If you have miserable self-esteem, you probably are stuck in an unhealthy relationship. Since you are not really aware of that, you don’t see the need to get out of it and in that way you destroy chances to enter into a new one.
On the other side, if you have self-respect above all, it means that you know what is good for you and what you deserve or not. You can easily walk away from the people or things that make you less important to yourself. These are things women who value their self-worth do differently in relationships.
– Women with high self-respect don’t break down someone’s feelings.
If you are confident, you don’t ask yourself if someone likes you. You simply know you are worth someone’s attention. You feel like you are a good person, and it’s not hard to love you, so you believe that the right person will observe that. There are no stressful situations in which you are not sure how a guy feels about you. It’s as simple as it could be. If he likes you the way you are, you are cool and you enjoy the relationship. Yet, if he has no interest, that’s fine too. Suspicion and fears are strange to you.
– People with self-worth understand the bad or negative connections.
You had a relationship and suddenly it falls apart, you don’t really have many issues with that situation. You simply know that it is better that way, and you are not meant to be together. It doesn’t have to mean that you are not a good person, or your partner was bad, but it is as simple as that you are not right for one another. If a guy left you because he doesn’t want to be in a lovely relationship, you are aware it’s not personal. You know that it is not because of you, so you keep moving as confident as you always are.
– A woman with high self-esteem has her borders.
Your own boundaries, which should be healthy, are important just like your confidence. You have your own rules, needs, and demands. There is no one who can put the pressure on you, because you don’t allow anyone to change you. If a guy has interest he won’t ask you to change in order to make him happy. If you are about to enter into a relationship, there is nothing to hide. You are who you are. Hobbies and your life out of a relationship should remain the same if you are confident and if your partner respects you.
– Self-worth women have no regrets after making a decision.
If you decided something, the key is that you are sure in that. Even if it may not be the right decision, it is you who made it and you always have another plan. If you said or did something, you never consider if you are right. You did it and there is no return.
If you are an unconfident woman, you will always be insecure in your own decisions. It is very stressful to live a life depending on what someone decides is the best for you.
– A confident woman doesn’t have to be loud in front of people.
She doesn’t show herself to everyone in the best light. That is something that insecure people usually do. Whenever they achieve something they make sure that everyone knows.
A woman with self-esteem is mystic and she reveals herself easily and carefully. Opposite than this, an insecure woman will make sure to open up at the first meeting with a guy. Guys find those women less attractive and they lose interest quickly.
– Having self-worth means to take over responsibilities and duties.
Having confidence means being able take the credit for good things and sometimes to take responsibility if you messed up something. There is no one guilty but you, so you don’t need to blame your person for things you did wrong. You need to be responsible for everything you do and say, and in that way you will only improve your personality.
– For a woman who has self-esteem, the relationship is the way it is.
There is safety in a relationship where partners are confident. They don’t need to doubt in each other. Healthy relationship is full of trust. There is no pressure but everything happens the regular way.
A confident woman will be relaxed in a relationship as long as a guy is regular and nice to her. They can easily move on if the things go downwards.
– A confident woman doesn’t waste her time in a bad relationship.
If someone acts with no respect at all, she won’t stay in that relationship. Trust and worth are very important to her, so she won’t be with someone who makes her jealous or who does not appreciate her.
Confidence is easy to lose, but the strong woman would rather find a way to run from the bad relationship instead of letting someone humiliate her. It is important to value yourself, if you want anyone else to value you.
Self-esteem, therefore, means you are number one to yourself. You accept only what is good for you, just as you abandon the things that would make you feel less worthy. If you are confident, you would be attractive to another confident person, and you can find real connection and intimacy.