped you get back on your feet and finally live your life to the fullest. And you’ll see the partner you wished for when you were a kid – that prince on a white steed. The beautiful man who taught you how to love yourself, and the one you love more than anything.
And at that moment, right there, you’ll realize that you were right when you let him love you before you learned how to love yourself. And at that moment, you’ll realize you’re the happiest you’ve ever been.