You instantly felt a connection the day you met him.
You had your share of bad boyfriends, but with this one, it felt different. Talking to him gave you a sense that you finally belong to someone.
He made you feel alive and you thought that he’d give you the world.
You didn’t need any label of what you officially were because you deeply felt like he belonged to you.
And he felt that connection too. The way he looked at you, how calmly he listened, he just understood you on a deeper level.
But after a while, he started to change. The more you made an effort to make him feel loved, the less he appreciated you.
He stopped appreciating your love, your tenderness, and all the ways you loved him.
The sad thing is, you feel it too. You see him pushing you away as more people try to get his attention.
Now you feel like he isn’t afraid of losing you at all because, at the end of the day, he knows you’ll always take him back, no matter what.
But you have to stop fighting for someone who only says that he loves you but doesn’t back up those words with actions.
Because no matter how hard you try to convince him that you love him, you’ll end up being the only one fighting for survival.
There’s no room for happiness in a relationship where only one party does everything to make it work.
You’re forcing yourself to be in a relationship where there’s no light at the end of the tunnel.
You’re ripping yourself from the possibility to have a happy future by fighting for someone who isn’t afraid of losing you.
I understand you’re suffering right now. I understand the pain you feel. But you have to stop fighting for him and start loving yourself.
Prioritize yourself and show him you have the courage to walk away. Choose yourself over him when he can’t make that decision.
You should never be with someone who isn’t afraid of losing you because, without you, his life wouldn’t be that beautiful.
I get it, he made you feel special and gorgeous, but you shouldn’t choose to fight for him if he isn’t ready to do the same for you.
He isn’t putting in the effort that you need from him and that’s why he isn’t afraid of losing you.
So why are you fighting for him?
Stop running in a never-ending circle of despair and sorrow, and stop torturing yourself mentally.
It’s not easy to give up on someone you love and hold dear to your heart. But it’s your only option if he isn’t afraid of losing you.
You can’t just say “I don’t love you anymore” and you can’t hit a reset button on your heart, because there ain’t one for that.
But you can stop fighting for his love and attention.
The reality will sink in and you’ll have to accept that all the fighting was in vain.
But wouldn’t that hurt less than constantly choosing to fight for someone who isn’t afraid of losing you?
Save yourself before it’s too late. Save your heart from being broken over and over again by a guy who doesn’t appreciate your love for him.
Save yourself before you give any more of yourself to a guy who won’t lift a finger to make you happy.
Ask yourself: How long will you be able to keep on fighting for him? How long before you realize that he isn’t worth your time or effort?
Love shouldn’t make you feel the way you feel right now. It shouldn’t be so hard to love someone and if it does, then it’s not true love.
Be with someone who is genuinely afraid of losing you, because you’re the one responsible for making their life beautiful.
Be with someone who executes his love, and doesn’t just say those three little words.
He has to show his love for you with his actions, effort, and patience.
Be with someone who appreciates you in a million different ways.
Be with someone who’ll hold you tight in his arms after you yell and scream at him because he finds you beautiful even in those moments.
Someone who’ll say “This is a problem I want to have.”
Be with a guy who knows that it’s not about the way you look at each other, but how deeply you care for each other.
You deserve one who truly appreciates you and would never see you just as an option – because he would make you his only option.
You don’t deserve this guy who isn’t afraid of losing you. A guy who only treats you right when it’s convenient for him.
For all the effort and time you put into your relationship, you deserve much more and you know that.
If he’s not ready to give you what you deserve, then why are you still fighting for him?
When you think about it, if loving someone who is wrong for you is so strong and passionate, imagine how awesome would be to love a guy who’s right for you and terrified at the thought of losing you.
But you’ll never find out if you continue fighting for a guy who isn’t afraid to lose you.
Save your energy and time for someone who’ll deeply care for you. Someone whose actions speak louder than words.
Otherwise, you’ll never experience what it means to truly love someone and have that other person love you back with the same intensity and passion as you do.
Don’t lose yourself for someone who doesn’t deserve you. You have the right to say “I’m done with you” and move on with your life alone.
It’ll be tough, but you have the strength to move forward without him holding you back.
Don’t be afraid to lose anyone who isn’t afraid of losing you.
Be patient. Wait for the guy who’ll do everything that it takes to be with you.
And when you meet him, then you’ll understand why it didn’t work out with this one.