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Watch Out: 10 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Is Using You

Watch Out: 10 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Is Using You

There are a couple of signs an Aquarius man is using you. However, not everyone is aware of them in the beginning as this zodiac sign has several tricks up its sleeve.

You wouldn’t be able to tell straight away if they’re really sincere about their feelings for you. But, every once in a while, we get that hunch that something just isn’t right.

This is especially true for women, who might have a sixth sense when it comes to these things. Actually, most people would just call this a women’s intuition.

It’s a strong thing really and works most of the time. But can a hunch be enough of an argument to confront an Aquarius man or second-guess his feelings towards you?

You’ll definitely going to need more than that. Aquarius is a smart sign and one that can’t be played quite easily. However, no one has the right to take an advantage of you in any way.

Sometimes, even the signs that an Aquarius man is using you can’t be easily comprehended and accepted. Women tend to do this a lot – they ignore the truth that’s right in front of them.

It’s not our fault that we only want to love and be loved! Somehow, we end up trusting our partners more than they deserve. Eventually, with all the signs piling up, that trust slowly starts to diminish.

So, is an Aquarius man really using you, and what for? How is this zodiac sign able to carry on with their plan and what is it really that you’re missing out on? You’re about to find out!

10 signs an Aquarius man is using you

Watch Out: 10 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Is Using You

The first step you have to take is to trust your gut. It’s sometimes easier said than done, but if you have even the smallest alarm bell going off in your head, it means something’s off.

Even if you don’t really believe in your instincts, you know they’re still there and are trying to protect you. Think of them as your guardian angels that pop up anytime you need them.

Why should you listen and follow your instincts when you have this immense love and trust for an Aquarius? Well, the truth is that your instincts can help you view the full picture and see things from a different perspective. It’s always someone on the side who sees the situation in its true light.

Instincts aren’t subjective like you, but quite contrarily. Therefore, they just might be saving you from getting in trouble.

The more you start to trust your guts, the more and more truth will unravel right in front of your eyes. You won’t have to do a lot of work, everything will eventually fall into its place.

To be honest, you wouldn’t really expect to find out that an Aquarius man is using you. But I guess we can all make some mistakes. So, take a look at the following patterns of behavior and try to figure out if any of these sound familiar.

The more of them you notice, the higher the chances that you’re being used by a man you like.

1. He doesn’t appreciate you

If you feel like this one might be a bit too obvious, well you’re wrong. Perhaps an Aquarius man is being too obvious but you just can’t see it since you’re so in love with him.

But once you finally open your eyes, this is the first sign you should be looking for. If you constantly find yourself wishing for his approval, praise, or gratitude, then this might be it.

You’re not the problem; he is. Don’t beat yourself up because you didn’t get a simple thanks from him. It can make you feel as if you’re giving your all but to no avail.

Most of the time, you can end up believing that you could’ve done better and tried harder. But if you’re really the only one who’s putting in the effort, then is it worth it?

The unfortunate thing is that this doesn’t stop here. Sadly, once you get into this endless loop of constantly trying to please him and make him proud of you, it’s hard to get out.

You probably know this already, but maybe you need to hear it from someone else. If he doesn’t respect you and treat you right, he’s no good for you.

2. He’s never in the mood

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At the beginning of your romantic relationship, you always think about all the amazing and fun things you’re going to do with your partner.

Well, at least it’s supposed to be like that. However, as time progresses, you find the reality to be far from your imagination. Perhaps you only have high expectations?

Definitely not. If an Aquarius man is really using you, these couple of signs will help you figure it out. For instance, he’s always cranky and never in the mood to try something new.

He doesn’t want to go out after work because he’s too tired or he doesn’t want to meet up with your friends because they’re too boring.

These are only some of the poor excuses he’s constantly making just to avoid spending time with you. If this isn’t one of those red flags then I don’t know what is.

As any woman out there who just wants to be a good girlfriend, you might think how he’s had a rough day or leans more towards the introvert side.

Therefore, you’ll even start making up excuses to your friends as to why you couldn’t meet up with them once again. You may even offer to cook for him and have a stay-in movie night.

But no matter what you do, things won’t seem to change for the better. Over time, you start to realize that anything you do and anything you propose just isn’t good enough.

3. All he does is banter with you

Perhaps you don’t see anything wrong with this. Everyone enjoys a good chit-chat from time to time, right? If you’re involved in a romantic relationship with someone, it doesn’t have to mean that you must sit down and have deep, meaningful conversations all the time.

Of course, but take a minute and think about it. Have you ever had a real and proper conversation with your partner before or is it just small talk?

If he’s just playing with you, then you’re probably all too familiar with his dislike of those midnight conversations. And each time you reach a serious topic, he somehow manages to wriggle out of it.

Maybe he’s tired once again or just doesn’t feel like talking about it right now. Perhaps it’s not the right time to talk about serious stuff or he has plenty on his mind right now.

All of these are different excuses and signs an Aquarius man is using you. Moreover, they’re his strategies that seem to be working. He changes them up a little, but the core and the goal stay the same.

This can effectively make you think that you’re nagging him about something he doesn’t want to talk about. It could easily lead you to think that you’re making him distance himself from you.

You’re not annoying, he’s just not interested enough. An Aquarius man is definitely using you when you catch him pretending that he cares about what you have to say.

Most of the time, he’s absent-minded. He’s physically present, but his emotional presence is nowhere to be found. That’s why most of your talks come down to some shallow topics that don’t require a lot of thinking.

4. You don’t know his friends and family

Watch Out: 10 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Is Using You

Couples that have been dating for a longer period of time will want to arrange a meeting with their parents.

To most people, parents are really important figures in their lives, as well as their partners. Therefore, those who want to take their relationship to the next level oftentimes choose to meet each other’s friends and family.

It’s an important decision, so it doesn’t come as quickly and early on in the relationship. We usually meet our partner’s parents later than we become acquainted with their group of friends.

It’s a lot easier to make connections with people who are more similar to us and it usually goes without any problems. But what if you never got there?

One of the signs an Aquarius man is using you is if he keeps avoiding to introduce you to people who mean the most to him. Does he really value and love you if he tries to skip that part?

Does he often go to friend gatherings and gets invites for family meet-ups but doesn’t include you? He goes to parties and attends his relatives’ weddings, but it’s all by himself?

I’d say that this is a major red flag, especially if you’ve been an item for quite some time now and you’ve openly discussed wanting to meet them.

Of course, he never said no; it was more of different kinds of excuses. You don’t have anything in common with his friends and they’re just a bunch of guys he hangs out with. Guy stuff.

His family would drive you mad and overwhelm you with a ton of questions. It’s a big family and you won’t be able to cope with all of them, and on and on and on.

5. He’s distant

One of the signs an Aquarius man is using you is that he’s cold towards you. He doesn’t give you the love and attention you deserve or give back to him.

Maybe you’ve never mentioned this to him before thinking it’s just the way he is. Believe it or not, even the hardest stones crack when they meet the right person.

I’m not saying you’re the wrong person for him or that you’re not able to make him come out of his shell. I’m saying how I don’t really believe this is about a shell…

If you feel like he’s not treating you as a partner is supposed to, you’re probably right. Remember that hunch we mentioned earlier? It’s safe to say that it’s right in most situations.

Unfortunately, most women usually just wait for that hunch to go away and they think it’ll all be over after it’s gone. But once they realize it’s not passing by, they start to question the love their partner has for them. With an Aquarius man, things are really simple.

Once he loves someone, he’s going to show it. It doesn’t have to mean that he is going to shout it out to the whole world, but he’ll make sure his partner knows this.

On the other hand, if he’s not really into it, you’ll feel it too. You’ll feel the distance that’s separating you and the coldness that surrounds you.

So, if he doesn’t tell you he loves you, doesn’t shower you with affection, and never seems interested in you then there’s not much to say.

6. He doesn’t see a future with you

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This sign just might be one of the hardest ones. It’s never easy to grasp the fact that your beloved one doesn’t want to plan a future with you.

This is hard to take and it’s never easy to get over this fact. We’re talking about a person that you love and look up to, the one you were supposed to rely on.

Sure, sometimes things just don’t work out. But, you don’t see anything that went wrong, yet you know he doesn’t include you in any of his future plans.

Before you start to blame yourself, try looking at things from different angles. Your relationship may not be a successful one but who is really to blame?

Of course, you’re blaming yourself because you think you’ve had high expectations, to begin with. But the truth is a bit different than you’d think.

Let me tell you something about an Aquarius. This sign is really determined and they usually know what they want. Therefore, if he still hadn’t talked to you about your future, then you should know what’s up.

His lack of interest and the fact that he doesn’t see you in his future life is one of the signs an Aquarius man is using you, trust me.

This air sign is quite organized, so you’d definitely know about his long-term plans and generally about the stuff he wants to do.

They have clear and set goals they want to achieve someday as they’re a highly ambitious zodiac sign as well. Sorry to break it to you, but if you’re not in those plans, he’s only using you.

7. He exhibits sudden mood swings

For an organized and calm sign that he usually is, mood swings aren’t really something you’d link to an Aquarius man.

However, you find that your partner has plenty of them and somehow they always happen when you’re around. This is a major red flag and one of the signs he’s using you.

An Aquarius man is intelligent and doesn’t let someone rock his boat that easily. Yet, his calm aura can never survive for long when you’re in his presence.

If he lashes out at you for no reason, it means that this person is rather toxic and you should stay away from him. Nobody wants a partner that’s always looking for someone to scream their face off.

This is making you extremely uncomfortable and hurt. But whenever you try to bring it up to him or when you try to ignore him, the situation only gets worse.

Unfortunately, you never seem to resolve the problem. You always end up being the bad guy because you’re constantly bringing up something he didn’t do or you simply misunderstood him.

Of course, he’ll make up some more excuses and they’ll be similar to those previous ones. He’s tired, he didn’t get enough sleep, somebody irked his nerves at work, you’re nagging him, etc.

If an Aquarius man is using you, you’ll hear this a lot. Somehow, you always end up being the reason and the trigger for his sudden mood swings.

Once again, all of the blame falls on you and you end up feeling guilty for approaching him about it. You’re stuck in between the walls and can’t find the way out because he won’t talk to you.

8. He breaks his promises

Watch Out: 10 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Is Using You

Maybe you’ve got used to it and don’t give it much thought anymore. But did your partner break any of the promises he’s made?

Did he even give you the promise that he’s going to love you forever and ever? Unfortunately, you probably got used to it to the point that you don’t even notice it anymore.

Perhaps he’s playing the card: Promises are meant to be broken. Don’t believe him. Promises are there to be kept and if you can’t keep them, don’t give any. Simple as that.

However, he doesn’t see the point in keeping any of his promises because he’s just using you. Therefore, he doesn’t value or appreciate you enough to own up to his words.

In the beginning, it was small promises, such as I’ll be there tonight or I’ll take you out somewhere nice. However, he always stood you up and made all of those poor excuses as to why he couldn’t come.

Over time, it progressed into something more. He promised to love you, keep you safe, and introduce you to his parents and friends. Unfortunately, you eventually found out that none of it happened and won’t happen.

Each time he breaks his promise, he also breaks your heart a little bit. You started to hate promises as they became bittersweet for you.

Each time he makes a new one, you’re happy and sad at the same time. You still have hope that he’s going to keep it, but you’re a nervous wreck because you know it’s likely he’s going to break it.

It’s only one of the signs an Aquarius man is using you and taking you for granted. This way, he shows that he doesn’t care if he hurts you over and over again.

9. It’s his way or the highway

Does he constantly want to have his way? He’s stubborn about it and doesn’t consider your opinion.

Aquarius is an adamant zodiac sign and knows what he wants. Therefore, it’s kind of a mission impossible to change his mind about something.

Sometimes, this can be a desirable quality, as it boosts confidence for determined people who have their goals set. On the other hand, this type of stubbornness in relationships can be unwanted.

Sure, we all want our partners to know what they want, but when do you draw a line? It’s a thin line between being determined and not wanting to compromise. If he doesn’t want to compromise and meet halfway with you on certain things, then he’s using you to his advantage.

Perhaps you already noticed that you can’t come to terms with your Aquarius partner. Sure, every couple has disagreements from time to time. But if he insists that he’s in the right every single time even though he isn’t, it’s a problem.

It means that he doesn’t care enough to hear you out and consider what you have to say. If your opinion is worthless to him, then it’s a major red flag.

10. He’s unreliable and non-supportive

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When you’re in a romantic relationship with someone, it means that you have a person you can rely on. But one of the signs an Aquarius man is using you tells a completely different story.

In the beginning, he might’ve been everything you’ve ever dreamed of. He seemed kind, loving, and someone who was ready to give you a shoulder to cry on.

Unfortunately, this proved to be false. He’s never there for you in times of need and you always deal with your problems on your own.

You’re not looking for a therapist or someone to resolve all of your problems. It’s just that you deserve to have a partner who’s going to be by your side no matter what.

Your Aquarius partner is present only when there are sunshine, rainbows, and butterflies scattered all over the place. On the other hand, he’s nowhere to be found when you come across hardships.

Watch Out: 10 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Is Using You

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