True love is very hard to find. We spend half of our life seeking that one person who will love us no matter what but not everyone is destined to find their other half.
Let’s face it, relationships are tough. They require both partners to put in an equal amount of effort if they really want to succeed.
But what if you and your partner aren’t compatible even though you wish with all of your heart that you were? How do you even know that you two aren’t meant for each other?
The thing about true love is that you won’t have to second-guess whether or not he’s the one for you. You’ll simply feel it.
However, if you recognize any of the following signs in your relationship, then you can be sure that he’s not the man for you.
1. You argue more than you enjoy each other’s company
Does it seem to you as if your communication only gets worse the more time you spend together? Do you have the impression that you always fight with your partner and it seems as if you can’t share any joyful moments?
If so, then you aren’t as compatible as you thought you were at all. Every time you have an argument, you can’t see eye to eye on anything and you often go to sleep angry at each other.
It’s obvious that you aren’t on the same page and that’s why your communication skills are extremely poor.
Perhaps you tried to work things out and be more compassionate and understanding with each other but it didn’t go well. The fights and arguments just continued and it feels like it will never end.
You’re right, it won’t end – not until you go your separate ways and that’s because you’re incompatible. If you stay together, the situation will only get worse and you’ll realize after a while that you’re mismatched.
You don’t vibrate on the same frequency and you have totally opposite outlooks on life. Your thoughts about what true love really means are completely different and that’s why you fight all the time.
2. You don’t recognize yourself
When something good or bad happens to you, you’re eager to share it with him but at the same time, you’re reluctant to do so because he’ll probably say that it’s stupid or irrelevant.
He makes you feel uncomfortable in your own skin and it’s like he’s holding you back from becoming a superwoman.
He hates when you change the radio station while he’s driving or every time you say to him that you want to go and see a movie, he tells you that he’s not interested and that he won’t accompany you.
But when you’re in a healthy relationship, your heart and soul are filled with happiness and love and you don’t cry yourself to sleep every night over some guy who isn’t even worth your tears.
Also, when a man loves you, he makes sure that you feel safe and that you won’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not. He embraces your flaws and quirks because he knows those things make you unique.
You aren’t worried that you may do or say something wrong because you know he would never judge you. But if you’re not feeling it, then you aren’t compatible at all.
3. The relationship has become boring
You’re stuck in an endless cycle of arguments and monotony and there’s nothing you can do about it. Every time you know that you’re going to see him, it feels more like an obligation than a choice.
You see each other, hang out a bit, maybe watch a movie together, and then go your separate ways or to different sides of the bed. The spark that you two had is long gone and so are your date nights and fun activities.
Don’t get me wrong, some people like having a routine as it gives them a sense of stability and security, and repeating the same scenarios and eating the same food is completely fine for them.
But what happens when they’re in a relationship with someone who needs more diversity and action? Well, they usually don’t agree on many things and they tend to break up very quickly.
If this is something you can relate to, then you two aren’t compatible at all. You have to keep in mind that a relationship between two people who have different personalities can only work if both of them are determined to make an effort and meet each other halfway.
Love can overcome any differences but you have to compromise on certain things.
4. He never sticks to his promises
He never sticks to his promises and he keeps letting you down. Perhaps you and your partner had some problems in your relationship and he might have hurt you.
After he realized that he made a mistake, he swore that he would never do it again. He said, “I’m sorry,” and you believed him.
For a while, he treated you well, like a true gentleman, and everything seemed fine. But before you knew it, he repeated the same mistake and you ended up being hurt again.
Well, that will happen as long as you keep making excuses for his poor behavior. Your forgiveness becomes something that he takes for granted.
He has no intention of improving himself at all and that’s why you two aren’t compatible.
5. He never listens to what you have to say to him
We all know that a woman is usually great at listening to her partner but what about the other way around? Does it seem to you that you’re stuck in a one-way street relationship?
Does he even listen to you when you need a friendly ear and someone to talk to? If not, then you aren’t meant for each other.
The problem isn’t about you. You want to share your thoughts with him but he simply isn’t interested in hearing what you have to say.
Every time you sit down and try to talk to him, he ignores you and doesn’t pay attention to you at all. He doesn’t ask how your day went and the only things he talks about are sports and himself.
But true love isn’t about that. And if you notice any of these signs in your relationship, then you two aren’t compatible at all.