Stop Believing His Excuses, As He Isn’t Going To Change!

I know that you firmly believe his behavior and attitude toward you will eventually change. You think that things will be better tomorrow once the sun rises.

And I know that you want him to change because your life without him seems to be meaningless. However, we both know that things don’t always end up the way we want them to be.

You love him with all of your heart. You honestly believe that he’s your soulmate, that he’s the one who gives you the strength to keep going, but have you ever wondered whether he’s the one whose love puts you in chains?

I know that you’ve never seriously considered leaving him because the thought of it gives you goosebumps and you become paralyzed every time you think about it.

However, his toxic behavior has taken over your life and getting away from it seems like an impossible mission for you now.

Stop believing his excuses, as he isn’t going to change!

Another thing I know is that you’ve been through hell and back just so you could give him another shot. You put a fake smile on your face just so other people don’t see how much you’ve suffered for the past couple of years.

The love you feel right now isn’t healthy at all. It’s actually breaking your heart into a million pieces and he’s using the love card so that he can manipulate you in any way he seems appropriate.

However, you shouldn’t settle for crumbs of love and affection or meaningless words while your tears are rolling down your face each night.

You lie there in an empty apartment, thinking how your love life would be better if he only knew how much he means to you. But he’ll never realize that.

Darling, you’re settling for someone who isn’t worth your time or effort. Can’t you see that you deserve so much more?

You won’t be able to hold on to something that’s long gone. Any love he had for you died a long time ago and there’s no way to rekindle it.

You shouldn’t believe in his excuses because he doesn’t know what true love really means.

I know that you’re refusing to open your eyes to see a simple truth because you know you’ll be heartbroken.

But with each day that you give him another chance, your soul is being more and more drained and soon you’ll feel empty and devastated.

You’re holding on to the one person who is responsible for you feeling that way.

On top of that, you call it love because you don’t think that you’ll find anyone better than him. You’re also scared of being lonely.

Trust me when I say that it’s better to be alone than to feel lonely in a relationship.

He’s damaging your mental health and self-worth and you still believe in his excuses when he says that he’s going to change. He won’t!

He takes everything from you when it suits him and doesn’t give anything back to you. He’s a selfish, immature boy who doesn’t know how to properly love another person.

Think about how many times you’ve said that tomorrow is going to be better and yet again, he got away with his selfishness.

How long will you be able to endure this before finally realizing that he’s not the one for you? How long will you continue to sacrifice yourself for someone who doesn’t see your worth?

You’re holding on to something that isn’t even there anymore. You imagine your perfect life with him and how things could be but he doesn’t even see a future with you.

Unfortunately, you’re the only one who sees that. You live in an imaginary world and it won’t take long before that illusion you have disappears.

He’ll definitely do something wrong that will shatter your illusion into a million pieces.

I’m wondering how you haven’t been able to see the ugly truth? Why didn’t you open your eyes and leave him for good?

Why did you allow your heart to suffer this much? Do you really need someone to tell you the things you already know?

Are you really refusing to accept the simple truth that this man isn’t the right one for you?

Stop believing his excuses, as he isn’t going to change!

Even though you love him, you have to accept the fact that some men are just selfish, self-centered egomaniacs who don’t care about anyone except themselves.

No matter how much you love them, they won’t change for you because they don’t think you’re worth it. And you could be the nicest person in this world but still, such a man doesn’t realize he needs to change.

So, stop breaking your heart and stop believing his excuses. Stop wasting your time and stop wasting your life on a selfish, egotistical, immature boy. 

You deserve so much more. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.

And you deserve a man who’ll be there for you when you need him and who plans a future with you. Someone who’ll make promises and back them up with his actions.

Life has so much more to offer to you than this guy. I know that you can’t picture your life without him but you’ll only hate yourself later on because you couldn’t see a simple truth.

By staying in a relationship with this manipulative guy, you’re denying yourself the chance to meet the right one. No matter how many times you forgive him, he isn’t going to see your worth.

Stop believing his excuses, as he isn’t going to change! He isn’t the man you’re looking for.

Stop giving yourself to someone who isn’t going to love you the same way you love him. So, wipe the tears from your cheeks and hold your head high.

Once you finally accept the bitter truth, you’ll be able to find the love of your life. And trust me, this guy will regret losing the girl who loved him more than herself.