Don’t think that this is just some boring letter that you’ll quickly forget about after you read it. This is an intervention for you, darling.
I understand how hard it is for you to be in love with a man like that. I really do. Your heart can’t seem to break away from him because you’re head over heels for with him. You’re always trying to find an excuse whenever he does something bad to you.
And I understand it because I’ve been through that and I managed to save my soul. I, too, was blindly in love with a man. He could have done anything he wanted, but still, I’d never leave him.
I wore my heart on my sleeve and that relationship got the best of me. It was the kind of love you never forget. As time passed, he became my world. Everything that I did, my every decision was based on his opinion.
My whole world revolved around him. Our relationship became the most important thing and I pushed away everyone who tried to talk sense into me.
He became my first thought when I woke up and the last one before I went to bed. The reason I smiled every day. Essentially, he was my everything, my entire universe.
I never imagined that you could love someone that much and be so invested in a relationship in which everything around you becomes insignificant. But that proved to be fatal for me, as in the end, he became my worst nightmare.
I gave my heart and soul to a man who didn’t even realize how much I cared for him.
Because of him, I lost so many people who were dear to my heart and who loved me with everything they had.
That’s something I’ll never be able to get back and I know that it will take some time before they forgive me for mistreating them.
The truth is that man never gave me a reason to love him at all and yet, I loved him with all my heart. That kind of toxic love is very difficult to explain.
But what is love other than an unexplainable and unreasonable experience that we all seek, right?
Regardless, I know that you get my point.
I know it’s tough for you to face the bitter truth that your man is only playing you. You’re worth so much more than that and you deserve to be happy with someone else who’ll give you the world.
Someone who’ll be able to love you the same way you love him – and even more. Someone who’ll appreciate you for who you are and never try to change your silly quirks and unique flaws.
I was in your position once and I turned my back on all the people who spoke badly about him. I never believed them and thought that they were just jealous of our love.
They all tried to warn me about his toxic behavior and how he only used me whenever it suited him.
Turns out, they were never jealous in the first place. They couldn’t have been because they were the ones who could see the truth and not me.
They knew that I was living in a toxic and damaged relationship. And they realized that the man beside me disrespected me whenever he got the chance and humiliated me in front of those who meant a lot to me.
Honestly, I was infatuated with him. And I couldn’t think clearly back then.
I finally came to my senses, albeit too late. I hurt my loved ones, those very people who tried to save me from my toxic boyfriend and who wanted what was best for me.
This is my personal experience of living in a toxic relationship. I only want to get through to you because of my experience.
To share with you my side of the story to help you realize what’s awaiting you if you don’t break free from his toxic shackles.
God has nothing to do with your choice. Don’t blame it on Him for your damaged relationship.
God is always on your side and wants you to be happy. He isn’t testing your relationship and doesn’t want you to suffer like you’re suffering right now.
It’s not God’s fault that you’re going through all those terrible things. It’s your partner who you should blame. He enjoys seeing you hurt by his words and actions.
You need to wake up and come back to reality. Don’t think that your love for him will ever change him.
He won’t ever treat you the way you deserve. He’s only keeping you because he knows he has you in the palm of his hand. He’s all too aware that you’ll do anything for him to keep him in your life.
His “I love you” and “I only need you” are just lip service because his actions speak differently.
He’s good with words and isn’t afraid to lie to you to get what he wants. He’ll use any tactic to get underneath your skin so you won’t leave him.
Remember, he’s a master manipulator who only cares about himself. He needs you to feed his ego.
But please, be smarter than him. Be smarter than I was.
Leave him once and for all, and don’t look back. Don’t let him control you for the rest of your life. Don’t allow yourself to lose all the people who ever loved you because of a man who’s incapable of doing just that.
Burn that bridge down once and for all, and focus on yourself. Focus on your own happiness and you’ll feel reborn. It’s time for you to listen to that advice from your loved ones.
Take back control over your own life and stop making excuses for him! It’s time to make a change and leave him.
Trust me, you’re better living on your own than with a man who doesn’t see your worth. Remember, don’t settle for anything less than you deserve.