Are you afraid that he might leave you? Well, then it’s time for you to read all the signs he doesn’t love you anymore.
The first thing you need to know is that a break-up isn’t the end of the world. After all, would you rather see the signs he doesn’t love you every day for the rest of your life?
If your boyfriend is showing signs he doesn’t love you, a break-up is the right choice. Why would you want to be with someone who ignores you?
You’re scared that he might leave you, but it’s very possible that he still has feelings for you other than love. His respect for you might be what’s causing him to stay in this relationship he isn’t invested in anymore.
However, just because he still might have some feelings for you doesn’t mean that you should stay in that relationship. What is a relationship without love?
If your boyfriend is showing signs he doesn’t love you, it’s better for you to leave him. You deserve to be loved more than you could possibly imagine.
This is just the wrong person for you, and you need to learn something from this experience. Still, realize that you’re wasting your time with this person who doesn’t love you anymore when you could be with a man who will give you the moon on a string.
Some other guy will love you wholeheartedly, and you deserve nothing less so don’t let yourself waste another second with a man who is showing signs he doesn’t love you.
The only thing that’s left for you to give that man is the benefit of the doubt, until you read all the signs he doesn’t love you and find out for sure.
If he ignores you and you have a lack of communication in your relationship, those are just two of the signs he doesn’t love you. Let’s look at all of them and finally find out the truth!
Keep reading because I have prepared all the signs he doesn’t love you, so you will know for sure.
Stay strong and don’t let it discourage you from finding your one true love! If this guy is not the one for you, it’s better to know sooner rather than later.
Signs he doesn’t love you
1. He ignores you
Do you feel like you don’t even exist anymore? Did he start living a life of his own?
Maybe before, the two of you made all the decisions together, but now you don’t know his plans anymore.
Does he get weird and start pretending he’s alone when you’re there? It seems like he won’t even ask you for something he needs anymore.
2. He lost the need to communicate with you
Is there a lack of communication in your relationship? Well, that’s a really bad sign, because it’s actually even worse than when he’s ignoring you.
If he has lost interest in you, he lost the need to communicate, and that’s serious because it’s on a deep level.
It’s not just that he doesn’t talk to you, but he stopped communicating altogether, which includes body language and eye contact as well.
It shows that it’s time for you to accept that what you had is gone.
What’s the point in trying to work things out when he won’t even talk to you? It’s over, and you need to realize it.
3. He avoids you
Does it seem like you don’t see each other at all, even if you’re living together? Well, this is more than just a coincidence.
He probably knows your daily routines by now, as well as your schedule, so he knows exactly when you’re going to get home. Is it then a coincidence that he’s not there once you do get home?
Men have a bad habit of avoiding a woman when they no longer love her, so that she will realize that it’s over before he even tells her.
Do you rarely spend time together? If he is avoiding you, this is a very bad sign that shows he wants out.
4. He isn’t involved in your life
Did you used to do a lot of things together, but that seems to be ancient history now? It seems like he has given up on all the things that interest you.
Does he hate your hobbies? All of a sudden, all your hobbies seem irrelevant to him and not respecting your interests is a sign that even you have become irrelevant to him.
Did he also ditch your friends? He used to love spending time with your friends and you, but now, when you ask him out, all you get is rejection.
It looks like he is trying to completely remove everything about you from his life until he gets the courage to let you know that you need to go too.
5. He is harsh with his words and displays rude behavior
Is your boyfriend suddenly rude? Whether it’s in public or in private, he seems to have only harsh words for you.
It looks like he has stopped choosing what to say and just doesn’t have feelings for you anymore. He is a coward, so he can’t tell you, but he is showing you that with his rude behavior and harsh words.
When your boyfriend acts like this, confront him about it, or simply leave him.
6. He humiliates you
It seems like he always finds a way to make you feel bad and put you down.
Does he crack jokes at your expense when you’re with family and friends? His humiliating behavior never seems to stop, and you’re not sure when it even started.
Could it be that it started when he stopped loving you?
At first, he would just occasionally say something offensive, so you just thought that he was in a bad mood. Still, he has continued to act like this, and you can’t even remember a time when he treated you with the respect you deserve.
A lot of people ignore this type of behavior because it’s much nicer to be in denial, but when a joke becomes personal, it isn’t funny anymore.
7. He is secretive
Is your boyfriend secretive all of a sudden? I’m talking about when he takes a call in another room and leaves without telling you where he’s going or with whom.
That’s a very bad sign, and it shows that he doesn’t care about you as much as he used to.
You’re worried when you don’t know where he’s going, but he doesn’t have a need to tell you anyway. He doesn’t really care that you’re worried because he probably doesn’t care about you anymore.
8. He lies to you
When it comes to lies, you don’t need me to tell you that that’s not something a man would do if he really loved you.
Hiding things from you shows his lack of respect for you, so he’s actually showing you that he doesn’t respect you anymore.
He doesn’t have the courage to tell you that it’s over, so he uses lies as a way of showing you that. You’re going to have enough of his lies and leave, and he’s probably counting on that.
9. He hides his phone
Does he move his phone screen so you can’t see who he’s texting? Is it impossible for you to check his phone because he always has it by his side or is hiding it somewhere?
That’s what I call a cheating alert.
Is your man having an affair? Take a look at our article on what it means when a man hides his phone.
10. He is hot and cold
Is he ready to give you the moon on a string at one point, and the next moment, he ignores you like you don’t even exist?
Why does this happen? Well, the truth is, your man isn’t as emotionless as you think.
Even though he might not love you anymore, he still has some feelings for you. He can’t just erase the past he had with you, even if he has decided to leave you.
Being hot and cold is his way of showing you that he still isn’t sure whether he will leave you or not.
Still, don’t get your hopes up, because he’s probably going to leave at some point, no matter how nice he acts when he thinks he won’t.
11. He has a short fuse
Does your boyfriend get angry easily, even at trivial things? It looks like his tolerance level has started to drop more and more, and he now has a short fuse.
Is your romantic comedy starting to look more like a horror movie? He is getting more impatient each day.
Does he often yell at you for no real reason? Does he make a fuss about things that don’t matter?
Basically, he’s screaming that he wants to end things with you and this is something that has happened to a lot of women. A man loves you more than anything, and suddenly, he gets distant and starts playing tricks to get rid of you.
12. He stopped telling you he loves you
Maybe you were the most adorable couple in the world who used to say, “I love you,” every chance they got.
Now, that has changed, and he has stopped telling you altogether that he loves you.
Just the fact that he’s not saying the L-word doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you anymore, but if his actions also show he doesn’t care, it’s clear.
13. He doesn’t try to make you happy anymore
Has he stopped doing all the little things he used to do to make you feel special and happy?
The problem is that he isn’t even trying to make you happy anymore, as if it doesn’t really matter to him.
He is completely indifferent and has stopped caring about you and when that happens, you know that your relationship is soon to be over.
14. He compares you to other girls
You should dress like a random woman he saw on the street, change your hairstyle to look like another one, and be more like a third one…
He says these things because he sees nothing wrong with comparing you to other women.
Does he even compare you to his ex-girlfriend? Maybe he mentions her in a conversation just so he could let you know that you should be more like her.
That hurts, and it’s downright cruel. Why does he need to bring other women, especially his ex, into your relationship?
15. You never hear him say he’s sorry
When was the last time he apologized to you when he was wrong?
If you mess things up, he wants to get an apology right away, but he never apologizes to you, no matter how wrong he is.
When he messes things up, he just acts as if nothing happened instead of saying he’s sorry. This shows the lack of respect he has for you because he doesn’t care if your feelings get hurt.
16. He doesn’t make you a priority
You feel like you’re at the bottom of his list of priorities. When he has a choice between you and something else, he will never choose you.
The truth is, when a man loves you, he’ll always put you first, and you’ll never feel like you’re not a priority to him.
Such a man would drop everything just to come and help you when you need him. If your boyfriend is different, it’s probably because he doesn’t love you anymore.
17. He never talks about your future together
He probably doesn’t want you to be a part of his future, and that is why he avoids talking about the future with you. Right now, he needs you, but he doesn’t have any long-term plans with you.
When you’re with a man who doesn’t want you to be a part of his future, stop being a part of his present and make sure you’re just his past.
18. He takes you for granted and doesn’t put in any effort
Does your boyfriend take you for granted? Has he stopped trying?
He doesn’t put effort into the relationship anymore and takes you for granted because he’s sure that you’ll love him either way.
These things might seem normal when you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, but in fact, they aren’t. What it is, is a sign that he has stopped caring about you.
He doesn’t want to lift a finger for you, and it’s because he doesn’t love you anymore.
19. Everything about you irritates him
You know how you think everything the person you love does is cute and funny? Well, the same way, when you can’t stand someone, even the fact that they’re breathing irritates you.
Is this what’s going on in your relationship? He used to think everything you did was cute, but now all those things annoy him.
The truth is, he is tired of this relationship and wants out. Maybe he is having trouble accepting that, or he feels guilty about it, but if he’s frustrated by everything about you, he has no more feelings for you.
20. He doesn’t text you anymore
Has his behavior changed, and he became distant and cold? Naturally, the honeymoon phase can’t last forever, but there should still be effort in the relationship.
Such effort is texting. When was the last time he told you he missed you over text?
When you first started dating, you texted each other all the time, but now he never seems to send you a text anymore.
Don’t fall for his excuses that he forgot about it even though he meant to text you, because it’s impossible to forget about the person you love.
21. He criticizes you all the time
Constant criticism might seem constructive at first, but it could seriously harm your self-esteem.
Does your boyfriend always find a way of making you look inferior in your relationship? If so, it’s pretty clear that he no longer loves you.
Don’t put up with his abuse; tell him how much it bothers you if he isn’t aware of it, but if he doesn’t stop, leave him.
22. He has no respect for your boundaries
Respecting your partner’s boundaries is essential for a healthy relationship.
A clear validation of your boundaries is if your partner talks about some of your personal issues behind your back. These things should be kept private, and you would expect the person you love to be aware of that.
23. Nothing you do is ever enough for him
Does he make you feel like you’re not good enough?
It sounds like he might be a narcissist because they love making their victims feel incapable and inferior. Your insecurities are like food for him.
Maybe he gives you a certain task and makes you believe that it will make him happy, so, naturally, you do your best to satisfy him, but then he tells you that you did it wrong.
He won’t ever give you credit because he doesn’t love you and is only using you.
Read our other article to find out if you’re dealing with a narcissist.
24. He is never jealous
Let’s face it, all guys get jealous, no matter how good they are at hiding it, but what if your man really never gets jealous?
Does he show any signs of jealousy? If not, it’s a very bad sign.
The reason why men get jealous is that they are afraid that someone will take their girl away from them so if your man doesn’t show signs of jealousy, he might actually be looking forward to someone taking you away from him.
If he never has a problem with you being around guys all the time or having a girl’s night out without telling him where, then he might not be jealous at all. That’s a red flag and a sign that he doesn’t really care that much about you.
25. He wants to change you
Always remember that you need to stay true to yourself and not let a man change you. If your boyfriend doesn’t appreciate you for who you are with all your virtues and flaws, you shouldn’t even be with him.
Does he think that he’s perfect while you need to improve a lot of things about yourself? He wants you to adapt and change according to his wishes, and you should ask yourself why he even got involved with you if you’re so imperfect.
Does he even believe that he has nothing to do with the problems in the relationship? I bet if you asked him, he’d say that you’re the problem.
Don’t let him do that and never let anyone convince you to become someone you’re not.
26. It doesn’t bother him when you’re upset
It’s easy to love a person when everything is going great, but they say ‘in sickness and in health’ for a good reason.
True love is about loving someone even when there are a lot of problems. Your boyfriend should be willing to do anything just to turn that frown upside down when you’re upset.
What I’m saying is that he should love you even more when there’s something bothering you because that’s when you need him to love you the most.
He doesn’t love you anymore if he doesn’t do anything when you’re upset. A man who loves you couldn’t bear to just stand there and do nothing while you’re feeling down.
27. Your fights are about wanting to hurt each other
Does he want to hurt you when you’re fighting? A lot of people say things they don’t mean when they are fighting, but in the end, they resolve things that weren’t clear and make up.
Are your fights different? Maybe you are just screaming at each other and saying a lot of mean and hurtful things.
It’s like a game where you both try to hurt each other as much as you can… That’s a game where no one comes out as the winner. After all, you don’t ever resolve a problem, it’s just about who gets to hurt the other person more.
It seems like all you really do is fight all the time and that’s a sign your relationship is on life support.