Finding a normal man to date is quite tough in today’s dating scene. It’s filled with players who only want to get as many girls in their bedroom as they can, and manipulative narcissists who want to use you to satisfy their needs.
And because of that, most women don’t have much choice but to play along and hope for the best. But by doing that, they never get the opportunity to experience real love and instead let men take them for granted.
Does this sound familiar to you?
So, you met this guy who seems perfect at first. You exchange a couple of messages, play the hot and cold game with him to make him a little jealous, and pretend like you don’t care.
You’re using his own tricks against him. And while this works for a bit, it doesn’t feel right for you because you know that you can’t continue with these silly games forever.
You don’t want to be stuck in one of those almost relationships because it’s exhausting and tiring. Your wish is to have a healthy and loving relationship where the both of you can be yourself and not pretend you’re someone else.
You want him to give you respect, honesty, and warmth.
The last thing you want is a man who serves up half-truths and strategizes his every move. You want a love that flows naturally, not one hindered by too many obstacles.
That’s why if you want to be unforgettable, you have to stop playing his game. You need to have your own set of rules and not follow anyone else’s.
There’s no need for you to engage in endless manipulations and mind games because that’s not real love at all. You don’t want to stoop to his level and be that kind of a woman.
A real man should rise to your level, make you feel loved, or leave you forever!
Many women try to change themselves in order for a guy to give them his attention. But you should never change your essence and who you are – not even for love.
Stay true to yourself and set some standards. That’s the only way a man will ever love you genuinely and give you the respect that you deserve.
And having standards doesn’t mean you’re too picky, but just that you know what you want and you’re not afraid to stay alone until you find it. It also means that you’re done putting up with somebody’s poor behavior and not going to let a man disrespect you in any way.
Having standards also involves loving yourself enough to walk away from situations that make you feel unhappy.
So, if you want to be unforgettable, you have to stop playing his game.
Be the one who isn’t afraid to take a leap of faith. Be the woman who has the courage to close her eyes and fall in love.
It’s true that you may get hurt and be disappointed in love, but that shouldn’t prevent you from giving someone a chance to get close to you.
Don’t be the woman who rejects all the men and pretends like every guy is the same because you know that’s not true.
Just be the woman who refuses to be someone’s second option.
Some men are just looking to pass time and want a no-strings-attached kind of a relationship. If you find yourself in a situation like that, you tell him that may be his wish, but it won’t work for you.
Wish him luck and walk away from him. God will send you the man of your dreams one day, but you can’t notice him if you’re playing games with a guy that will lead you nowhere.
Be the woman who’ll give her all once she finds her true love. The one who’ll put all of her effort and energy to make things work.
You’re a strong woman who doesn’t give up easily, but at the same time, knows when she’s been taken for granted and will leave if necessary.
Be the woman who only chases when she’s being chased.
It’s not natural for a woman to go after someone who doesn’t go after her, so don’t ever do that.
You are a woman worthy of experiencing real love. You should never stoop so low that you wait by the phone to hear from him. Don’t drop everything just so you can see him.
You have to realize that those guys are manipulating you and playing games with your mind to get what they want. And once they achieve their goal, they’ll leave you in an instant.
Focuse on self-development. Work on yourself and become the superwoman that you are.
Be the one who always pushes herself to conquer her fears and doesn’t let anyone hold her back.
You shouldn’t let sadness stay in your life for too long. Instead, focus on things that make you happy and feed your soul with beautiful memories.
Don’t ever settle for anything less than you deserve. You know how much love, honesty, and investment you’re bringing to the table. So, why should you ever settle for less?
Don’t buy into the stories that manipulators use to lure you in. If you don’t want to be remembered as a toy then don’t let him treat you like one. Stop playing games if you want to be unforgettable.
Eventually, when you lose all interest in a man who isn’t treating you right, he’ll start looking for you. He’ll miss your smile and think about how much better his life was when you were part of it.
Once you walk away from him, he’ll realize what he’s lost. In his mind, you’ll be the girl that got away.