Every heartbreak is painful… but in addition to the terrible emotional pain, it makes you angry.
How can you not be mad at someone who crushed you and didn’t even think about how their actions would affect you?
You’re angry at them, but you’re angry at yourself as well.
Why did you let yourself care so much about someone who was so clearly the wrong person for you?
How could you have trusted someone you shouldn’t have? Did your bad judgment allow this to happen?
You ask yourself these things, and you’re not just angry at them but at yourself.
You’re also angry at fate, destiny, karma, God, or any other divine force you believe in.
Aren’t they supposed to take care of justice in the world?
Why did you deserve to go through something as awful as this?
Why did you have to have this devastating experience? You try to be a good person, and you surely never caused anyone harm.
All you did was let this man have your heart, but he mistreated you and left you like he never cared for you.
You used to use that heart only to show kindness to others.
You’re even the kind of person who pays attention to not hurt anyone’s feelings even unintentionally…
However, this man intentionally broke your kind heart into little pieces.
You see this heartache as an awful thing that you didn’t deserve, but you know what? When you look at it differently, you should be thankful for it.
Be grateful for the new experience, no matter how painful it is, because it will turn you into who you’re supposed to be.
The lessons it taught you will turn out to be very valuable for your future.
Every heartbreak you experience helps you see things clearly and I think that’s something to be thankful for.
Don’t you now know things you didn’t know before?
Wouldn’t you still be stuck in a bad relationship with someone who doesn’t even deserve to be in your life otherwise?
He showed you who he really is, and it hurts, but do you know what would have happened if he hadn’t?
You would be spending many more years of your life sleeping next to someone you just think you know.
It would take a long time before you realized what he’s capable of and how little you mean to him.
You’d waste so much time believing something that isn’t true.
Do you know what that means? Once you would finally realize how toxic this man is, the one to whom you gave your heart, it would hurt even worse than it does now.
He didn’t take your feelings into consideration when he broke your heart… and he would eventually do exactly the same thing.
What if he hadn’t done it now? You’d still be convinced that he’s a good guy who wouldn’t ever let himself do anything that would hurt you.
You would still think that his love for you is undying and eternal.
He would be ready to walk away from you as soon as a minor inconvenience or obstacle would occur… but you wouldn’t be aware of it.
This toxic man crushed you, but do you know what you wouldn’t have learned if he hadn’t?
You wouldn’t know how to notice the red flags that warn you of a toxic man who doesn’t really care about you.
Now that you do, you’re wiser and you’ll be more careful in the future when you choose who you’re going to give your heart to.
This heartbreak is good for what lies ahead of you and it will help you find the right man.
You’re angry at destiny but hasn’t it actually made sure that you don’t end up with the wrong man?
Hasn’t it made it possible for you to end up with the right one instead?
If you hadn’t been through this heartbreak, you wouldn’t know something else that’s very important.
You wouldn’t be able to tell whether you should get away from someone or when you should fight to save your relationship.
Knowing the difference between a jerk who’s only going to hurt you and a good guy is a very valuable lesson.
If it wasn’t for this heartbreak, you also wouldn’t have been able to realize who your true friends are.
There were those who have always been available to you. They offered you comfort and a shoulder to cry on and they listened to you.
Then there were those who were constantly too busy and never wanted to listen to your problems.
They didn’t care about trying to make you feel better.
Another thing this heartbreak made you realize is how powerful and strong you can actually be.
You didn’t think you’d be able to survive something like this and you thought it would be the worst thing that could happen to you.
Now you know that you can survive even the worst thing.
Being single isn’t the worst-case scenario and now you know that it can even be good to be alone for a while.
It’s always better to be alone than with a man who doesn’t deserve you.
Now you know that you don’t need a boyfriend to complete you because you can be fine on your own.
Maybe the most important thing this heartbreak made you see is that you shouldn’t love anyone more than you love yourself.
You used to put him first, not yourself, and now you know how important it is to make yourself a priority.
It’s not selfish, it’s just what you have to do take care of yourself.
Now you’ll take more care of yourself than ever before.
This heartbreak has also helped you come to a certain conclusion. There are people in the world who’ll break your heart even if you don’t see it coming.
You can be mad at them because of it, but you should look at it differently.
There’s a reason you crossed paths with them and, in a way, they helped you out.
They made you see things clearly and lose your rose-colored glasses.
By breaking your heart, they actually helped you learn more things than you ever would have if they hadn’t.
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