Argh, you’re completely clueless as to why it’s taking you so long to find love. Every time you think you’re getting closer, the one you set your heart on decides you’re not worth the hassle and leaves.
If you’re lucky enough to have your heart set on someone, that is. More often than not, you spend most of your time wondering when you will finally meet someone who sweeps you off your feet.
Someone whose smile gives you the butterflies and makes you feel like you’re about to burst into a love song. Or at least one who has enough personality to score a second date!
You’re completely aware that there’s nothing wrong with being on your own – you just can’t help but wonder why it’s taking you so long to find love.
Believe it or not, your zodiac sign might be able to offer some clarity. Keep an open mind and take a look at how each sign has its own way of repelling true love!
Aries, your attention span is practically non-existent! You’re looking for someone who will sweep you off your feet, but you don’t understand that the sweeping has to stop at some point.
It’s taking you so long to find love because you get bored so easily. You can’t deal with the fact that the honeymoon phase doesn’t last a lifetime. And when you lose the little patience you have, you get impulsive and break things off.
Your turn, Taurus! You’re incredibly passionate, stubborn, and controlling, which may be why it’s taking you so long to find love. You drive your potential partners away because you make them feel as if you don’t care about their needs and desires.
You need to work on your mental and emotional health before anything else. Once you get your own issues in check, love will find its way back into your life.
Gemini… You need to stop overthinking and overanalyzing everything in your life! You are the perfect illustration of what the fear of missing out looks like.
You’re way too worried about making a mistake, not picking the right partner, settling for someone who isn’t right for you, missing out on someone better… Just stop! You can’t plan every aspect of your life, no matter how hard you try.
Cancer, you’re an emotional minefield! It’s taking you so long to find love because you’re making everyone terrified of saying something wrong, making a wrong move, and upsetting you in any way.
While there’s nothing wrong with being in touch with your sensitive side, you truly need to develop a thicker skin. You need to stop making everyone feel as if they can’t be themselves around you. Once you do that, you will find your forever person in no time.
Leo, why are you even looking up this article? You know damn well you’re so picky, you’d make Blake Lively feel insecure and inadequate!
While there’s nothing wrong with having high standards and expectations, you have to be able to draw the line somewhere. You deserve to be with someone who inspires you and makes you want to be a better person, but…
Who’s to say that someone isn’t your colleague from work who’s been trying to get your attention for weeks?
Have you ever considered being friends with a Leo? You’re not willing to settle for anything less than perfection because you truly believe you are perfect yourself.
But, don’t you think it’s incredibly exhausting to be in a relationship with someone who has a black belt in fault-finding? There’s not a single person in this world that enjoys being criticized and having all their flaws slammed in their face. You simply need to take it down a notch.
How can you expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself? It’s taking you so long to find love because you’re incredibly insecure, you’re having a hard time believing people when they tell you they love you.
More times than not, people get tired of proving their love to you and leave. Trust me, the moment you realize your worth and start believing in yourself, you will be ready to accept the love that comes your way.
Scorpio, you are one of the most talked-about zodiac signs when it comes to matters of the heart. It’s taking you so long to find love because you are incredibly intense, dramatic, and confrontational.
While you might enjoy being the loudest out of the bunch, this isn’t necessarily the best quality you can bring into a relationship. You’re scaring people away. You need to focus on making people comfortable, rather than making them run for their lives.
Oh, we seem to have a flirt on our hands! Sagittarius, it’s taking you so long to find love because you’re not so sure that’s what you want to find. You’re not so sure you’re ready to settle with one person for the rest of your life.
Not everybody is cool with the no-commitment thing you have going on. So, you might have to make some compromises when you do decide you’re ready. Love can be incredibly fun, flirty, and romantic when you do it the right way.
Capricorn, how are people supposed to see how amazing you are when you don’t let them see past those ginormous walls you’ve built? It’s taking you so long to find love because you’re coming off defensive, guarded, and insecure.
I’m perfectly aware that telling people to relax doesn’t work, but… You need to at least try to fool yourself into thinking you’re relaxed enough to let love find its way into your life.
If only you could be in a relationship with someone without having to express your feelings to them. Aquarius, if that was a possibility, you wouldn’t be in the predicament you’re in right now.
It’s taking you so long to find love because you’re emotionally stunted. You’re having a hard time understanding, handling, and expressing your emotions. Trust me, you just need to work through these issues and you will become a new person.
Take those rose-colored glasses off, Pisces! It’s taking you so long to find love because you can’t seem to draw the line between what’s real and what’s merely fantasy you created in your head.
You spend so much time daydreaming about love, but you can’t even recognize it when it’s right in front of your face. There’s nothing wrong with escaping reality from time to time, but you need to make sure you’re present when love finally knocks on your door.