After too many heartbreaks, you lose all faith in love. You start believing that love will never find you and that you simply aren’t destined to feel it.
Real love, where everything feels out of this world. Where you don’t have to struggle with expressing your emotions because he knows how you feel.
He just looks at you and understands what’s going on in your head.
He comforts you like no one else, hugs you when you need it the most and supports you like the biggest fan the world has ever seen.
You want that. All of that.
You want someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. The one who will love you like you are the only girl in his world.
And you know that you deserve much more than you’re currently getting.
However, instead of that amazing feeling, the only thing you have right now is crumbs.
Crumbs of love. Tiny pieces of love that don’t make you happy because they are not what you deserve.
They don’t turn your world upside down. Instead, it stagnates. It makes you feel like you have something, but that something is not what you truly want.
This is how it goes…
You find a guy, and he seems like a nice dude.
He says he loves you and he knows how to support you when you feel down, but everything else is missing.
No spark, no understanding, and no real emotions that make you tremble in front of him. He’s not the real one; you feel it in your bones.
You run into another guy. He seems nice, knows how to make you laugh, but guess what?
You don’t feel that he is the right one for you either. So you look for the next one, and the next one, and on and on (for what feels like an eternity).
You’ve tried and tried, but no one knows to love you the way you deserve to be loved.
All of them see you as too much, too needy, or too complicated. So, you start asking yourself “Where is the one for me?
Will I ever find someone who will love me for the person I really am?”
You don’t want to pretend to be something you aren’t just so that he will start appreciating you. Instead, you want to be real, true to yourself, and honest about the way you feel.
You don’t want him to run away when he sees the real you. You want him to stay no matter how hard things get.
I know that it feels like that day will never come.
It feels like there is no chance that you will ever find the one who will love you unconditionally, even when he sees you at your worst.
I know that after many heartbreaks, you don’t feel that real love is possible.
But trust me, one day, you will wake up and you will realize that things are finally the way they are supposed to be.
You will realize that the guy standing next to you is the one who is meant to be.
He will be the one who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. He will cherish you and support you, and will always have your back.
You won’t be able to hide your feelings in front of him because he will see them.
He will know how you feel by simply looking into your eyes.
And he will know what to say to you to make you feel better, to give you a push in the right direction.
He will fight your battles with you because he knows that you are scared of the dark world outside of your little fortress.
But as long as he’s there, you will feel better.
He will hold your hand when things get hard, and show you that you can do everything you imagine.
He’ll know how strong you like your coffee and how you touch your hair when you are nervous.
He will know the sound of your laugh when you are genuinely happy and the one when you are pretending to be.
But best of all, he will know how to make everything better.
He will know how to inspire you, cheer you up, or show you your worth. He will show you how much he cares.
Today, tomorrow, forever. And he will never stop showing it because he knows that you deserve to be loved.
Just the way you are, you will be perfect to him.
He would never ask you to change as he sees no imperfections in you. No flaws, just an amazing human being standing in front of him.
You will know that it’s real; you will feel it in every atom of your body. No pretending, no chase, no drama. Perfectly simple love that just feels right.
Everything will be the way it should be when you find the one who will love you the way you always deserve to be loved.
And all of your previous failures will finally make sense.
You will understand that they were only obstacles you were destined to face in order to reach the real one.
Step by step, it may seem like a slow process, but you have finally arrived at your destination.
Finally, you will feel the love you have always deserved to feel.
Your worlds will collapse and turn into one and you will feel that you are home. You will knock on his door. He will let you in. It will all seem right.
Trust me when I say that someday, someone will love you the way you deserve to be loved.
And you will know when that day comes, because after that, nothing will be the same. Instead, everything will feel better.