I know that it’s been difficult for you to see but he’s changed. He’s not the same man he used to be and you have a tough time being yourself.
So remove the blindfold and see him for who he really is.
You once smiled all the time and you were joyful. Now you only hold on to the memories you two share of how happy you were when he was by your side.
But you’re tired and exhausted from your relationship with him. You can’t continue investing your time and effort into it.
You can’t keep forgiving him countless times and thinking that he’ll change when we both know that he won’t.
You’re still putting up a fight and hoping that he’ll show you why he deserves to be with you because you’re not used to giving up on love. But what you don’t realize is that you’re not giving up on love.
You’re letting go of a man who was never meant for you. You’re walking away from him because his love isn’t enough for you and it’s time for you to search for it somewhere else.
He’s far from being the right guy for you, as he doesn’t see how beautiful or amazing you are. He only sees your imperfections and that’s the reason why he doesn’t deserve you at all.
When you make him dinner when he gets home tired from work, he doesn’t appreciate you. He thinks that’s a normal thing to do.
He doesn’t respond when you send him a text message saying that you miss him because he doesn’t know how to cope with his emotions.
Instead, he just ignores everything that you throw at him and is afraid to face the situation as it really is and just leave.
He doesn’t ask you how you’re feeling or how he can help you when you’re battling your inner demons. He isn’t even happy when something good happens to you.
Taking care of your feelings and needs would be too much to ask from him, let alone anything else.
You feel like you don’t even exist, like you’re not his partner in crime or someone who stood up for him whenever others talked bad about him.
It’s breaking you apart that he only prioritizes himself and takes care of his emotions and not yours.
Whenever you say or do something nice for him, he takes you for granted and leaves you to drown in your own sorrow while he pretends to be happy with you.
He doesn’t feel the need to reciprocate anything because he wasn’t taught to behave like that. Even if it’s difficult for you to accept, he’s a narcissist in disguise who’ll never put you at the top of his priority list.
You need to remove the blindfold and see him for who he really is.
I know that he has your full attention at all times. You feel obligated to listen to everything he has to say even if it’s not something that should be your concern at all.
You only know that it’s important to him so that makes it important to you too. No matter what he does to you and no matter how badly he treats you, he knows you’ll have his back.
He’s cold with you and you repay it with your softness and warmth. You hug his emotionless body and you do your best to prove to him that you’ll always love him, while he does absolutely nothing.
You have to open your eyes and see how selfish he really is. Furthermore, you can’t be in a one-sided relationship and expect it to work out.
I know that you’re patiently waiting for him to call you but he’ll only do that when it’s convenient for him.
He’ll always receive and won’t give you anything in return. He won’t ever appreciate you for who you really are because he’s unable to see your value.
It’s about time that you listen to your gut and leave him for good. It’s been telling you that his words mean nothing and that his kisses and hugs are cold, and it’s right, they are.
He’s not the man he used to be. His mind is somewhere else whenever you two are together.
The thing is, women have this sixth sense that tells them when something is off. And sooner or later, you’ll have to face the truth and see him for who he really is.
He’s only building up your insecurities as he brings nothing to the table. He’s making you question your worth which should never happen when it comes to real love.
You think that you’re hard to love and that you’re asking for too much but you’re wrong.
His perception of love is different from yours. That’s why you can never feel truly satisfied emotionally or mentally as long as you’re with him.
So, break free from the illusion you created in your head. See things as they really are.
Yes, he was the man of your dreams. And yes, your happiness once meant everything to him.
But somewhere along the way, he got lost and decided to take a different path.
You see, he won’t stop treating you poorly and he won’t ever be ready to take your relationship to the next level. That’s why you need to gather enough strength and walk away from him.
Remember that it’s better to be single than in a toxic relationship.
Don’t stay because things won’t change for the better. They’ll only get worse.
Don’t stay in a relationship that lacks love and where your effort is being constantly underappreciated. Be brave and choose your happiness above anyone.
After all, the only way you’ll ever feel complete again is when you take care of the relationship you have with yourself.
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