She doesn’t make you a priority anymore, as she no longer needs you, and you need to deal with it.
After all, you have no one else to blame for this but yourself.
You have never been someone she could rely on when she needed comfort or support.
You weren’t someone she could call whenever she was anxious and couldn’t sleep at night.
After refusing to put her first and ignoring her, what did you even expect to happen? It’s not a surprise that you chased this girl away.
The indifferent and cold side of you that you showed her and your bad behavior have taken their toll.
You just taught her that she could never rely on you.
She realized that she’d go through everything good and bad in her life all alone… despite being in a relationship with you.
You taught her that and weren’t even aware that you did her a favor.
I guess you didn’t see it coming, but the inevitable consequences of your actions finally happened.
She has become so independent that she started wondering what she’s even doing with you if she’s alone anyway.
Throughout your relationship, she has dealt with every bump and every phase all by herself.
She’s only had her friends to talk to, despite having a boyfriend.
Now, her friends mean a lot more to her than you, and you’re surprised? How can you be?
You just taught her that you wouldn’t ever be around. Now, she isn’t even bothered by the thought that she can’t count on you or go to you…
Not being able to get your support or help became normal.
Yes, it hurt at first, but after you did the same things again and again, she simply stopped even caring anymore.
She knows that she has only one person she can truly rely on – herself.
You just taught her that she had a soundless voice, like in some sort of a nightmare. She could scream but nothing would come out.
You’ve never heard anything she has said and didn’t want to. It was a lot easier to just ignore her and let her find a way to deal with things alone.
You just taught her that you didn’t really care about her. Every indifferent look and every reckless move just showed her how incredibly selfish you actually are.
Loving yourself is okay, and even good, but it’s not the same as being selfish.
When you love yourself, it usually makes it possible to love someone else even more.
In your case, it isn’t like that because you’re simply selfish.
Soon, she’ll finally move on and live without you. It’s bound to happen since she’s actually been living without you this whole time.
You just taught her to make all the plans completely on her own. Don’t you understand that you made her see a future that doesn’t include you?
You did her a favor by teaching her to be so independent, but you know what?
I don’t think that you had a clue that it means that she’ll eventually leave you.
One of these days, she’ll be so sick and tired of you that she won’t hesitate to walk away.
Do you know what will happen then? You’ll remain miserable, and she’ll be aware that you miss her badly, but she won’t care…
You taught her that.
It shouldn’t surprise you if she cuts off all contact with you.
After all, you’ve been ignoring her the entire time you’ve been together… You can’t suddenly start acting like you haven’t.
It shouldn’t surprise you if she refuses to have anything to do with you. You taught her to think only about herself and be selfish.
Every single day, with everything you’ve been doing, you’ve been making her learn that lesson.
She’s always kept quiet and done whatever you wanted and you never even appreciated that.
She’s always walked on eggshells around you so you wouldn’t get upset.
All she has wanted is for you to be happy, and you’ve never cared about how she feels.
How could you be surprised when she changes? You taught her that she has to take care only of herself.
Day after day, you have helped her learn all these lessons. She knows now that it’s okay to act selfishly.
It shouldn’t surprise you when she finally becomes who she was long ago, before you met.
Let me break it to you – you won’t like it.
One of these days, she’ll finally open her eyes, see things clearly, and realize something important.
She’ll become aware that you haven’t treated her the way she should be treated.
This girl will realize that she deserves better, have no doubt about it. She’ll know that all she’s ever been to you is an option and a backup plan.
One of these days, she’ll become aware that she is entirely invisible in a relationship with you.
You need to prepare yourself for getting hurt. Prepare yourself for the day when she’ll start treating you exactly the same as you’ve been treating her.
When that day comes, she’ll look into your eyes, and won’t feel anything, even if there are tears in them.
All you’ll be to her is a stranger she’ll pass by and not someone she used to be in love with.
It shouldn’t surprise you when she walks away from you. You never made any effort to make her stay and keep her around anyway.
Now, it shouldn’t surprise you when you see that she doesn’t even need you anymore.
After all, wasn’t that what you’ve been teaching her this entire time?
If you ask me, you only got what you wanted. I guess you forgot that you should be careful about what you want because you might get it.
When all this becomes clear to you while you watch her leave, don’t try to make her stay. You had your chance and you blew it.
She’ll find someone else who’ll teach her how a man acts when he’s truly in love.
You clearly weren’t.