It’s time to move on from that guy who’s not into you.
Accepting the reality that nothing will happen between your crush and you can be devastating.
It can be even worse than getting over a real and authentic relationship.
When you have a crush or you like a guy, you create all sorts of lovely situations in your head that may or may not actually happen.
Or if you are in a relationship, sometimes love can blind you and you cannot see what the real situation actually is.
It is hard to accept that sometimes love fades away and the guy you are dating is not into you anymore.
It becomes difficult to recognize the signs that you should give up on the person you’re dating or have a crush on.
Those signs might not be so obvious, they are subtle and they can be hideous.
I really believe that women have this sixth sense and they can mostly feel when it is time to move on.
However, it is less frequently discussed when it is actually time to move on from your crush or the guy you are dating right now because he is no longer into you.
If you can recognize and relate to some of these signs, you should not take it personally, as it doesn’t reflect on you.
You are a gorgeous and amazing woman who deserves better in her life.
It is those cowardly guys who don’t have the strength to walk away from you who are the problem.
You are doing yourself a favor by making sure you know your time is precious and you know your worth.
So, when is it time to move on from your crush or the guy you are dating right now?
Well, when a guy does not initiate things first.
That is the perfect time to finally move on from that guy who’s not into you.
You know the time is right when a guy doesn’t initiate things first.
This could be that he stops making plans for your dates or doesn’t text you first and can be applied to any relationship, whether you have a crush or you’re dating them already.
If that specific person wants to see you, he will do anything he can to do so and make it happen.
There are no circumstances that give him the right to neglect you in any way. It’s as easy as that.
I know you might think it is a simple thing, but sometimes we need to remind ourselves of those basic things we should expect from guys.
I know it is hard to be patient when you like someone, but resist the urge the next time you plan to text him first.
If he cannot put minimal effort into sending you a simple text, then he is not worth your time.
You should definitely move on from the guy who’s not into you because he will drain your energy.
You might think the situation that you are in right now is not too dramatic or alarming, but you would be wrong.
Whenever you find yourself in a situation where your emotions and effort are not being reciprocated, you will definitely feel emotionally drained.
A guy who enjoys the attention will use your energy to feed his ego.
He won’t reciprocate simply because he is not into you, and it will leave you empty.
How can you give your energy and emotions to the right person if you keep spending them on the wrong one?
So, how do you know the guy is not into you?
Well, when he does not give you answers and does not prioritize you.
A guy who constantly gives you answers like, “Maybe,” or, “We will see,” is a guy who is not into you, it’s that simple.
He is probably waiting for a better catch (but remember that no one is better than you), and you are simply there to entertain him.
He may also prioritize going out with his friends rather than planning to go out with you.
Guys know when to give someone priority over other things. If they are really into you, they will find a way to spend time with you.
They will not give you answers like, “Maybe,” or something similar because they will see your worth.
They will cherish those moments when they can spend time with you.
It’s really straightforward. If you are not a priority to him, why would he be a priority to you?
You deserve so much better and should never settle for being just an option for a guy.
You should finally move on from the guy who’s not into you because you will eventually become obsessed.
If you have caught yourself spending many minutes of your day fantasizing about your crush, then it is time for you to move on from that guy.
I know it is natural, but if your brain wanders off and thinks about him most of the time, then you have a real problem.
You should never value your crush so highly because so much of you will depend on him.
The way you feel, whether you are happy or sad, will depend on the amount of attention he gives you.
Also, you should never bore your friends about every little thing your crush did or said to you.
Eventually, you will become desperate and needy for his attention.
No matter what, one man doesn’t speak for them all.
Just because one guy rejects you, it doesn’t mean every other guy will. There are great guys out there, and not all guys are the same.
You will find the right one, so don’t despair just because you haven’t found him yet.
Remember to not let a guy’s opinion of you define you.
No matter what he says or does to you, don’t stop trying to find love.
You are the one who put the effort into creating the person you are today, and no one can take that away from you.
Don’t let a man determine how you feel.
Don’t let your self-esteem crumble just because he rejects you. Be confident and know how you feel about yourself.
You deserve love, and no one can take that away from you. Not even a guy who is not interested in you.
You should move on from that guy who’s not into you.
You will find the right one as long as you have love for yourself.