We’re all lovable on our good days, when the sun is shining and we get this feeling like we’re living our best life. We’re all lovable on those days when we actually care about ourself and we appreciate our body that’s been through a lot and our heart that helped us overcome many obstacles.
But what happens on those days when you don’t feel like getting out of bed? On the days when you look at the reflection in the mirror and see an average person who doesn’t have much to offer?
What happens on those days when the only thing you feel like doing is crying? When you don’t know how to love yourself because you start to think that you’re not worthy of that feeling?
Will the person who loves you on your good days decide to stay by your side even when you’re feeling your worst? Will he decide to call you his even when you don’t feel like you’re worthy of love?
Because that’s what we all need. We need someone who’ll be there for us through thick and thin, even when we don’t believe that we deserve love.
And if you haven’t found that person yet, then you still haven’t found your true love.
It’s easy to be there for someone when they’re doing their best, when there are no obstacles and you’re not screaming at the top of your lungs that you can’t take it anymore.
It’s easy to say that you love someone when you haven’t reached any bad days yet; those days when both of you feel like there’s no point in trying since you’re likely not going to make it.
But what really matters the most is when you finally find that one person who’ll love you through everything – through all those mood changes and both the good and bad days.
You should wait for a guy who’ll love you even on your worst days because that’s how you know that you’ve found yourself the right person to grow old with.
That’s when you know that you have yourself a real man who won’t bail on you the second life gets in the way.
He won’t judge you when you feel like crying because the project you’ve worked so hard on failed, when the only emotion you feel is the pain of losing something you gave your best to.
He won’t judge you when you wake him up in the middle of the night because you’ve been feeling insecure these past few days, when your overthinking hits and you can’t put your mind at rest.
Instead of calling you crazy, he’ll hold you in his arms and promise you that he’s not going anywhere. He’ll choose you, exactly the way you are, and he won’t plan to replace you with anyone else.
As you’re still sobbing because you had a nightmare that he was packing his things and leaving you forever, he’ll whisper into your ear that he loves you and that he’s not leaving you.
You should wait for a guy who’ll love you even on your worst days because he won’t let you hit rock bottom and stay there on your own.
Instead, he’ll give you his hand and help you get out of there. He’ll pull you up even if you don’t feel like doing that.
No, he won’t call you too emotional or oversensitive. No, he won’t pressure you to get back on your feet as soon as possible.
He’ll instead show you patience and understanding and he’ll choose to stay by your side until you finally feel better.
He’ll stay right next to you because he knows that you should never let the person you love fight their battles on their own.
Even if he has to wipe away your tears, he’ll do that for you because he knows that you can’t call it true love if you choose when you’ll love someone.
You love them every day of the year, on both good and bad ones, on those when they feel their best but also on those when they don’t feel like getting out of bed.
You should wait for a guy who’ll love you all the time because he won’t blame you for all of your scars. He won’t make you feel bad about your past because he knows that all of your mistakes shaped you into the person you are today.
And if you hadn’t gone through some of them, the chances are that the path wouldn’t have brought him to your door. He’ll be grateful that God sent you his way and he’ll cherish every moment he can spend with you.
Even if some of them will be filled with tears and pain, he’ll still decide to stay by your side because that’s the only thing you’re obliged to do when you tell someone that you love them.
He understands that loving someone means being there for that person, so he’ll make sure to do exactly that. He’ll make sure to never stop believing in you because he knows how much you’re capable of.
You should wait for a guy who’ll love you even on your worst days. When you do your best to push him away, he’ll fight a little harder and pull you into his arms.
And at that moment, while you’re listening to his heartbeat, it’ll finally make sense why things never worked with anyone else before him.
All those guys from your past never wanted to stay forever. They were capable of loving you only on your good days but as soon as any clouds appeared, they all ran away, afraid of what may come.
Those guys couldn’t stand any rain or thunderstorms with you because they were never meant to stay. They were just lessons that were supposed to teach you that not all those who say, “I love you,” actually mean those words.
Not all those who praise love actually understand the meaning behind it. But the one who shows you that he’ll love you even on your worst days is the one who’s right for you.
He’s the one who won’t run away the second things get hard. And that’s the real beauty of true love – once you finally find the person who knows what it means to be there for someone, no matter what.