You Either Want Me In Your Life Or You Don’t – There’s No Gray Area In Love
I’m sick and tired of playing that manipulative, hard-to-get game.
When it comes to relationships, I want it all in the open. Right there where I can see it. No games, no player moves, no inhibitions, no half-assed love.
I’m a woman who loves from the very bottom of her heart. I don’t pretend, and I’m not the kind of girl who is up for those casual flings.
For me, it’s simple. You either want me in your life and you do everything to keep me, or you don’t. It’s really not rocket science. It’s the way it’s supposed to be.
You see, love is something sacred. It is a profound emotion, a high-frequency vibration that should be experienced fully. It is something that can only exist once we’re ready to give in completely. There’s no gray area in love.
And if you’re 100% sure that you’re feeling that boundary, then that is not love.
This is exactly why I’m done forcing myself to accept bullshit. I’m constantly surrounded by people who are more than willing to throw their dreams and life away and settle for just about anything, as long as it makes them safe and comfortable.
Well, I’ll be damned, but I’ll never condemn myself to that life.
I’ll never date someone just for the sake of it. I will never force myself to be a part of a certain relationship just because that is supposed to give me stability. I will never be with someone who doesn’t care about me.
TO HELL with childish games.
I want passion. I want fireworks. I want FREAKING ROCKETS!
If you are not the one for me if you don’t see yourself standing next to me and igniting that fire to burn even brighter, then, please… Don’t string me along.
Just leave and let me follow my dreams. Let me search for the things that make my soul flourish. Let me find the person I was destined to be with. Let me experience what true love really means. Let me be who I want to be.
I’ve made a lot of mistakes in my life, but if there’s one thing I learned that is the fact that life is too short to take it for granted. I have to be strong enough to keep searching for what I deserve. Because, when it’s right, I’ll know it.
When it’s finally right, I’ll feel it in my heart. Because everything will progress naturally. I won’t have to force or beg anyone. I won’t have to wonder if the other person cares for me as much as I care for them.
So, hear me when I say. I’m not into hooking up. I’m not into hanging out. And I simply don’t do casual dating. What I want is LOVE. Real, all-consuming, sensual, everlasting, pure, naïve love.
I’ll stay alone for as long as I need, I’ll roam this world if I need to, but I’ll never settle for something less than I want and deserve.
It’s pretty simple. There’s no gray area in love. You either want me in your life, or you don’t.
By Stephanie Reeds for CuriousMindMagazine