She’s not looking for a relationship because she’s happy with where she is right now. She’s single, and she’s perfectly okay with it.

She’s not looking for a man because she decided that she wants to turn the attention inward. She wants to get to know herself and accept or change the parts that bother her.

She’s not looking for love because love is simply not the journey she chose for herself. She wants to explore the world and learn new things. Her heart craves fresh experiences, it seeks adventure.

She’s not looking for a relationship because she has her old wounds to heal and her broken heart to take care of. She needs time to be on her own and figure out her next steps.

She’s not looking for a man because she’s eager to see what the future has in store for her. She wants to challenge herself to work harder on her goals, reach the highest of highs and follow her own path in life.

She’s not looking for love anymore because she’s determined to let the people who are meant for her to align with her journey and somehow find her.

She’s not looking for a relationship because she’s finally started to live a life that is meaningful to her. She realized that she’s the only creator of her destiny, so she promised herself to never ever follow someone’s rules and ideas about life.

She’s not looking for a man because, after a long time of struggling to accept the reality, she finally felt what it is to be whole on your own. She realized that everything she ever looked for in someone, was already within her heart.

She’s not looking for love because her only focus is her wellbeing and her happiness. She finally stopped searching for a man who would validate her opinions and tell her she’s beautiful. She finally stopped searching for her happiness in all the wrong places.

Because now, she’s completely aware that she can give all of those things to herself and still feel loved. Right now, she’s more confident and wiser than she ever was. She’s learned that she doesn’t need someone to love her.

But, even though she has become the person she was desperately searching for, she has never given up on love.

The fact that she’s not looking for love right now has nothing to do with fear of commitment or general distrust. The fact that she has taken some time to be alone and find herself means that she wants to wait until she finds the real thing.

She’s open to life. She’s willing to let the right person come into her life. She’s open for love to find her. Only, this time, she’s not going to settle down for just about anything. She’s going to wait for something meaningful. Real, all-consuming, out-of-this-world kind of love.

She knows how much she’s worth and she will never again accept anything less than she deserves.

By Stephanie Reeds for CuriousMindMagazine