Either Choose Her Or Leave Her Alone – Playing Hot & Cold Means You’re An Asshole
Don’t hurt a woman by stringing her along.
Don’t do it just because she is an attractive, smart, sexy, funny, sensual, and exquisite woman. Don’t be with her just because she is a catch. If you don’t love her and you are not prepared to choose her every day – LEAVE HER ALONE.
She is a woman, not an object designed to make you happy.
Don’t be an immature a**hole. Yes, there are times in every couple’s life when they are faced with difficult and stressful situations. And it is a human thing to think that the grass is always greener to the other side and begin imagining what their life would be like with another man or a woman who will not make life so “difficult.”
But if you feel that way and if you are not willing to make her a priority and be grateful for everything that she is that makes your life beautiful – her beauty, her laughter, her playfulness, her sense of humor, her generosity, her sharp mind, her companionship, and her love for you – and instead, you are focusing on her flaws, her insecurities, her fears, and demands, then please – LEAVE HER ALONE and don’t hurt her anymore.
And have you ever wondered that she may be angry and demanding because of you? Have you ever considered that maybe her fears and insecurities are a response to your flaky behavior?
Because, when a woman loves you but doesn’t feel safe with you, she’ll get bitter at you for not treating her the way she deserves to be treated.
Don’t torture her if you are not prepared to be there for her.
A woman in love is a fragile soul and regardless of how strong and self-fulfilled she is, she still needs to feel loved and cared for from the man she loves. She still needs to feel chosen by the one she loves.
If this is too much for you, then please, don’t play your childish games of hot and cold with her.
Don’t be an a**hole and string her along. Be a man to let her go if you can’t make her happy.
By Mary Wright for ThePowerOfSilence