Do you have a man who respects you?
Attention feels nice and it makes you feel good about yourself.
When a guy shows you some attention and approaches you in a bar, your self-confidence instantly increases.
Words like, “You still got it, girl!” will appear in your mind.
Sometimes, we pay too much attention to those who only want us instead of focusing on those guys who respect us.
There is a huge difference between these two types.
And what is even worse is that by chasing those who only want us, we also forget to respect ourself.
How then can you make a distinction between these guys?
How can you know whether a guy is there only because he wants you and as soon as he gets what he wants, he will leave?
Well, first of all, a guy who respects you will give you his full attention.
He will care about the words that are coming out of your mouth so he will listen to everything you say.
On the other hand, a guy who only wants you won’t care about anything you say.
He will only want to impress you, and once he achieves what he is after, he is gone.
One swirl of a magic wand and boom, he is away!
In the beginning, a guy who only wants you will regularly take you on dates, text you to see what you’re up to, and shower you with compliments.
Once he gets what he wants, everything stops! No more calls, no more replies, and definitely no more compliments.
He got bored and he moved on without even letting you know why.
If he was a man who respected you, he would have told you why but that wasn’t on his list of priorities.
Secondly, a guy who respects you will also respect your opinion.
He will genuinely want to know what your thoughts are on certain topics.
And even if he disagrees with you, he won’t make you feel bad and tell you that your ideas are wrong.
He respects you enough to know that you can have your own opinion, no matter how much it differs from his.
With a guy who only wants you, we could openly say that he doesn’t even care about your opinion.
Yes, he will listen to you and maybe even support the things you say, but it’s only temporary.
If you ask him the next day what the two of you were talking about the day before, the chances are that he won’t have a clue.
This is because he is playing a game of deception to make you feel like he actually cares for you.
But the reality is completely different, and I know that it sounds harsh, but he doesn’t give a darn about what you say.
Once he completes his goal, he will be far away, there’s no doubt about that.
Thirdly, a guy who respects you will open up to you emotionally.
You shared your feelings with him and he feels that it’s only fair that he shares his with you.
He respects you and maybe even thinks that you could give him good advice on what to do or how to make some changes in his life.
A guy who only wants you will never be capable of this. He could never tell you anything personal as knows he won’t be there for the long haul.
Why would he give you a piece of himself if he has no respect for you or your opinion?
Also, a guy who respects you will openly tell you what it is that he expects from the relationship.
If he likes you, he will tell you that he’d like to try to make things work with you.
Or if he feels that you don’t have the same feelings for him, he will ask you to make sure that you want the same as him.
Maybe he doesn’t want anything serious. Still, a man who respects you enough will tell you this so that you don’t get your hopes up.
Well, a guy who only wants you won’t do anything similar.
Instead of telling you what his intentions are, he will hide them because he knows that they’re not appropriate.
He knows that if he tells you that he doesn’t want to commit or that he’s not looking for anything serious, he stands a chance of losing you.
That isn’t what he wants.
Instead, he will make you feel that his feelings are real, but one day you’ll wake up and he will be gone.
You won’t even find a note or a text that tells you why or what went wrong.
He simply got what he wanted.
There is one crucial thing that can help you distinguish a guy who respects you from one who only wants you.
Pay close attention and see how much he wants you in his life.
If he wants you to be involved in his life, he will introduce you to his friends and family.
He will invite you out with them and he will want to show you off to the people who mean a lot to him.
On the other hand, if he only wants you, then it’s not in his plan to have you in his life forever.
This instantly means that he won’t introduce you to those people who have been in his life forever.
It simply makes no sense to.
That’s why he will keep you in the dark.
He will never call you to join him when he goes out with his friends and their girlfriends and you won’t be a guest at his brother’s wedding (even if the invitation says ‘bring your partner’).
He also won’t bother to ask if he can meet your friends, as he knows that he’ll be gone soon.
Why would he try much around them when he doesn’t care?
I know that these words sound harsh, but I just want to make you see what goes through the mind of a man who only wants you and who will be gone before sunrise.
You need to learn to see the differences between the two.
A man who respects you will care about you and you will see that in his actions.
One who only wants you will try to impress you in order to fulfill his wishes.
But that’s the furthest he will go for you.
If you fall for someone who disrespects you and only wants you, you risk disrespecting yourself too.
Once you take that path, it will be hard to come back.
So, open your eyes and pay close attention to his behavior. If his words sound too good to be true, they probably are.
You need a man who respects you.
His actions will give him away. They are the real representation of any man’s wish to have you in his life forever!