The Words That You Don’t Back Up With Actions Are Meaningless

In the end, all I want is a man whose words count for something because he stands behind them.

It sometimes seems like too much to ask, but shouldn’t it be obligatory?

Why would I want to be with someone whose actions and words entirely contradict each other?

I’m so tired of believing in empty promises and I’m sick of hearing false words.

I don’t have the time and energy to analyze you to figure out whether you’re being honest. What’s more, I don’t think that I should have to.

Men so often pretend that they care, for their own selfish reasons, and I think it’s twisted, if not even sick.

What kind of person would trick someone and use lies to take advantage of them?

How can this be considered normal?

We’re so used to men who make women fall in love with them just so they can use them.

Once they get what they want, they search for another clueless prey.

It’s all a part of the modern dating world, but am I the only one who sees something seriously wrong with that?

My emotions are not there so you can play with them, and I’m not going to allow it ever again.

I’m not afraid to give my heart to someone but I need to feel like it’s in safe hands. I think we all deserve a man we can trust completely.

If I catch a man I trust lying once, it will make me think that he’s constantly lying.

That’s the fastest way to lose trust, and the fastest way to lose my love and me.

It’s not that hard not to lie to the person who loves you.

You just need to say the things you mean, mean the things you say, and prove this by being consistent.

It’s really not hard, and I act that way all the time. It would be nice to know that someone cares enough to do the same for me and be there for me.

Everyone deserves someone they can call at any time, even in the middle of the night, if they’re feeling helpless.

I’m tired of people being there only when it’s a sunny day.

I need a person who’ll stay with me when the dark clouds come and maybe that person would even hold an umbrella over my head…

Nevertheless, you don’t need to fix my problems and save me; just be there for me while I’m trying to patch things up.

All the help I need to fix them is to know that you care enough to stick by me while I’m gathering the strength to.

I need you to be so sincere that I will never have any doubts.

Yes, sometimes the truth is hard to hear, but I still prefer it over lies.

I can handle any truth, but I can’t handle trusting someone who is capable of lying to me.

The truth could never break my heart like lies would, no matter how much it hurts.

When I’m in a relationship, I need to know where I stand and who I’m with at all times. There’s simply no point any other way.

If we’re on rocky ground, it’s impossible to build anything, let alone something lasting. Plus trust doesn’t grow on rocky ground…

And without trust, we’re just two suspicious strangers pretending that we’re in a loving relationship.

If I’m afraid that you’ll end up breaking my heart, I can’t truly give my all, and I want to.

We need a foundation of trust to be in a truly healthy relationship.

An apology doesn’t mean anything if afterward, you do what you’re allegedly sorry about again.

You can say, “I am sorry,” in the most touching, seemingly honest, and heartwarming way.

But how could it mean something if you continue to do the exact same hurtful thing again and again?

I can understand that problems occur and mistakes happen.

Still, repeating those mistakes means that you don’t respect me at all.

You don’t care about the way your actions affect me and make me feel.

I need you to say that I’m the only girl in your life. This is something I’ve heard before, but the tricky part is that I need you to really mean it.

You shouldn’t lie, you shouldn’t cheat, and it’s also important not to promise something if you can’t keep your word.

Those three things are the secret behind long-lasting, successful, healthy relationships.

I think it’s invaluable to know for sure that you’re everything to someone and that they wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize your relationship.

If you care about someone, you need to prove that with your actions, not just with your words.

I don’t need you to tell me every day that you love me… but I need to feel and see that love each day.

I need to be sure that you’ll always be there for me. Your actions tell me much more than your words ever could.

When you kiss me in the morning and give me a long cuddly hug to say goodnight, it speaks louder than words.

I need you to send me a text every day to know that I’m on your mind.

If you don’t do that but you say later that you were thinking about me, how can I know that it’s true?

I want you to stay beside me and hold my hand during hard times. We should try to make each other happy and really be content together.

I need you to be loyal and show that you’re ready to make the effort for me.

Real love is one that you can feel, not just hear and express with words.

I think we all deserve that kind of love. Without it, we’re just believing in a fairy tale someone else is making up.

A man who truly loves you won’t tell you fairy tales, he’ll make you feel like you’re living in one.

The words that he doesn’t back up with actions are meaningless.

When you’re loved, you feel loved, you don’t just hear about it.